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I have no words for people like you…
There is a serious lack of background information here.
Trusting him will give you just a life full of DDays and deceptions. He just want to work on your relation because the other didn’t work or he thinks with you it will be much more easy. Once he gets anyone more “interesting” he will dump you immediately.
Unfortunately you won’t know that if you’re both saving yourselves for marriage.
And if you are craving outward affection and she’s not doing that, she’ll likely never do that. You have to consider ending this and finding someone who more aligns with your values and wants.
I’m starting to think that this “small walk in closet” is like when rich people say they have a vacation “cottage” in the country and it’s actually 6,000 sq ft
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Haha I just wish he'd see that the 10 seconds it would take for him to text me would save all of this angst between us the next day. I really think if he'd just agreed to it and kept to his word this would never have even felt like a big ask to either of us, but now it's snowballed. But thank you for your kind words 🙂
Do you think you could help her out with a lawyer to figure it out or something like that?
I just can't beliebe he'd do that on purpose. He loves me.
Yeah. This is the actually the first time he’s ever directly told me to change, though I do know that he hasn’t liked it for years now.
Projection? Whatever it is for the woman, marriage wasn't even mentioned. It's likely that she's tired not distrustful of him taking responsibility. Unless she found him cheating, she won't suddenly change her mind because of trust issues after 3 years.
so its true wat ur husband say.. ur being a drama queen.. making issues out of nothing..
he never even say he going to leave u or something like tat.
if u want to know then ask a direct question instead of fishing for answers which only u want to hear and get upset when its the wrong answer…
If there's legal action talk to a lawyer. There won't be, because this isn't an actual accusation. It's post break up drama gossip.
You have only been together a couple of months. After this length of time you do not know each other very well. It’s easy to fall for a guy who spends money on you and takes you on trips and stuff. But this says nothing about his character. Lots of psychopaths behave this way.
You may have strong feelings for him but you have to keep your ears and eyes open so you can keep evaluating him and your relationship.
How awful behaviour at the party was not out of character for him. It’s entirely within his character. Alcohol doesn’t make you whisper awful shit, and slap someone you love.
He’s not who you were hoping he was. There is no recovering from this.
How many times have people covered your mouth with their hand??
She indicated in a reply she appreciated my perspective. I wasn’t trying to negate anything she was feeling.
also yes i do know we both are petty and stupidly immature when it comes to us fighting. which is another problem?
Yeah, you need to get over this. This is not a hill to die on. It is completely, absolutely normal, acceptable and logical that the mother of his two children remains covered by his health insurance. In fact the opposite would be illogical and potentially devastating.
Hell no. You have that mortgage and have only been dating for barely two years. If she wants to be on the deed she can wait until you both relocate and she agrees to pay for half a mortgage.
the problem for him is not that he is putting more money, is that it is not being recognized.
First, stop being his long distance booty call. Second, speak to him only regarding the shared child and nothing more. What he does in his personal life is none of your business as long as your child is safe with him.
Thank you for asking questions to make me reflect on the situation. I've always been pretty liberal when it comes to sex, I think it is one of the reasons we connected initially. A lot of what I'm feeling is coming from the fact he hid it from me. I think it is because it makes me question the trust I have in him.
I would have gone on being okay if I hadn't found those messages.
Honestly I have no idea what I want to do, without going into too much detail – this behaviour is very much “him” and coincides with ADHD and impulsive acts when overwhelmed. So, do I just ignore it given that history? Am I just making excuses? Probably.
With the weight-gain thing, I think you're right. Him “blaming” me for the weight gain sounds like him looking for reasons and me blaming myself for the weight gain is not healthy. I have a lot to think about!
My cousin went through something similar and she had her first baby at 37. Pregnancy was difficult but again mines difficult currently and I'm 29.
There is always hope and honestly the people who want it the most make the best mommy's. ?