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Date: October 14, 2022
Thing the first – no more sex that you don't find enjoyable. Totally off the table and you need to be honest about why.
The very hot part will be also being able to hear and encourage him to express the way that will make him feel. It will almost certainly make him feel unattractive, it will hit his confidence and if he is even halfway decent make him feel pretty shitty about the sex you have been having.
The honesty is necessary though to heal.
Follow everyone else's good advice here, and I have some more practical advice – much of it inspired by Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski which you absolutely should pick up and read and your husband should also read.
First, take penetration off the table entirely. Try to regain a sense of intimacy. Do you enjoy giving or receiving oral sex? If so, do that. If not, maybe try just making out and being close to each other. One particularly nice, low stakes, low stress activity would be having him hold you while you masturbate, with toys if that is helpful to you. Focusing on you here, but having him masturbate with you can also be inspiring. As another person mentioned, I highly recommend you start masturbating if you haven't since the birth and really explore your body. Vary up your technique, focus on pleasure instead of focusing on orgasm or getting off. When you are with your partner, focus on and only do what feels good at that time. Even if that's only holding, or a massage or a kiss. Start with what you know feels good and focus in that pleasure with no judgement.
Wow, this reply broke me down to tears. I’ve said it many different ways, but I have a nude time just saying “I’m not happy.” It’s true though. I’ve always been the “as long as everyone else is happy, I’m good” type, and I have never put my own happiness first.