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Whether it’s trauma or not she needs support. Can I ask about her family background? I grew up in a fairly conservative Christian household and for a good portion of my life I was either actively afraid of or avoiding with men. Up until my early 20s, outside of relationships, and some mutual friends I avoided making contact with them. That behavior was reinforced by my fluctuating weight in my teens/early 20s. When I was really heavy and started to exercise by walking around my neighborhood (old mostly white conservative neighborhood) I would be harassed; barked at by men in cars, at one point a group of teens kept circling a median just to call me “monkey” and make ape noises at me in front of other people. When I’m slimmer men will leer, harass me on the job, or follow me around. I would cry and get so angry I wouldn’t even want to go outside. None of those things stopped but after meeting more men that actually made me feel safe I felt a lot better and can even talk to them normally and date causally without freaking out lol.
So I would definitely agree with the sentiment that you should support her. Encourage her to go to counseling, and maybe introduce her to some safe men. If you guys have friends who are in relationships go on more double dates, when you go to social gatherings introduce her to other men you trust. Most importantly validate her feelings cause making her feel crazy when she’s just scared is just going to make her withdraw. Let her know that you empathize with her and ask her if she’s talked to other women in her life about how they deal with the feeling of being objectified.
That being said at the end of the day she has to want the help as well. If she rejects it then you have to determine if you can continue comforting her as you have been or if it’s a deal breaker. Whatever you do, be kind, be gentle, and be genuine.
Why does he need to interpret this?
“I have X number of photos with the 3 of us. Are you wishing we had more? No problem, let’s go take some. Where should we do it?”
Is that really difficult?
Unfortunately, there's not much you can do. I would have a serious talk with her explaining how her behavior and comments make you feel. I would hope, as your parent, that she would really take that to heart and have a good look at herself. She may be so caught up in it that she's not even realizing it stopped being “fun” a long time ago, for everyone except her. If it continues to the same severity, you may need to fall back a little, for your own sake and to let her miss you a bit.
This is a no win situation. Sorry, that’s harsh, but it’s true. You should never have committed to a man who doesn’t want children when you know you do. And no, you do not get an abortion in secret, he deserves to know.
Know that whatever you choose, someone is probably going to get hurt. But you need to follow your gut regarding the child. If you abort and don’t want to, you’ll resent him forever. If you keep the kid, you either lose him, or he’ll resent you. Choose your path wisely.