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Room for on-line sex video chat YUKISHANx
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Birth Date: 2003-07-02
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Date: January 20, 2023
No, not LDR. We online together
Spending time together in person should make things clear.
When it's just the family, I'm usually shirtless. Most of the time I have shorts on, but will make a late night or early morning kitchen run in boxers. My wife and 2 daughters are in their underwear all the time. Thing is, we're all related.
When kids' friends are here, I have shorts and a shirt on.
This isn't your daughter. While I think needing to have a shirt on is over the top maybe since you all online together, I see no issue requesting at least shorts on.
Exactly and he keeps saying “I’m my own house” news flash, it is their house now too.
Sorry, sounds like a tough situation. You can’t make her feel one way or another.
She may be concerned that you are too young for her. Or she is too old for you.
Well uh, this is a first for me on this sub. Talk with him and if you still want to make it work with him you need to make it clear to him that his got to communicate with you especially with what happens around sex. There's a boundary there that he crossed without asking you so you're definitely not being too harsh.
Hahah thank you, I guess something good came out of it. To be fair I didn't drink that often before, probably twice a month. But now when I drink I don't drink much anymore.
It does seem too far to me. You're the one who knows him, but you say he hates being the centre of attention, so I don't know if he'd find it too funny. A joke between the two of you is quite different from doing it in public.
She’s going to be living on campus. You completely changed the dynamic when leaving school. Not a slam. Just the facts. Of course she’s going to online like a college student and she should. She’s 20 years old.
The past is the past, that's true. However, your past decisions say a lot about your state of mind. They say a lot about your values. You don't need advice on what to do, because we can't tell you how to online your life. If this is something you're not comfortable with, you don't have to be comfortable with it. You can't force yourself to be comfortable with it. Do what you feel is right based on what you value, and what you want out of a partner/potential wife.
This is the plot of a 90s movie if he turns out to be the presidents son or something
A man not willing to listen to your concerns is a man not ready to be a man or a husband. There is so much communicating that needs to be done in a marriage you cannot just up and leave because you are legally tied together. Many people don't understand the huge heavy ramifications that come with that. You become one legal entity, anything he screws up you are on the hook for and vice versa. If he keeps pushing you will need to let him go because he will do that with every single thing for the rest of your life. Then you'll be 25 have three kids and be on the road to divorce because you weren't ready for it and only agreed under the duress of him leaving you. Fear is not a way to make life long decisions.
I'm a little confused. Is this a current fwb that she plans to keep seeing while still dating you? If so, I don't think it's wrong for you to not want to date someone if they're still having sex with someone else. I would have done the same as you if a guy told me that.
You really do need to be talking about this with your therapist. Chronic lack of sleep is going to mess you up long term and your hobby could land you in a dangerous situation or legal trouble. My parents passed away in a pretty short period of time and o went a little crazy too so I get that you have an urge to save people and that's commendable but you don't have to put yourself in harms way to do that. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.
Here’s to hoping you don’t find yourself in this position one day.
Be grateful the drama took itself out As she said she dosent know what a healthy relationship is so dosent know how to behave in one it's making her scared because she can't control the narrative She needs therapy and self development not a relationship
If he's so amazing why does he beat you?
That's not love. That's a man that wants a punching bag that will shut up and do as he says. And by staying you allow it.
Do you want this for the rest of your life? Do you want to end up dead? That's the path you're on.
Get out and leave. Cut off all contact. You're 22, you'll find the right person at the right time. Respect yourself more than to allow someone to treat you this way.
In my specific instance, it was indicative of him wanting to be able to have 1 foot out the door at all times.
You make a great point. Thank you ❤️
I’ve been in your shoes. Leave. It gets better and easier. First 6 months will be the hardest but you could not pay me to go back and have the family we once were.
Break up with him and find a better boyfriend who wants you in the ways you WANT to be desired and loved.
You aren't sexually compatible.
One of you can adjust your expectations- that probably won't be fun.
Or you can be miserable for as long as you're together.
It's not reasonable to automatically jump to throwing a cat out at the onset of conflict. Make sure there's more than one litter box option in more than one location. Make sure there's separate food stations. Make sure there's multiple routes to get around the house with high and low perches. (give options for letting the cats avoid each other). Lastly, get a pheromone diffuser. You can buy multipacks online. My two female cats tolerate each other at best and get hissy with each other. The pheromone diffusers helped them adjust to new litter boxes, construction, and other changes around the house and let them tolerate each other's presence.
I did tell him i have 0 issues with his and that I don't consider it small, but he's just not talking to me lmao. I'm just gonna let him game and hope he gets over it ?
No, no, no…
She is a creepy person… And any adult person who wants to have relationship with a teenager is bad news…
Stay away from her…
I don't know what your past relationships with friends have been like but saying you 'get along with him better than anyone else on the planet' only to follow up immediately with him regularly accusing you of being a paedophile and starting fights where he calls you too dramatic, is really fucking sad.
There's a woman at my work, hate her, she annoys the shit out of me… And yet I still treat her better than your 'best friend' treats you, becuase Im not a POS and I have common human decency.
Mine too. Isn’t it lovely to be with someone who actually respects you. And is an adult about household stuff!
Reddit are not gonna validate your feelings, anything goes until you had the exclusive talk, she could have fucked your brother for all that matters. I disagree and I would get rid of both, your friend is not your friend and I don't think the girl is worth pursing a relationship with either.
What kind of friends messes around with someone they know you like? Not sure as hell any I would like to call my friends. The same goes for the girl.
You're 21 you have your whole life ahead of you and it's been 5 months. Don't waste more time on either of them and don't let reddit shame you for feeling however you want-
Thank u so much for the advice! I just hate that he works with me at my job now so I feel trapped like I can’t escape from him
If this is their family dynamic then you can’t do much about it, has she said anything about it?
Fundamentally, sexual harassment is a violation of someone’s boundaries, whether explicitly stated or assumed. Due to the fact that you guys have been flirting heavily, I can almost guarantee you that this guy thought that you would feel comfortable if he touched you. Touching is very often a natural escalation of mutual attraction with another person. I genuinely don’t think he was trying to be creepy or take advantage of you.
You told him that you didn’t like it, and he stopped. To me that’s the most important thing. If you tell your friend that you aren’t comfortable with him touching you that way and he stops/listens to you, I think that’s a really good sign. It means that he just made an incorrect assumption, and doesn’t want to make you uncomfortable.
What are your expectations here? Since you are flirting and clearly like each other, are you going to make the first move?
If your wife wants help, then maybe you should separate while going to marriage counseling. If counseling isn’t helping, then divorce.
Its not the length of time that counts the most but the quality of the relationship. Don't just marry someone because of the duration of time you've been with them, focus on the relationship you have (and where that is at). Some people are ready to marry after 2 years, some people take 20.
You're blaming him for keeping you waiting for 8 years when in reality the time has been much shorter than that because in the early days of the relationship you wouldn't have been together long enough to properly consider marriage (and it sounds like it was only relatively recently since you overcome your depression and stabilized).
You mentioned early on the weight issues. Why not just lose weight? And tell him that now you're evidencing weight loss through healthy and sustainable lifestyle changes, he has no reasons not to marry you any longer. If he keeps on holding back after that, then give him an ultimatum.
I appreciate this, I’m finding out after posting this that I was correct in my emotions on how I was feeling about the whole situation
He literally took her keys from her and prevented her from taking a cab home because he thought she was too drunk. So the woman he had made a pass at previously and had been rejected was too drunk to go home alone but not too drunk to have sex with him? How tf does that make sense?
Primary and Middle school? My man, you were children. He'll, at 23 you're both still basically kids. He's living with guilt about it and sincerely asking for forgiveness. What is there to think about? Everyone has done bad things, especially at that age. You don't have to be best friends, but if you can't forgive children's actions, I think you're the one needing to mature a bit.
She currently can’t afford proper treatment with a licensed psychiatrist however she is going to start with a therapist on her health plan in the next 4 weeks or so (there’s a waiting list)
Right? Anything can be a dealbreaker.
Especially this—because they fight about it.
This is the one.
not my trip and not my decision.
Really sums it up there.
Dad and brother got in a fight. Brother isn't going. Husband doesn't want to go if brother isn't going.
I don't think it's selfish of you to want him to have fun… but if he doesn't want to go? you can't lead a horse to water and all that. He's not for Vegas. He's not for going somewhere without someone he's comfortable with.
I don’t know what you expect him to do about it even if you do “approach” it and he can’t afford it? Are you offering to pay lol?
Your dad doesn't know how to take care of himself/doesn't want to.
SO MANY men just can't wait to be remarried after their wives die. It's sickening.
Change therapist and do not let them in.