You drew a very valid line in the sand of your requirements for a relationship. If you now erase that line and allow him to remain the same, you are telling him 'I can't do this on my own, I will allow you to do anything you want if I can stay in this relationship.' He will continue to push boundaries, and even if you move out, you have taught him it is not permanent. Stick to your principles. Single mothers get into new relationships all of the time. BTW him labeling you as manipulative is manipulative.
What bs is this? “I love you so you shouldn't mind if I cut your hair and ruin it, on principle, because my ex didn't mind and that demonstrates true love.”
Do you know how manipulative and immature that perspective is? How can we possibly confirm whether he loves you based on a valid desire not to have an amateur cut his hair?
How? If it's a community property state, both sides are entitled to the assets anyway
Maybe she's still sick? If she doesn't respond in the next few days, I'd assume she's not interested.
You drew a very valid line in the sand of your requirements for a relationship. If you now erase that line and allow him to remain the same, you are telling him 'I can't do this on my own, I will allow you to do anything you want if I can stay in this relationship.' He will continue to push boundaries, and even if you move out, you have taught him it is not permanent. Stick to your principles. Single mothers get into new relationships all of the time. BTW him labeling you as manipulative is manipulative.
If they love you they wouldn’t mind.
What bs is this? “I love you so you shouldn't mind if I cut your hair and ruin it, on principle, because my ex didn't mind and that demonstrates true love.”
Do you know how manipulative and immature that perspective is? How can we possibly confirm whether he loves you based on a valid desire not to have an amateur cut his hair?
Honestly, young people. No brains.