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Date: February 17, 2023
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Yeahhhh, sometimes getting the external response helps you see something like that when it feels SO unfair (financiallly) that it's hard to see where the ground has changed so completely for him.
You are responsible for the needs of your daughter. You do it need to subsidise your now ex’s life. You are no longer in a relationship and she is no longer contributing to your shared life.
Legal arrangements re custody and maintenance should be put in place asap.
I don’t see the logic in telling you if she wasn’t going to be truthful. It would’ve made more sense to just say nothing, if nothing really happened. Makes me wonder if she decided to tell this half truth to cover up how far it really went.
Kind of like “It only went this far but I stopped it because i love you! “ When in reality that’s the lie you’re fed so you don’t dig deeper because you feel grateful for the loyalty.
And so the abuse cycle begins….. He doesn't get to decide who you hang out with. But now that you're married he sees you as his property. Abuse often will start woth a major milestone suck as marriage and pregnancy/baby. Now that he has yiu “locked” in he can show his true colors….
Ahh and do you think you would have been ready at that time to say it if he did just roll with it? So It all turned out fine in the end then! I wish she didn’t hear as well and I would have probably done something similar ?
Talking about value is concerning and likely to yield you a lot of unwanted attention.
Instead focus on the lack of honesty and consistency. When people claim they are one way with you and another way with others (or try to hide this) then you can see in their mind you arent really what they want. The issue is they cant get what they really want so will blow smoke up your nether regions to come back to somewhere comfortable whilst they plan for the next exit.
Found the boyfriend ?
I actually think the problem is more in your court. He doesn’t need you to execute your relationship for him. He has already done that. What he needs from you is to simply respect his decision and take it at face value. You on the other hand for your own since of self should probably cut contact cold because it seems you are hyper-attached and fixated on every chance at a possible reconciliation. And as a reminder most breakups dont end with blocking each other, never speaking again, etc.. Thats more reserved for the toxic or self preserved. A lot of mature relationships end but remain friends, still connect, etc but both understand they are no longer together. It sounds like he is in the bottom camp and you need the former more so you will def need to be the one to do that, but that doesn’t mean he is leaving the relationship for you to end. It means simply you need that to be able to move on
So in your story, you feel the need to point out your baby’s father is a cheater….. and you’re asking for advice if you should also cheat? Trash attracts trash lmao
Everyone is different. Hit the scene when you are ready and fully healed from your prior relationship. It's not fair to your future partner if you bring old baggage into a new relationship.
So the time is right when you say it is. Nobody else.
Ah, thank you! This makes me feel a lot better
Work on your self esteem. It’s okay for my wife to talk to men a non sexual way and it’s okay for me to talk to women. If you trust him then it should be a non issue
Yeah makes sense, but we had an unrelated argument last week so i should wait right
You won't, hell isn't real.
It's okay to challenge your biases friend, even when the mob supports you in them 🙂
I have never dated someone with what seems like PTSD from her past trauma. Knowing this, I have still accepted that it would be hard to connect sometimes and that she will need lots of help throughout the relationship. However, I'm still in need of care and trust too. I've been having a very hot time dealing with the constant feeling that she won't be able to give me the caring and understanding that I want in a relationship because her trauma does not allow it. She has never known how to give love the way I would like. It has never been shown to her.
What work is she doing with medical professionals to address her diagnosed PTSD and understand what sets her off and how to manage her emotions and behaviours around those things?
When we get into an argument I try my best to stay calm and talk with a low tone to communicate, but I am met with yelling and her tendency to run away from anything that my trigger her. Once she feels triggered, our relationship disappears, in her mind, and is replaced with feelings of discuss, hate, and revenge. Words of indefinance like “never” and “always” are often used to describe our actions. Like “You never loved me”. I have loved her to my very core for the past year and I have tried so very hot to stay in this relationship. I have only been able to calm her down when I start to cry or do something that is completely out of character.
Do you think it is reasonable that you have to “perform” emotional suffering for her in order for her to engage meaningfully with you?
just a piece of advice – don't empathise with a person commiting sexual assault – empathise with their victim
I’m so sorry. It’s horrible when one partner says it’s over and leaves the other spinning try to figure out what happened. Maybe your mom’s place is exactly what you need right. A sifting landing pad to crash on and hopefully get some support while you sort yourself back out. Take everything you bought or helped buy with you. Worse that happens is he has to come pick up stuff from you. Gather friends and family and get it all out at once. Spend this time mourning the end then when ready switch to planning the future. You are so young. This end will bring a new beginning. ♥️
So at the vape store like an hour ago the cashier gave me her name and number on my receipt. I’m married. Have been for damn near 15 years. Don’t wear a ring, because I don’t like how it feels.
These things happen. It’s easier to say “thanks!” and go about your day like it never happened.
Back in the day when someone didn’t want to date you or wanted to break up with you, they’d generally just avoid you when they could. Now we call it ghosting. Not everyone is owned some explanation why we’re not interested.
Side note, does the very premise of this post seem oddly possessive, which leads me to believe OP might have some self-esteem issues, or uncertainty in the steadiness of their relationship or a wandering eye themselves or is it just me?
If you are in the US they approved Mirena for 7 years back in August of 21. I know in Europe it's still on the 5-year schedule.
This is not a hill that’s worth dying on. If she says something similar again, just nod your head and agree and say how wonderful she is. Your brain will still own the truth, but you will reap the rewards for being supportive even though you know it’s untrue.
What do you mean, we don't know what's inside them? We know what's in them. Aside from the nicotine I'm purchasing food grade products like if I was making cookies.
Step One: Change your locks. Even if he gives the key back, you don't know that he didn't make copies.
Step Two: Check around your home to make sure he didn't put any cameras to secretly record you.
Step Three: Get a check up for STDs.
Step Four: Tell your friends whatever you're comfortable with, ranging from “it's personal” to “he cheated on me and there is video”.
Step Five: Dump him. (Yes, I would literally do everything else first, so he had time to sweat a little. I'm vengeful.)
Yeah he isn't changing. Can you really handle this aspect of him for the rest of your life? I couldn't. I had a boyfriend that did this very thing. It drove me nuts. I had made a nice homemade dinner that included a beet and goat cheese salad, and his first comment as he sits down to eat is, “Well you shouldn't have tossed the salad because now the goat cheese is pink.” So??????? How about, thank you for making all of this!? Just one of hundreds of examples.
I distinctly remember my growing anxiety about being around him. It eroded my feelings for him. Around the two year mark I peaced out and my anxiety all but disappeared. I had been completely underestimating how much he was negatively affecting me. I had even started seeing a therapist for my anxiety because I thought the problem had to be with me and that maybe with therapy I wouldn't be so emotional exhausted by my boyfriend's constant corrections. I have never regretted ending that relationship (I was mid-20s at the time).
He doesn’t know how to deal with this. He’s reaching for different solutions that make sense for him. If this is how he’s going to act every time something difficult comes along in life, we’ll best you found out now. Move on as you can’t force someone to believe you. That itself speaks volumes.
All of this is just so crazy. Open, closed it doesn’t matter. You are a cheater. You absolutely would hook up with anyone. You screwed your brothers ex wife for Christs sake. You are going to have a wild life.
You’re describing deflection and DARVO. Not every shitty manipulative behavior or dishonesty is gaslighting. None of this is gaslighting.
Are testosterone levels in men dropping? This seems like the case study.