Be honest with her and don’t waste her time. She wants the next step and if you aren’t ready then tell her the truth on why. Let her go if you can’t commit.
he got so mad that he smashed the top of our bedside table, destroying it. He also recently put a hole in the drywall of the place we’re renting with his head
Because he takes out his anger like this.
He breaks stuff so he won't break you. I don't give a shit if you have a wonderful relationship, the moment a partner's anger becomes so unstable to the point they start breaking stuff, it's the moment you should think twice whether you want this for the rest of your life.
About his porn addiction, he'll only get over it if he himself puts his mind into it. He clearly found a way to keep watching porn. And him begging you to delete reddit because he'll have no way to do it clearly shows he's not willing to try and stop, also, you're not his mom, you should not have to control a grown man like that, he's your boyfriend, not your kid.
We'll discuss this further after you post this exact post a fourth time.
Be honest with her and don’t waste her time. She wants the next step and if you aren’t ready then tell her the truth on why. Let her go if you can’t commit.
has never hit me or otherwise
He hasn't done this yet
he got so mad that he smashed the top of our bedside table, destroying it. He also recently put a hole in the drywall of the place we’re renting with his head
Because he takes out his anger like this.
He breaks stuff so he won't break you. I don't give a shit if you have a wonderful relationship, the moment a partner's anger becomes so unstable to the point they start breaking stuff, it's the moment you should think twice whether you want this for the rest of your life.
About his porn addiction, he'll only get over it if he himself puts his mind into it. He clearly found a way to keep watching porn. And him begging you to delete reddit because he'll have no way to do it clearly shows he's not willing to try and stop, also, you're not his mom, you should not have to control a grown man like that, he's your boyfriend, not your kid.
I have had several men refuse to sleep with me until I had sobered up when I was in my 20s. So this pathetic excuse isn't going to cut it.