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Date: November 4, 2022
It’s already clear. The guy said he still thinks about fucking his ex wife and getting back together. Now tell me OP is just a jealous insecure succubus.
Dude, you can do better. There are other girls out there, NORMAL ones.
If I were the gf I’d be upset if my partner didn’t tell me. Living with people you’ve slept with previously, no matter the circumstances is something that should be discussed with a serious monogamous partner imo
I dont blamw her AT ALL.
You could date someone your own age.
God, I hope this is a troll. If not, run. His argument for pursuing a woman while out with his friends was, “They dared me to do it.” Aside from the ageism and sexism involved in their dare, he's prepared to cheat and tell you about it for the lolz. Dump this child.
Talk about it with him?Bring it up?Ask if their is a problem?
I am here as a single mom myself (not reading the comment section just read through your post) and I wish I had someone like you in my life. Not that I hit my child, I have never and hopefully will never hit my child. But the sleep deprivation and the responsibility and the two jobs and the naughty toddler looks just get to me sometimes and then I wish I was ALWAYS patient and NEVER angry or impatient or frustrated. I wish I had someone to talk to on a regular basis about parenting and what to do in tough parenting situations. Figuring it out on your own is naked. There’s never enough sleep it seems to fulfill all your babies wishes and all I wish is I could just spend more time with her.
Don’t blame yourself in any way whatsoever. To me you are a hero and probably what your man needs. A little support and helping hand and someone who reminds him how to gently correct his baby without hurting her and teaching her the expected behavior.
Sending love your way
Thanks so much your advise has been really thoughtful!
Very well said, will keep this in mind 🙂
I’m not even a swifty & I’d choose the concert. No offense, oP. I didn’t even want to attend my own graduation. They are painstakingly boring. I don’t think it has anything to do with her feelings for you & I’m sure she will still celebrate after.
Someone in a relationship shouldn’t have a sexual expectation? Ever?There is such a thing and saying, we will continue to have sex, but only if you do what I say. Take your soap and go. Most of the relationships on this sub are sexual because most people think sex is good, healthy and an expression of love.
Don't wait. Tell him now. If the positions were reversed, I'm sure you would want to know asap.
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He may very well love you a lot, but it doesn't change what the previous said.
Did you ask her to explain how exactly your friend is a bad influence on you? Did you try to understand her point of view?
What “like to party occasionally together” means? Your girlfriend is not invited to the party?
Is she partying alone with her friends?
Block and ghost her.
Leave him then and work on healing yourself.
Not really on that. There are other reasons. Disagreement on kids mostly
Does she watch a lot of porn, or think that you do?
Kissing…
You’re learning an important life lesson here. You’re learning that it’s totally possible to fall in love with only one side of a person and ignore every other thing about them that hurts or bothers you. You don’t love HER, you love someone like her who isn’t a selfish pig. The woman you’re dating doesn’t love you enough to let you eat. Wake up dude
What an absolute glutton jesus christ. I hope this is fake, why the fuck is she so selfish and eating so god damn much.
It sound's like you're letting your anxiety get in the way. If you're already stressing that she's with other people thats incredibly exhausting. She shouldn't have to be convincing you on week TWO that she's not with other men. You probably need therapy
Girl you are 31 years old!
This man isnt making you happy and is a loser.
Best birthday gift you can get is to get out of this relationship!
Now that I see what everyone is saying now I understand. I worded it terribly. A woman can cut grass and a man can cook. Gender doesn’t matter in this situation and I wasn’t thinking when I wrote it. I didn’t realize that it was going to turn into the gender roles. I grew up seeing all the married women not working but taking care of the home while the man worked. If people can financially do that then great. But two people working should share the load no matter what gender they are.
*British Virgin Islands.
My family lived in the USVI for a short while and I really wouldn't go on holiday there. I assume St. John is fairly safe, but St. Croix and St. Thomas were pretty sketchy. We lived on St. Croix.
She’s manipulating you my guy. Punishing you for not wanting sex with her whenever she wants it. I’d end this expeditiously
“When a man marries his mistress, it creates a vacancy”. All you get is a cheater if he stops lying to both of you and chooses you.
The universe is screaming at you that this dude is a bad idea. LISTEN.
The universe is screaming at you that this dude is a bad idea. LISTEN.
I discovered my insurance covers seeing a dietician with no co-pay, cheaper than going to my PCP.
If you truly do not want to get married, you should break up with your girlfriend and set her free to meet her relationship needs. Getting married is obviously a need for her, and you staying stubbornly refusing to meet that need is selfish. If you truly love her, you need to give her what she needs, even if that's not with you.
Sorry man, but there is no compromise here. It's like the have kids or don't have kids fight, there's no middle ground and there's no point in trying to force a change. It'll only cause long term misery.
Tbh, not everyone is into reading erotic fiction. Many people aren't thrilled to read the creative writing of others.
My husband didn't read the first 150 pages of my dystopian action novel too. And that's okay. He doesn't have to. He enjoys looking at my mapping projects, but reading lots of text, worst case text someone isn't even interested in, isn't fun. And you can't force that on someone. You can tell him what it would mean to you. But sorry, I would pass reading erotic fiction too.
He's cool with your creative hobby. But he doesn't have to participate. Just as he can't limit your masturbation habits. It's all cool.
It might be his first time cheating. It might be his 10th. You might not be the only one currently. He's proven he can't be trusted. Believe that. I'm sorry for you. I have daughters your age. I feel badly for you, but you can't trust him!
Has she always had the same sex drive? Because two years is still somewhat within the honeymoon period and if this is just how her libido is, then it's never going to get better. That's simply the amount of sex she wants, then.
If you feel like it was a lot more before, then there are several things which might have influenced it:
Medications, including birth control, can wreck the libido.
She might be “touched out” from her child and simply not crave more intimate physical contact due to having enough physical touch during the day and not feeling like “her body belongs to her”.
She might feel too stressed because of something.
Her hormones or other things might be off. When did she have her blood checked the last time?
Does she have insecurities? Weight gain? Stretch marks from her last pregnancy? Anything else that causes her to not feel comfortable in her own body anymore?
Are you in the US, in a state which is affected by the changed abortion laws? Would she freak out if she would get pregnant now and not in 1-2 years? Fears of pregnancy are very valid in the current political climate in some countries.
Did anything else happen to her? From a death in the family to bullying at work to someone assaulting her…
But yeah, if things haven't changed much, then her words are simply to be believed – she doesn't want more sex than 2-4 times a month. That has nothing to do with you not helping enough or her not having enough orgasms – just like you want more sex, she simply only wants the few times she wants. Everyone's needs are different and you two may simply be incompatible, in which case no one is at fault at all. It's just two people with different needs.
Sais there's no conflict in the relationship then points out a large conflict
Sais he doesn't wanna do anything to hurt his girlfriend but then sais he's going to fuck other women
My guy you just don't make sense
Break up with the poor girl
Yeah pretty much this. My ex and I would be just like this. I have a military background and thats our way of showing love to one another. We will talk shit, laugh about it and continue moving on, fighting for each other all that good stuffs. My ex and I would call each other ugly and stuffs, laugh about it and do our thing. It's not for everyone I know that. It's all about compatability. You don't like it? Have a discussion and/or move on.
Alimony and half his assets tho. He's probably more fucked tbh
Its not about that its the fact that we both were not being rational and thats not a sign of a healthy relationship because in the near future we might not do rational things because of the heat of the moment. I don’t want that to happen.
I don't hate him at all
He probably just want to say goodbye if she’s moving. No one is “disrespecting your relationship”. Lots of people still care about their exes, just because you don’t want to be in a partnership with them or even friends doesn’t mean they don’t matter.
That’s normal, it would be psycho to be with someone for years and forget about them instantly when you break up.
As in my comment mitigated you not knowing all the evidence….!?
You’ve awaken her inner gold digger.
Run.
He got away from us and we stopped seeing each other
Years later, it turned out that one of the children was not hers, he had the others done dna tests and they were not his.
I'm not seeing, I'm not following, just one of the friends updated the status,
Oh, completely agree. I said very clearly at the end I couldn’t accept being someone’s backup option, and he repeatedly claimed that that wasn’t what was happening — that he didn’t want to move on to fully committing to someone else if there was a risk of feelings keep coming back. But I feel like he wanted me to hang around waiting. Which is obviously not ok.
It's very naked to do. I've waited until like after Christmas or after birthdays to break up with people and it was always worse on them, because they found out they were living a lie for that period of their life. Rip the bandaid off. It's okay to be selfish and focus on you if you aren't happy. Waiting makes it hurt more
Eww didn’t you smell it on your first kiss? ?
I just read up on this and now I feel queasy. Just kill it 2 seconds before boiling. Why is that so naked?
Do you want to be with him? If so, tell him. You have nothing to lose
Do you want to be with him? If so, tell him. You have nothing to lose