My ( 38F ) boyfriend ( 34M )of three years doesn’t let me use their phone or laptop. Elements came to a head and I snooped.

He' t never let me use their phone or laptop through the entire relationship, but I never ever particularly cared. I have my very own. Things changed this past week though.

We' ve been housesitting together in an region that has no cell company. The other day I' d overlooked my phone at my location, so I had no way to make contact with anyone. I asked him if I could use his telephone to sign into messenger and quickly send a message to a friend of my own who I was meeting later. He was sitting within the couch opposite me making use of his phone and he informs me that I can use the notebook in the office. Thos laptop is one of the owner of the house. I' deb already explored that option and told my boyfriend there was a password onto it. He then said he' deb find his old ipad tablet and I could use that. WHILST HOLDING HOS PHONE 2 FEET AWAY FROM ME! I let that go.

Yesterday, I pointed at their laptop and said that I' d like to print some things. He immediately told me that I should use the notebook in the office. I again informed him that it was password safeguarded. He says, " I can find the password out. " I again left it alone. Later, he calls the homeowner in PANAMA AND NICARAGUA , where they' re on holiday to get the password for their notebook….. while his laptop sitting right there on the table. I informed him that the situation was really fucked up and visited bed.

This morning I decided to take my things and go back to my place to consider things. He was at work. I was packing my some misconception and grabbed a grocery store bag that I thought experienced my books in it. This didn' t: it had a small laptop and a few folded pages of paper. I pulled out the paper and yes it was a list of his security passwords.

I sat and thought about this for three hours plus whether I should/would spy. I finally did thinking about the past week. One of the passwords opened the laptop plus…. there was nothing nefarious on it. Opened his two email messages… nothing. Facebook…. nothing.

Exactly why was he so insistent on keeping these things personal? Obviously, I need to leave your pet because I totally violated his privacy… but the reason why wouldn' t he simply let me use the stupid notebook or phone?