Look, I get the culture of toxic masculinity and aged ideas about virginity = purity. It’s a shame that this still exists.
It’s a bad recipe that means far too many guys get uncomfortable by how many sexual partners a woman has had. In reality, as long as everyone has been tested regularly, there shouldn’t be much of a problem.
This guy, for whatever reason, couldn’t get over his insecurities. He let this get all up in his head, and was so afraid of failing that he took himself out of the race.
And honestly, I’m sorry you lost him, but had you stayed- he would’ve let that insecurity and jealously build and bring this up every time you had an argument.
I think you dodged a bullet here, this one is on him.
Grow up and learn to read yourself. He didn’t cheat ffs.
Any advice on how I can get him to understand that im not mad or anything I just don’t wanna be squeezed like that?
You get him to understand by breaking up with him swiftly and never looking back.
Look, I get the culture of toxic masculinity and aged ideas about virginity = purity. It’s a shame that this still exists.
It’s a bad recipe that means far too many guys get uncomfortable by how many sexual partners a woman has had. In reality, as long as everyone has been tested regularly, there shouldn’t be much of a problem.
This guy, for whatever reason, couldn’t get over his insecurities. He let this get all up in his head, and was so afraid of failing that he took himself out of the race.
And honestly, I’m sorry you lost him, but had you stayed- he would’ve let that insecurity and jealously build and bring this up every time you had an argument.
I think you dodged a bullet here, this one is on him.
Broke up late 2021 got with current GF about 11 months after. There was no cross over.