My current gf and I had this same talk. It comes from him being able to see the faults in himself. He will never see himself as “perfect” and that’s ok. Just keep complimenting him, be there for him and just support him. He may gain his confidence in some areas but that’s the sign of an introspective man.
What part of my post made you think that I was holding him accountable of my past ex actions? Because you’re not the first one to tell me this in the comments and it’s starting to be frustrating lol because I don’t feel that’s what I’m doing so I would like to know to either edit that part or delete it ? Just because someone was cheated before doesn’t mean they are being jealous or controlling with their next partners? But they are sure going to be less naive in the future, at least I hope so
I feel with your answers that I either didn’t express myself clearly or you simply didn’t understand what I was saying. How can him having a social life could be see as a betrayal?
And if you think any time coming home is a good time coming home, let’s say you had a boyfriend (or girlfriend) and they were coming home at 6am, you would be fine with it? No I don’t want to be with a immature child sorry. You can’t be with someone and act as if you were single, I hate that 2022 mentality, then people are wondering why everyone is cheating with everyone and why people are swapping each other so fast and why nothing is deep anymore when people are acting as if nothing was meaningful lol. I don’t want to be with someone who thinks coming home at no hours if responsible
My current gf and I had this same talk. It comes from him being able to see the faults in himself. He will never see himself as “perfect” and that’s ok. Just keep complimenting him, be there for him and just support him. He may gain his confidence in some areas but that’s the sign of an introspective man.
Nah fuck that shit.
What part of my post made you think that I was holding him accountable of my past ex actions? Because you’re not the first one to tell me this in the comments and it’s starting to be frustrating lol because I don’t feel that’s what I’m doing so I would like to know to either edit that part or delete it ? Just because someone was cheated before doesn’t mean they are being jealous or controlling with their next partners? But they are sure going to be less naive in the future, at least I hope so
I feel with your answers that I either didn’t express myself clearly or you simply didn’t understand what I was saying. How can him having a social life could be see as a betrayal?
And if you think any time coming home is a good time coming home, let’s say you had a boyfriend (or girlfriend) and they were coming home at 6am, you would be fine with it? No I don’t want to be with a immature child sorry. You can’t be with someone and act as if you were single, I hate that 2022 mentality, then people are wondering why everyone is cheating with everyone and why people are swapping each other so fast and why nothing is deep anymore when people are acting as if nothing was meaningful lol. I don’t want to be with someone who thinks coming home at no hours if responsible