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Date: November 24, 2022
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It is though. I mean did you see her without make up ? Or without plastic surgery?
I really relate to your pain though ?? the best thing you can do right now is focus on your inner happiness, things that give you inner peace. A good meal, time spent with friends, self care, etc. The rest will fall into place and it’ll get better for sure, with or without him ❤️
Just as long as you don't have to pay for any of them or do any work bringing them up. Please don't procreate.
You have a right to say no. Your concerns are valid. If she doesn’t listen or dismisses your concerns, that is very selfish and she is being coercive. Time to have a chat.
He cheated on you and damaged your trust. It takes years to get over that. He should also be the one doing the work to rebuild the trust he broke.
Unfortunately once someone cheats in a relationship there's only a 15% chance of the relationships success.
Him hanging out with any girl getting stoned doesn't help that at all.
All this relationship will do is give you trust issues that will follow you no matter who you are with.
That’s a fair point. When it comes to life, I’m definitely ahead. She currently has to borrow money from my mom to pay for therapy while I RARELY ask her for money.
I think people are being a dick to OP for no reason other than their own insecurities. OP, I’ve been in your situation and when there comes a day I can pay it back to them with a random act of kindness, I would. I think that’s so kind of you to do. NTA. Her husband is just mad he’s broke along with everyone else coming at you in these comments
Right. They want none of the pressure or obligations but still want the companionship.
But you don’t need a deep dive into why that is, if it’s not what you want as well keep it moving.
Makes sense and honestly interesting..
Constantly going out each weekend and sniffing coke and getting wasted.
Nope. Adding the cheating to that is just adding more nope to the pile.
The problem is I love her
No, you love the person that you thought she was. She is not that person. She lied to you for months about being with this other guy.
Do not accept her back.
It is the end. Be happy it’s done and you can get this POS out of your life. Stay with friends and family and lick your wounds. This isn’t salvageable at all
That’s good. A very firm plan is what is needed. And you knowing ahead of time what YOU will do in each situation will help you to actually do it when the time comes.
I hope he gets his head out of his ass.
My husband let his mother abuse me. And I begged him to step in. But he refused until the threat of divorce was there. He finally did, but the damage was already done.
Things ended for other reasons. But this was a big tipping point for me.
paragraphs mate. huge age gap imo, at 22 you are still growing mentally and feelings come and go. you wanted something and once you were able to get it you lost intrest.
Yes, have a 17 month old and am 33 weeks pregnant.
First: never ever say yes when you mean no.
But secondly: dude she might be a more than a little off. You’re both 18 and been together four months? I’d run fast and far. That’s not normal!
Well at least I am not the ghosting type, so I that going on for me. And my exes are exes for a reason. Their actions will be a source of curiosity for me rather than a heartbreak.
I'm not trying to change her that's not my question lol. I asked how I can be more supportive in this situation…
So, she purposefully chose to divorce you so she could be with another man? And you think this is salvageable? Unless you have zero self worth, don't entertain this stupidity.
As a frequent drug user, I'm curious what a bathside is and why there are drugs on it
Nah, no help for you here, bud. You creep, you weep.
Hon if you’re not trolling please ask your parents for help seeking therapy. Your post makes no sense. He’s not sweet or kind. Look up the definitions to those words please.
Why do you care so much about something that doesn’t impact you?
You don’t. Your sister can be friends with whoever she wants and it’s none of your business. From your post history it sounds like you don’t even line your ‘best friend’. You’re just being controlling, petty and jealous.
“I don’t have time to invest in a relationship but still want the sex on tap, please help” – OP
I’m leaving her
Good for you for recognizing that this therapist was not the right fit and not giving up on therapy as a concept. That's nude for a lot of people to do. Speaking as a therapist myself…yours sounded totally invalidating and disparaging of your character. Totally not the kind of support you need.
You blocked, then unblocked him, and you wonder why he blocked you?
SMH. Move on. This is a ridiculous relationship and I don't see any genuine affection anywhere.
Just tell him that he snores so loudly that you can’t sleep. That long term, it’s an issue that needs to be addressed because you not being able to sleep is not sustainable.
If he refuses to address it, but pushes for sleep overs, then you are not compatible. Refusing to deal with an issue that makes your day to day relationship unworkable is a dealbreaker.
He should see a Doctor. My wife started snoring really loudly. It got better when she started exercising.
First off, thank you very much for taking the time to reply, this means a lot to me.
I don't know any women or men her age. Outside of work colleagues but I wouldn't discuss this with them. I talked about this a little bit with my therapist and he immediately said she seems like a woman that uses men. My brother or friends, I talk to about this also say it's a bad idea. But I like her so much so I am kind of blind to all of that. I keep telling myself there is more to this relationship than people from the outside can see.
Honestly, the age thing doesn't bother me because we have the same interests and the same humor.
I see lots of my friends getting into 'normal' relationships at the moment. It makes me so happy for them. They spend infinite time together. Go on trips, go out, or just be lazy at home.
That is the main thing that breaks my heart. She doesn't have time (because she is with this other guy and he can't find out). We will never have time. Everything is in a rush. I can't even contact her! I mentioned multiple times how nude this is for me but that kind of falls on deaf ears.
Oh I had to go back to read how old you guys are, I mean if you're teenagers I could understand an immature – you need to go & do something about what he just said BUT youre in your 30's!!!???
Ummm firstly – really go throw hands at him – WTF!?
Secondly – Does your GF not have a backbone, stand up for yourself girlfriend (preferably without the need to throw hands)
OP, may I suggest a long nude think about your future with this girl, this sounds like its going to be the norm
Maybe talk more about your mutual career aspirations and the fact that dating coworkers usually winds up with one or both parties having to leave the job. But ultimately situations like this are a matter of having the intellectual will to override the attraction your hormones are driving. Let your mind overpower your glands on this one.
I left my husband with bipolar 2 after being together for 9 years because he refused to stay in treatment and I was on a roller coaster for almost a decade. I didn’t leave because of his illness, I left because he wouldn’t treat it.
The only thing I regret is not leaving him sooner.
Hopeless . May god bless you , OP .
DONT DO IT
It's time for you to not on-line together.
Breaking up with this rotisserie turd is a gift.
If he's moving out, suggest he do that instead of going out to drink.
Right now he’s saying that he’s gonna break things off between us if I don’t give him what he wants,
I would break up w him just for this ultimatum…
I’m hoping that sharing the fact I’m a virgin might make him a bit more understanding and patient cause I really don’t want to make him think that I lead him on. Any advice on how I should do that?
you don't have to share anything w him, virgin or now his behavior is a huge red flag
Op you want to believe they only kissed as it makes it easier for you to swallow and easier to justify to anyone that asks. Seriously I know you know she slept with those guys as you know admitting that really only leaves you one choice. It is very strange for her to admit it now I suspect she run into one of her one night stands and is worried it will come out
Why though? America's maternal and infant morality have been consistently rising. We know c-sections seriously increase risks of complications and death for mother and baby, which is the reason they're reserved for medical necessity in other countries. Here, all a woman has to do is say, I want a c section, and they'll gladly put both the mother and child at risk. Supposedly, this extra risk for them both is for the benefit of the mother's comfort, but doctors aren't willing to risk anyone else's life and safety in the name of comfort.
To compare, if I had gallstones and walked in asking to get it removed, it would never be granted on request. I'd have to exhaust other treatment options or have an acute medical emergency. A doctor would never agree to put a patient at risk purely on patient preference. Pregnant women and infants are treated as inherently less worth protecting in the American medical system, and they're paying for it with their lives. It's no laughing matter
I quit reading after you said a part of you thinks you can do better. Let this poor man go so he can find someone better.
When 50+ people hear your side of the story and tell you to break up, it's nude to empathize with your partner. Peer pressure is a thing, psychologically you will be more entwined in your version of events. Not saying this was the case with their experience, or even generally, but it's definitely not as black and white as you make it out to be.
He just doesn’t want to have to parent. He wants to have his hobby and wants you to be home watching the kids.
He’s being ridiculous and unfair.
He fights with his mom constantly but thinks he should spend the next 40ish years living with her and taking care of her? That sounds like an abusive relationship. Is he in therapy at all to realize just because she gave birth to him doesn’t mean he needs to throw his life away to be abused by her?