Okay, so… I know what he is saying though. And I think that I am listening. And I am feeling attacked, I would not feel attacked if I hadn't listened to him. So… what? Social media isn't helping. I know that. So tomorrow i will go into the mountains for a hike because I know I won't be studying. I can do many other things. And then? And then? Idk man I ahve problems and I'm all on my own with them
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He’s not going to change, I would probably just walk away lol like you have dated him for 3 years and if he doesn’t rise to your expectations he’s always going to be a source of resentment for you. Why would you want to live like that? He obviously sees you as a source of help that will allow him to essentially be enabled into not having to do much. You said you’re planning for the future, well what the fuck is he doing? Seems like he’s just gonna finish school and sit on his ass. I would have left that situation like a year into it if that. I used to be a fixer but people only change if they want to and doesn’t sound like he does that much.
Okay, so… I know what he is saying though. And I think that I am listening. And I am feeling attacked, I would not feel attacked if I hadn't listened to him. So… what? Social media isn't helping. I know that. So tomorrow i will go into the mountains for a hike because I know I won't be studying. I can do many other things. And then? And then? Idk man I ahve problems and I'm all on my own with them
I think this user's point is that it happens unequally, in the absence of actual data neither of you have anything other than anecdotal evidence.
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He’s not going to change, I would probably just walk away lol like you have dated him for 3 years and if he doesn’t rise to your expectations he’s always going to be a source of resentment for you. Why would you want to live like that? He obviously sees you as a source of help that will allow him to essentially be enabled into not having to do much. You said you’re planning for the future, well what the fuck is he doing? Seems like he’s just gonna finish school and sit on his ass. I would have left that situation like a year into it if that. I used to be a fixer but people only change if they want to and doesn’t sound like he does that much.