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Him talking to them and messaging them is wild. All it’s gonna take is for one of them to actually fall for it and respond.
Why be with someone who’s actively pursuing other girls? That’s exactly what he’s doing and you’ve been lying to yourself about that.
Nothing is wrong with you he’s just a dog who only cares about looks. Let him enjoy his online pen pals and go find a real man, simple. Dump his ass now.
She wanted someone else and it failed, now she is trying to come back to you because she knows you will take her back. Want proof as her if she was with anyone else through out the break up, if she was then she was dumped and running back to you
I mean out of all days to give her a new car you choose her birthday? I mean you could have handled it better.
You may not understand, and you may not hold the husband in high regard, or much respect, but non the less they are a package deal, and could have been a little more tactful on you gift giving to not cause conflict, and as a husband myself no I don’t believe his reaction is out of line. Nor do I think what you did is a big deal.
Or he likes it there bc the male friends wont say shit when he cheats… you dont just randomly fuck a coworker. There was flirting and signs and not one friend said “hey this is a bad idea” they allowed it and most likely encouraged it knowing damn well he had a girl at home. Im sorry, i know its a shitty situation but like i said b4, cheating doeant happen accidentally. He knew what he was doing was wrong, he did it anyway. Gave u a story about being drunk and “not touching her” (i mean really have u EVER had sex and not touch the partner) to make it seem like he wasnt complacent. If that was the case then she raped him… if he doesnt want to do anything about it then it was okay w him that it happened.
You developed feelings for someone else, and then left your BF. There really wasn’t any other way to handle this. You can’t help how you feel. You got out of the relationship before anything happened. You shouldn’t feel guilty.
If I was putting my own money into this and he dropped on me last minute. Yeah, sure. Pissed off. However, getting a beach getaway for free? Hell yeah, sign me up.
I know you have this expectation that was shattered, that is 100% valid. But if you make this an issue now, you will carry that energy into your trip, and you will be guaranteeing a bad experience out of.
If their tickets are already bought and paid for, no point on fighting on it now. They're coming regardless. Might as well try to salvage the situation the best you can so this trip doesn't bust your reletionship up.
You can use this experience as a good tool to gauge the direction of your reletionship.
Things you should talk about for the trip:
I expect you to be in more control of yourself than you were in Vegas. I don't want any embarrassing incidents or fights to happen. Even though your friends are coming, I would expect some privacy for us occasionally. Have your fun with your friends, but I expect to be included, I don't want to find myself alone in the the room. And you have to be aware of my presence. You cannot ignore me. Otherwise, just go with your friends and don't invite me.
Then when you return.. try to settle this debate:
He broke the news to me tonight and said I am being ridiculous for being upset.
He needs to understand why something like this would be upsetting to you. You can't have that level of inconsideration and misunderstanding exist in your reletionship. There at least needs to be an understanding of your frustration from his end.
He isn’t respecting you or your time. I’d dump him over this, but if you’re not ready to do that, stop making vague plans, and when he asks you to hang out, specify a time. If he’s unwilling to specify a time, then tell him you’re going to go about your day like normal, and when he’s ready, he can text you and you’ll let him know if you’re available.
Don’t just wait around for him when he’s not prioritizing you.
No one’s back tracking. And no, I’m not saying OP is wrong or insinuating that. I deleted the above comment because I agreed with another commenter that it was detracting from OP getting the support she needs.
I also agree with OP’s position in all of this. I just wanted to confirm that the fiancé was aware of the need for a medical abortion, and not just thinking OP was dealing with a normal pregnancy while he’s overseas.
The person you’re replying to wasn’t suggesting that OP should have texted. They were suggesting that the wife should have sent a text warning OP that someone was there.
Why is this your call to make? Surely his friend can decide for himself who he wants to ask for advice. It's rude in the first place to butt in and essentially say that your husband isn't qualified to help someone. I would feel very belittled by this if I were him. Would you like if he did this to you while you were offering thoughtful advice to a friend? Tell them to go ask someone else because your thoughts weren't valuable?
I think you need to do some serious evaluation on how you talk about your partner.
So her method of coping with this news is creating trauma for her own kids? It sucks that she's like this but sadly you need to focus on all your children now. Don't let her relocate the kids on top of getting a new sibling.
You dump his ass. Sure, it hurts now, but it's so much better in the long run. Respect yourself enough to only be in a relationship with someone who loves and respects you. He doesn't feel either one.
There's no real time limit, is there? There shouldn't be. Would you want him to say it if he wasn't ready? Would you want to feel inexplicably pressured into saying it if *you” weren't ready?
You said it. You feel it. You're feeling good in the relationship. Let it go.
You should confront him. He’ll most likely feel guilty enough to treat you better for the next 6 months until you can leave. But absolutely leave when you can. Avoid meeting up with his family if you can.
Don’t feed into it at all the more attention you give her the more she’ll be reminded of you and probably tell more people. The less you interact with her the less you’ll be in her mind to keep talking. She’s a c you next Tuesday. No one cares you have it she’s just trying to bring you down the only way she little mind can. Stay strong 🙂
Him talking to them and messaging them is wild. All it’s gonna take is for one of them to actually fall for it and respond.
Why be with someone who’s actively pursuing other girls? That’s exactly what he’s doing and you’ve been lying to yourself about that.
Nothing is wrong with you he’s just a dog who only cares about looks. Let him enjoy his online pen pals and go find a real man, simple. Dump his ass now.
I'm sorry; I know it sucks 🙁
But divorce sucks worse
I’m sorry you are going through this.
My two cents:
Go vegan, you might just reverse your diagnosis
Good luck with the relationship, therapy and open communication is key here.
Wishing you all the best ❤️
She wanted someone else and it failed, now she is trying to come back to you because she knows you will take her back. Want proof as her if she was with anyone else through out the break up, if she was then she was dumped and running back to you
As a married man, it's always best to ask your wife before leaving your sperm anywhere isn't on/in her.
That's a new sentence for me.
You're saying that someone saying something negative to someone who has anxiety, won't engage their anxiety to flare up ever?
No prob man ?
So like a suit and tie?
So like a suit and tie?
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When she leaves for work, wait for a bit, then go to her work. If she isn't there, go to that house.
I mean out of all days to give her a new car you choose her birthday? I mean you could have handled it better.
You may not understand, and you may not hold the husband in high regard, or much respect, but non the less they are a package deal, and could have been a little more tactful on you gift giving to not cause conflict, and as a husband myself no I don’t believe his reaction is out of line. Nor do I think what you did is a big deal.
Or he likes it there bc the male friends wont say shit when he cheats… you dont just randomly fuck a coworker. There was flirting and signs and not one friend said “hey this is a bad idea” they allowed it and most likely encouraged it knowing damn well he had a girl at home. Im sorry, i know its a shitty situation but like i said b4, cheating doeant happen accidentally. He knew what he was doing was wrong, he did it anyway. Gave u a story about being drunk and “not touching her” (i mean really have u EVER had sex and not touch the partner) to make it seem like he wasnt complacent. If that was the case then she raped him… if he doesnt want to do anything about it then it was okay w him that it happened.
You developed feelings for someone else, and then left your BF. There really wasn’t any other way to handle this. You can’t help how you feel. You got out of the relationship before anything happened. You shouldn’t feel guilty.
If you get any healthy amount of exercise yeah you do.
Also, not every day is one thing. But apparently she fails at showering every other day.
Once you start fighting about money that’s not in the joint pot, there are deeper issues.
Would you be upset?
Yes, and no.
If I was putting my own money into this and he dropped on me last minute. Yeah, sure. Pissed off. However, getting a beach getaway for free? Hell yeah, sign me up.
I know you have this expectation that was shattered, that is 100% valid. But if you make this an issue now, you will carry that energy into your trip, and you will be guaranteeing a bad experience out of.
If their tickets are already bought and paid for, no point on fighting on it now. They're coming regardless. Might as well try to salvage the situation the best you can so this trip doesn't bust your reletionship up.
You can use this experience as a good tool to gauge the direction of your reletionship.
Things you should talk about for the trip:
I expect you to be in more control of yourself than you were in Vegas. I don't want any embarrassing incidents or fights to happen. Even though your friends are coming, I would expect some privacy for us occasionally. Have your fun with your friends, but I expect to be included, I don't want to find myself alone in the the room. And you have to be aware of my presence. You cannot ignore me. Otherwise, just go with your friends and don't invite me.
Then when you return.. try to settle this debate:
He broke the news to me tonight and said I am being ridiculous for being upset.
He needs to understand why something like this would be upsetting to you. You can't have that level of inconsideration and misunderstanding exist in your reletionship. There at least needs to be an understanding of your frustration from his end.
He isn’t respecting you or your time. I’d dump him over this, but if you’re not ready to do that, stop making vague plans, and when he asks you to hang out, specify a time. If he’s unwilling to specify a time, then tell him you’re going to go about your day like normal, and when he’s ready, he can text you and you’ll let him know if you’re available.
Don’t just wait around for him when he’s not prioritizing you.
I'd want to know.
No one’s back tracking. And no, I’m not saying OP is wrong or insinuating that. I deleted the above comment because I agreed with another commenter that it was detracting from OP getting the support she needs.
I also agree with OP’s position in all of this. I just wanted to confirm that the fiancé was aware of the need for a medical abortion, and not just thinking OP was dealing with a normal pregnancy while he’s overseas.
Honesty is the best policy.
Title doesnt match the post.
The person you’re replying to wasn’t suggesting that OP should have texted. They were suggesting that the wife should have sent a text warning OP that someone was there.
Why is this your call to make? Surely his friend can decide for himself who he wants to ask for advice. It's rude in the first place to butt in and essentially say that your husband isn't qualified to help someone. I would feel very belittled by this if I were him. Would you like if he did this to you while you were offering thoughtful advice to a friend? Tell them to go ask someone else because your thoughts weren't valuable?
I think you need to do some serious evaluation on how you talk about your partner.
So her method of coping with this news is creating trauma for her own kids? It sucks that she's like this but sadly you need to focus on all your children now. Don't let her relocate the kids on top of getting a new sibling.
You dump his ass. Sure, it hurts now, but it's so much better in the long run. Respect yourself enough to only be in a relationship with someone who loves and respects you. He doesn't feel either one.
He's unhappy because you find happiness outside of just him. He's being a controlling ass
There's no real time limit, is there? There shouldn't be. Would you want him to say it if he wasn't ready? Would you want to feel inexplicably pressured into saying it if *you” weren't ready?
You said it. You feel it. You're feeling good in the relationship. Let it go.
You should confront him. He’ll most likely feel guilty enough to treat you better for the next 6 months until you can leave. But absolutely leave when you can. Avoid meeting up with his family if you can.
Don’t feed into it at all the more attention you give her the more she’ll be reminded of you and probably tell more people. The less you interact with her the less you’ll be in her mind to keep talking. She’s a c you next Tuesday. No one cares you have it she’s just trying to bring you down the only way she little mind can. Stay strong 🙂