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Zako, 25 y.o.
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Date: October 18, 2022
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I can see the girlfriends point of view. The first time meeting your best friend-your best friend didn't even try to get to know her. She talked about things you all used to do together. That's incredibly bitchy-reminding the gf that she's known you longer/better/that you have a shared history. Your best friend should have been making an effort to include her and get to know her.
You also called the best friend your soul mate on your anniversary trip, and pushed to meet up with her and then spent ages trying to convince her by telling her how dear to you and important best friend is on what should have been a romantic getaway with your girlfriend. Clearly showing your girlfriend that spending time with best friend is more important.
We all wash our hand a lot, and we're only infected once. In London, it was probably in the park or something where you don't get chance to wash your hands after the initial contact.
Then in schools – you see with lice how different families have different approaches and it's a cycle of reinfection that individuals are realising at different times so treatment isn't coordinated, folks don't know to wash bedding, etc and then the second your family is free, you go back to school and pick it up from sharing a pencil with someone.
It's not possible to avoid things simply by taking personal steps a lot of the time, especially when large groups of children are involved.
Some information on genital herpes:
-Blood tests will not reveal the presence of herpes. You have to wait until an outbreak before you’ll be able to get tested or else you run the risk of false negatives. This is because herpes virus lives dormant in the ganglia (a cluster of nerves), not the blood, and will be undetected otherwise.
-Typical outbreaks begin 2 weeks to 3 months but may not appear for a few years after exposure.
-If you live in the United States your partner is, by law, required to disclose their herpes status or the status of any other known STI. Failure to do so can result in criminal charges.
you may contract herpes without the presence of a visible outbreak. This is called shedding and it is when the virus comes through mucous membranes or the skin and mutates, increasing the chance of spreading infection. This is why it is important to use a condom every time. You may also contract herpes while using a condom, though your chances decrease significantly.
-There are medications to control outbreaks if you do test positive. You can take medication regularly with is called suppression therapy or only during outbreaks to shorten the length of them.
during an outbreak it is best to wait 7 days AFTER the ulcers disappear to minimize the chance of spreading.
I feel that this person is not a good match for you. She was aware of her status and has had talks with her providers about how to be safe and minimize exposure. This was extremely selfish of her to not disclose the fact beforehand and take away your informed consent entirely. Now she has put you at risk every time you have had any form of sexual contact. This is deeply concerning. Think about your options carefully. It does not matter if she felt shame or embarrassment— it is her job as someone who is HSV positive to be honest and allow partners to make informed decisions. This may prove to be an issue long term as your safety and health is clearly not a concern to her.
As someone who was in your position and ended up contracting HSV after my ex partner assaulted me knowing his status, let me give you some perspective. I make sure to disclose my stats every time and have actually found a wonderful partner who is aware of my status and our sex life is very fruitful and fun and fulfilling. Never in my life could I fathom lying by omission in that context. An HSV diagnosis is not the end of the world and it may even encourage you to explore sex in different ways. However, it is still my duty to reduce transmission as much as possible. I own finger cots, dental dams, condoms and condom friendly lube as a woman because I know my status and the burden falls on me to be prepared in case my partner is not. If they want to have sex without a condom because they are caught up in the moment, it is MY DUTY to ensure we do use one.
I hope this helped.