I agree, the funny thing is as I was writing this out I realized i just need to have that conversation. I guess I'm just worried that it would make things worse but it's clear I have to do that.
I'm far from a prude, but seeing the person I love have sex with a stripper wouldn't turn me on either. Not even a little. I don't share. But reading your follow up, fix your situation. I get it, we had 3 kids too. Get a lock for your bedroom door and institute a do not disturb unless there's blood or fire rule. I'm not kidding. Our kuds knew, if the door was open, they could come in, closed was emergencies only. Then work on increasing how often you lock that door and what you're doing when you do. A great gift to yourself is the Adventure Challenge in Bed book. Make a commitment to do one new thing a week.
Please, as someone who dated two guys with children, IT'S NOT WORTH IT. And I was 28/29, not 23 like you are.
Your man is no longer just your man. You will have to share him with baby mama and the baby. He will have be to in contact with the baby mama for the minimum of 18 years. He will have to give his new child attention and money, which takes away from you for the rest of your life. You will no longer be his first baby mama, or give him his first child.
It's not worth it. Find a single man with no baby mama or children
I had a near identical thing happen to me in a long distance relationship. BF’s family knew me, I thought I was the main chick. We talked marriage and everything. He was living with his main chick it turned out and my care package got him found out. He knew I was sending it, but the timing was off and she blew a gasket when it came in, and left him. He said she was his ex and she got fed up with him sleeping on the couch and moved out. So the. I stupidly became the main chick until I widened up years later.
Where was your husband when you came home? Are you absolutely sure he isnt cheating on you?
I agree, the funny thing is as I was writing this out I realized i just need to have that conversation. I guess I'm just worried that it would make things worse but it's clear I have to do that.
I'm far from a prude, but seeing the person I love have sex with a stripper wouldn't turn me on either. Not even a little. I don't share. But reading your follow up, fix your situation. I get it, we had 3 kids too. Get a lock for your bedroom door and institute a do not disturb unless there's blood or fire rule. I'm not kidding. Our kuds knew, if the door was open, they could come in, closed was emergencies only. Then work on increasing how often you lock that door and what you're doing when you do. A great gift to yourself is the Adventure Challenge in Bed book. Make a commitment to do one new thing a week.
I’m leaving her 100%
LEAVE! RUN!
Please, as someone who dated two guys with children, IT'S NOT WORTH IT. And I was 28/29, not 23 like you are.
Your man is no longer just your man. You will have to share him with baby mama and the baby. He will have be to in contact with the baby mama for the minimum of 18 years. He will have to give his new child attention and money, which takes away from you for the rest of your life. You will no longer be his first baby mama, or give him his first child.
It's not worth it. Find a single man with no baby mama or children
I would break his jaw one hundred percent, no chance of any stupid jokes next time. You had the patience of a saint.
I had a near identical thing happen to me in a long distance relationship. BF’s family knew me, I thought I was the main chick. We talked marriage and everything. He was living with his main chick it turned out and my care package got him found out. He knew I was sending it, but the timing was off and she blew a gasket when it came in, and left him. He said she was his ex and she got fed up with him sleeping on the couch and moved out. So the. I stupidly became the main chick until I widened up years later.