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Date: October 8, 2022
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Next time he’s out you could drop a hint on social, (tell her as well discreetly), then she could catch him… you could signal when and where based on the public hint. She could claim she was concerned and she stalked your social to find out where he was.
He had actually arrived back home to British Columbia for Christmas a couple days ago, which I forgot to add.
Thank you for the advice
You do a thing well, you like when people give positive feedback. These are normal behaviours. It only gets weird/ self serving when you start to punish people for not doing the bit you like (by taking away their food, or not inviting them in future, or going like Monica from friends in that one episode)
There's a difference between “I'm a great cook, so I cooked for my friend whose grieving and they didn't say thank you or seem impressed so I took my food back, aita” and what you've described here. Your bf's behaviour is more suspicious.
NTA
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He is treating you like you are his sugar momma. Give your head a shake, you are too old to be in this rotten relationship. Do yourself a favour and dump the selfish user and spend your money on therapy instead.
i do think everyone is right by thinking your BF is creepy, but as the child of an asian mom and a white dad that are about twenty years apart, I understand why your family is supportive of your white boyfriend, and how HIS financials are desirable because thats essentially the relationship between my mother and father. (They have been married for almost 40 years now, are best friends and he respects her. I have other half asian friends with white dads and asian moms with less of a gap., but still around 10 years between mom and dad. So i get it.
Just be careful. I understand both sides of this. But if the question it “how do i tell my cousin that having sex with my BF is not illegal,” i would just literally point to the LAWS and tell her that you want to make your own choices, even if they turn out to be mistakes.
Well, then stay with your cheating boyfriend until you find him with his dick inside someone. Easy.
I am so sorry for everyone in this subreddit. This is the first time I posted here and I am scared, terrified, precocious for future reference. I just want you all to know who are suffering there are people out there who love you all even if they havent even met you yet. I posted on this subreddit without even reading the subreddit…life sucks alot…I am sorry everyone. I want to just say that life wasnt created easy for any of us. Life was created to help one another. I just read some of the saddest sitiautions I have ever seen. This is a prime example of people coming to gether as one to beat the odds and continue to move on from what we lost and build. I respect all who have suffered in the subreddit. I am sorry for my wimmpy post.
The husband needs to do the reverse now, “I want to have a relationship with my adult child, and I want to be her dad and supportive.”
And, that's fine. The father has every right to do so at any time he wanted.
What he did NOT have the right to do was lie about being in contact with the affair child and steal from the wife.
If he wanted to have a relationship, he needed to be upfront with the wife and get her agreement to spend their money OR get a divorce, divide up assets and use his own money to support the daughter.
The wife does not now, nor did she EVER have a responsibility to accept the daughter in her life. The father was sneaking off and lying about fishing trips and work trips to spend time with her. The mother set her conditions for staying in the marriage. Either abide by them or end the marriage – it's really that simple.
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Fight club seems kinda extreme haha he did do boxing and goes to the gym but I don't think it would be a fight club.
I’m sorry, your boyfriend seems clueless. Not only is he clueless, he tried to flip the script and be insulted that you would relish the opportunity to live! in places that have very little diversity. I would think long and nude about marrying and/or having a kid with this man.
Maybe she is sending them to someone to make them jealous
Also I literally stated he had plenty of other porn lots of straight porn of all types of kinks that i dont care about:) I don’t even particularly care about the sissy porn, if thats all it is porn. However from my knowledge of the sissy community it is a very much lifestyle thing. Thats why I included the bit about messages, because I can live! with it however its already clearly more than just porn.
Im looking for advice on if I should even bring it up to him:)
I just tested it on Google, it works! ?? can’t wait for my husband to get home to show him my new power
got engaged towards the end of last year. He moved in with me around May of last year and all was going well until I realized he hadn't been helping with anything around the house and I was having to constantly remind him to take out the trash, help with the dishes, do the laundry, etc.
yeah, you are babies….and already engaged???? Why?
Read up on the term “emotional load”, and then read the articles “she divorced me because I left the dishes by the sink” and “you should have asked”.
Furthermore, stop using the term “helping”. Your SO is an adult, doing chores is a normal part of adulthood. This is his house too.
I said in the previous 2 conversations and he got defensive saying he couldn't remember.
He simply doesn't want to remember. He can set alarms or develop other strategies to not forget. However, I assume he doesn't have similar issues at work, at school, or when he plans stuff with friends.
This can't be real.
Okay, listen to me:
Does she live! miles away? So far that driving to her place would take hours?
If the answer to that question is no, then why is he sleeping over at her place if they're not having sex?
Does she need “emotional support” from her random hookup …. while she is literally asleep? That sounds a bit weird doesn't it? Both the part about choosing your one night stand as your “emotional support animal” and the part about needing that “emotional support” while being asleep.
Also, you said you found out because you have shared locations. Is there a reason he didn't tell you himself? I'm gonna do a wild guess and say: yes, there's a reason, and that reason is that he's sleeping with her.
Dare him to prove me wrong.
As a woman in a healthy non jealous relationship I have meals with my male friends one on one occasionally. My boyfriend is happy to get the extra video game time and potential leftovers, and for me to socialize without him having to go out. I don’t really have any female friends in the area anymore and it’s never been an issue. We’re in our 40s though so possibly past the age of insecurity.
Hey I wouldn't love this either. I'd ask him how deep it really is though. I bet he's just saying that they're pretty, which is ok. If hes ogling them or something thats a different story and you can have a different conversation about reapect. Ask him why he says that and how he'd feel about you saying that about other men. Chances are he doesnt really mean that much by it and would be fine with you making comments too, OR stopping with the comments since it makes you feel bad. Youre allowed to let him know how those comments make you feel and that you don't really want to hear those thoughts.
Can you compromise? She needs time to herself and do so you. There needs to be mutual time spent together (whole point of a relationship, I totally understand). Can you both start with at least one dedicated day? Meets some need for togetherness. If you got a full day, you might not feel any need to demand the full 3. Might work for both of you.
Fear can keep bad relationships going. It’s unfortunately worse for her because because she is now in her 30’s.
But that issue isn’t yours. Unless someone takes control of their lives this relationship will just coast but never grow. Slowly making you both more unhappy because you both know it’s just a safety relationship.
You should keep her age in mind because she may be more resistant to breakup purely out of a greater fear. It doesn’t change the need.
Op you are right about the Madonna complex. I have heard of it alot. Elvis had this problem. This is why they got Divorced. If you don't get therapy,I think your relationship ,is not going to be a healthy one. Don't think that you are not attractive enough. You are not the problem!please don't do that to yourself!I think you are correct,about not wanting to be in a sex less, relationship.I wish you the best of luck.
How about riding side saddle?
Im no lawyer, but id look into Child Abandonment. You got together 2 years after she left and have been together 5. So thats 7 years she had no contact with her daughter.
Your wife shouldn’t have hit you. Period.
Why do you willingly take pics of other people instead of the woman you are supposed to love?
To me it seems like separation-lite. A deliberate cutting-off of romantic contact to put me on edge. A way to force me to apologize even if I'm not in the wrong
Is this what she's told you or indicated, or is this just what you are assuming?
She might be more upset than you think that she is. Maybe she needs time by herself. Keep talking to her about it until you understand what is going on.
My first impulse was to ask if the boyfriend was a drug dealer.
The texting happened for the starting 6 months of our relationship. We are about to complete a year this may. They have not been in contact since December. The friend lives kind of far like opposite ends of a big city.