My husband’s best friend’s wife Ali work at the same company I actually do. We are not very close mainly because I always felt that the lady didn’t like me. Anyway evidently she had a crush on my husband. My husband and I often get invited to parties on their house. I didn’t visit Ali’s 40th birthday last august. She had a huge party. I was just starting with my worst morning illness period (which nobody informed me were not only reserved intended for mornings). Ali made the move on my husband and he got very upset and turned her down. Ali obtained angry and told your pet that everyone was doing it. Every married couples cheat. Her hubby was cheating and I has been cheating. She told him it was a colleague associated with mine. I colleague my husband already disliked. When my hubby got home he has been drunk and very upset. He or she confronted me I told him it wasn’t genuine but he slept on the sofa. A couple of weeks later this individual told me to move out.
Apparently Ali provided my hubby with information about my infidelity. Late working hours and so forth I was shocked and had simply no where to go. I moved in with my parents. My parents thought I was cheating too and I seemed they had to take me in. I never felt therefore hurt in my life. Exactly how could my husband so simply believe such thing about me. He demanded the paternity test.
Within November my husband found out the truth when another friend’s wife told her husband what Ali did. My husband apologized and was devastated and wished to make it up to me. He told me when Ali informed him he didn’t believe her, then he found out that she was telling the truth about her husband being an adulterer so he thought the girl was telling the truth about every thing.
If I wasn’t expectant I would never have taken my husband back. But I just don’t want my baby to become born without his parents being together. I love my stepdad but he never ever loved me like he or she did his biological kids (my half siblings) also it gave me a lot of pain growing up. I moved back home per month ago but we are still in therapy. Nothing seems the same. I don’t know what I feel about my husband. Sometimes I love him. Sometimes I don’t. They are trying to make me happy again but he feels the change. Last time all of us made love he kept telling me to come back in order to him and then broke down crying and moping while we were still personal at because “I wasn’t there” and he started blaming himself.
I don’t know what to do. I know I’m as being a bit distant and it’s not intentional. I need this to work, not only for our son however for us too. Help me find my way back to just how it was or at least give me ways to cope and try to on-line with the knowledge that things maybe a bit worse moving forward
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