When her friend asked about me she went on to say that not having met me would be worth the trade-off and she could always have found someone else.
Damn..That is a shot to the gut.
Sorry man. I don't know what to tell you, because you seem to have a pretty good assessment of things if I'm being honest.
I've been in a similar situation with a girl that ended up not working out, but that doesn't mean it can't.
Personally though, I think just hearing what she said would kill it for me, so to speak. Don't think I could ever view the relationship the same way again even if I wanted to, but that is a question you would have for yourself.
It seems like reddit is always quick to jump to “you should break up ASAP” but I'm not saying that at all. I'm just being honest about how I would feel, but I don't know you from the guy down the road, so I would just say trust your instincts.
When her friend asked about me she went on to say that not having met me would be worth the trade-off and she could always have found someone else.
Damn..That is a shot to the gut.
Sorry man. I don't know what to tell you, because you seem to have a pretty good assessment of things if I'm being honest.
I've been in a similar situation with a girl that ended up not working out, but that doesn't mean it can't.
Personally though, I think just hearing what she said would kill it for me, so to speak. Don't think I could ever view the relationship the same way again even if I wanted to, but that is a question you would have for yourself.
It seems like reddit is always quick to jump to “you should break up ASAP” but I'm not saying that at all. I'm just being honest about how I would feel, but I don't know you from the guy down the road, so I would just say trust your instincts.