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Date: November 5, 2022
Disclaimer: I'm bi and my partner is, too. So I'm in a similar boat. Unfortunately there are a lot of naked takes here from people who have clearly never been in this sort of situation. Bisexuality in a heterosexual or same-sex relationship adds a layer of complexity and it's something that can only be grasped by experience.
Sexual orientation is secondary here. The question is whether or not you feel comfortable letting him explore himself sexually with other people. And it sounds like the answer is no or not yet. You don't need to feel bad just because his inclination is to explore with other men. It's normal to feel uneasy about that sort of stuff. You also have nothing to feel guilty about. Dating or marrying a bi person is not implicitly signing up for non-monogamy.
Of course, you have to be prepared for the consequences of your decision, one way or another. I think the pros and cons of either decision are obvious. So I think you're very wise to take time to adjust to this, rather than making a rash decision.
I'm not making suggestions either way. There are many ways you can go about this, and you have to find what works for the two of you. But I will say that there are a lot of couples where one or both members are bi who occasionally (or frequently) experiment with an open relationship, either temporarily or as a long-term thing. It's super duper common. But also naturally not widely talked about with others. It may be worth venturing over to r/bisexual and hearing from the community over there.
I've seen a couple comments here that are devolving into biphobia. This isn't something your husband has “just discovered.” It's something he's just come to terms with. Coming to terms with yourself as a bisexual man is simply a lot harder than it is for bisexual women. In part due to how men fetishize two women in a way that women don't commonly fetishize two men. And also in part due to toxic masculinity. Female bisexuality is a lot more accepted by society than male bisexuality is.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this but I’m glad you found out who he is before you got legally attached to him
Sweetheart, this is not love. Think about it, you clearly love him so would you take money and never pay it back to someone you love putting them in financial hardship? of course you wouldn’t. Would you lie in order to dissuade your partner from being there on your special day? Would you invite a male friend to spend your birthday with you and ask your partner not to attend? Would you force your partner to cover all your debts and spend his nude earned cash on your irresponsible spending?
This guy uses you. You deserve better. Every time you let him get away with this behaviour or if you go back to him you are saying ‘it is okay to treat me like this’. Show yourself some love and walk away, it’ll hurt no doubt but no less than staying with him and being treated like dirt.