I lost 60lbs in the past year, now my weight is 150 (height 5’10”), I eat normally and am not doing anything out of the ordinary. During 10 years together my wife said I should try and lose weight, now that I have worked naked and lost weight she is very bluntly telling me I look disgusting, and is repulsed by me. She has given me ultimatum to gain weight or lose marriage. I have been taken by surprise at her reaction to my weight loss, I had imagined it was going to improve our relationship. I’m really lost for a way to respond to her, at first I said it felt like body shaming and was told that was Bull Sh*t. Should I give up trying to defend myself and just realize our marriage isn’t working?
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