Get her into your hobbies. You might have to be patient with her while you do some teaching, but its a great way to bond. And if she doesn’t like yours and doesn’t have her own, why are you dating?
Again, I’m not debating that I’m in the wrong here. I say in the post multiple times I know I’m in the wrong. It’s not a question I asked. If I thought I was right I’d have posted in AITA. I didn’t, because I know I’m in the wrong. That’s not what I’m asking for advice on.
I would just lay it out. She is prioritizing this other guy. Set your boundaries, ignore bullshit about being toxic or controlling and let her know that you're not dating two people. If she wants to quit her bullshit, she can let you know, but the choice is time sensitive and if she waits too long, you'll make it easy and just remove yourself from her options. Then walk away and leave her to figure her shit out.
Also, as a thought… Ever consider asking your mutual “friend” why he doesn't seem to have a problem standing in the middle of your relationship so fucking always? A friendly “Ever feel weird that every time I try to date my girl, you're sitting in the back seat with a fucking juice box and a baggie of Cheerios, Homey?… Because it's pretty fucking weird”
Tell her to grow the fuck up. When the baby needs tending, you are a parent 1st and foremost!
Get her into your hobbies. You might have to be patient with her while you do some teaching, but its a great way to bond. And if she doesn’t like yours and doesn’t have her own, why are you dating?
Again, I’m not debating that I’m in the wrong here. I say in the post multiple times I know I’m in the wrong. It’s not a question I asked. If I thought I was right I’d have posted in AITA. I didn’t, because I know I’m in the wrong. That’s not what I’m asking for advice on.
I would just lay it out. She is prioritizing this other guy. Set your boundaries, ignore bullshit about being toxic or controlling and let her know that you're not dating two people. If she wants to quit her bullshit, she can let you know, but the choice is time sensitive and if she waits too long, you'll make it easy and just remove yourself from her options. Then walk away and leave her to figure her shit out.
Also, as a thought… Ever consider asking your mutual “friend” why he doesn't seem to have a problem standing in the middle of your relationship so fucking always? A friendly “Ever feel weird that every time I try to date my girl, you're sitting in the back seat with a fucking juice box and a baggie of Cheerios, Homey?… Because it's pretty fucking weird”