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Date: November 6, 2022
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You should also distract yourself too, there may be a completely different reason!
Try talking to your friends or watching a movie!
This is asking for trouble it never goes well… it’s like finding out your partner cheated and you want to know where they did it how they did it but really don’t want to know but we do… oof
Same. Been there, done that and got burned, too.
If you’re afraid of pills and end up keeping this pregnancy. What are you doing to do about the prenatal vitamins you should take during pregnancy to prevent cleft pallet and other issues?
Yeah I was overly protective and jealous when I was around your age. Just learn from it. Give her space. Reflect and see why it was wrong. Yeah she shouldn't have done it but that really wasn't the hill to die on. What you did was definitely a bigger red flag than her call. I don't think either of you are super “wrong” more like incompatible if she is going to go against a boundary (although she did not actually go through with it and it was the only time in your relationship she had a moment of weakness) you basically sealed your own fate by not trusting her. I went through something similar only she was hanging out with the guy and my gut was right, but it seems yours unfortunate to was wrong
This is it. The two of you are completely incompatible and you wanted back in for sex. Why string each other along.
You're trying to get him back
i’m 21 and i probably wouldn’t date an 18 year old. like they’d have to be my perfect match (which i already have and is age appropriate, lmao). it’s weird. i feel for you if you have trouble making connections with people your own age but you should go to therapy or something, don’t date people who are barely legal.
You know everything you have said to me just went through my mind. Thank you so much for confirming to me that I'm not crazy!
Cheaters don’t feel sorry for their partner, they feel sorry for the consequences they receive. Cheaters are fundamentally selfish people who couldn’t care less about their partners until they have something to lose.
she tells me we'll hang out but then doesn't follow through, texts me and leaves me on read, and tells me bluntly that she is too busy for me.
That should be an ample enough message to you not to pursue her further.
Sweetie, your BF is an idiot to be holding those nutso views on birth control pills. Your personality doesn't change bc of modern (i.e., low dose) birth control pills! And his anecdotal stories of women breaking up with guys after they went off them is just … too ridiculous for words. He's making stuff up AND making it all about HIMSELF. He's not your doctor. Don't listen to his nonsense.
OMG, that is a horrendous read
Don't act like you're innocent in this, you suck too ?
Lied to the girl so you could screw another girl.
All of this is messy.
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A few weeks isn't nearly enough to heal, after 6 months or longer then you'll really see more of the change.
But if she did have a deviated septum, it's for the better in the end.
Just give it time.
I totally thought he was giving you gifts.
Tell tour sister no, you aren’t giving him a gift because you can’t afford it, even if she already knows this. Shoot, why would you give her boyfriend a gift and not your parents and her boyfriend hasn’t even gifted you anything. You have nothing to feel bad about.
Does he come to you asking to hangout or is it always you asking him?
Sorry to say there is no other way than just telling her the truth at this point. Be honest with her, you didnt want her to think you were trying to trick her with your profile, but you liked her and panicked and you know it was absolutely not the right way to handle it. It will probably be awkward and embarrasing, she might be mad at you or just find it silly, but at the end of the day you cant hide this, and the longer you just let it sit there, the longer she will know you lied when it comes out. It can be an embarrasing story, or the reason she doesnt feel like she can trust you.
It's best to negotiate what will happen with rent before a change in income happens because if you do it after, it's all but guaranteed to be a mess.
Generally, I find it most fair to pay rent according to ability, for example: if someone makes 60% of the income, they pay 60% of the rent.
And you have a job again right? Given you are going to college too I imagine the above arrangement would make the split rather extreme. But I think it'd certainly be fair if he paid a larger percentage given his ability to pay rent compared to you.
And extreme splits aren't out of the ordinary, my gf and I pay rent 70/30.
On top of this though, you have other problems. 18 is a VERY young age to move in together. I find a lot of people need to have some independence for a year or more to then be ready to live with a S/O.
Some people just don’t like initiating. They want the other person to take charge. If she’s still saying yes most of the time you initiate, and she’s still enjoying the sex itself, then that’s a pretty good sign, IMO.
It actually sounds like it's suddenly become more “transparent”. This guy is looking to cheat on someone he's in a relationship with and you're the one he wants to turn into the “side chick”. Whether or not to allow that is up to you. Hearing something you don't want to hear IS “transparency”. He's telling you to the truth, you just wish it wasn't the truth.
I don't know how else to say this. You are in an abusive relationship. There are no ands ifs or buts about it. And the answer is no, and abusive relationship doesn't require work, it requires feet. This is a web of control that is going to have you so tangled up you won't know which end is up. Get. Out. Now.
You're 63kg and 171cm.
This isn't his opinion. He's not trying to save you from embarrassment. He's being an asshole to you.
There are many reasons why some men do this, but I can't speak to his motivation.
What does he suggest as a strategy? He needs to take the lead with fixing his behaviour. It can’t be we(you) suggesting it.
Why does he shut down? Why is he doing the behaviour he does? What’s his explanation?
What does he suggest as a strategy? He needs to take the lead with fixing his behaviour. It can’t be we(you) suggesting it.
Why does he shut down? Why is he doing the behaviour he does? What’s his explanation?
Yeah, sorry to break it to ya but he was ripped on cocaine. 100%.
Homie was doing blow. You were right. He’s gaslighting you.
Your guy is a good dude at least.
There are many reasons we are better off with the birth rate going up as well.
You could have a conversation, the three of you(and kid and his dad) and make a decision. Maybe get ice cream and discuss the topic.
I am sorry but I want to punch your boyfriend. He made me vomiting. He's using you and your body for what? Darn, RUN!!
I just can’t trust him now especially not to Uber and I don’t see him getting another job. But you are right I guess I need to give him a ultimatum
Its less about “getting over her” and more about how you process the feeling you have.
cheating is the worst kind of betrayal. It gave me mental health and self esteem issues for years. Ex boyfriend 100%
Human Biology is pretty straightforward and has been for thousands of years
Are you delusional? Him breaking up with was the best gift he ever gave you.
What a toxic, man child, pedophile. Block him asap and move on with you life and don’t be a door mat
Agree. Go to Milan. If he had your best interests at heart, he would be your biggest supporter.
Go NC with her. She’s going to sabotage every relationship you’re ever going to try having with a woman if it’s not Jess. Also something tells me Jess might know about your mother’s scheme.
Dating is kind of like applying for jobs. You send out a bunch of applications with your CV, get some callbacks and set up interviews. You don't cancel all of the other interviews after you go to the first one.
Dating is similar in that regard, as you were just talking and he had no guarantee you both would have hit it off and liked each other. The important thing is, did he cancel all of the other interviews after he “got the job”?
I specifically said “maybe I would want us to be allowed to sleep with others” as in I wouldn't put that as a restriction, not that I would specifically want us to go around sleeping with others. That's not something I crave and going out of our way to seek out sex with others would absolutely be something not okay for me, but if I were to ask for more freeness in our relationship I wouldn't put a bar on that if thats what he would want to do and the situation happened to come up.
Sure, that’s one way to look at it. I’m implying that his actions — and consuming guilt— have everything to do with OP and precious little to do with the latest “girl” he’s talking to. Note OP makes no mention of a physical relationship with this girl. Ladies, we need to talk…