That middle aged man is probably dating a teenager for the same reason that he doesn’t want to reassure or compliment you too much: insecure teens are easy to manipulate and control. Dump the loser whose “Christian lifestyle” allows him to have sex with you but not to compliment you, and avoid serious long term relationships until you are in a healthier place.
He has got plenty advice what and how should he do. If he doesn't know how to be earnest than maybe he shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place.
As others have said, get a lawyer. Unless there are serious issues in your household, your husband's ex will not immediately get primary custody. They will likely give her a step up visitation schedule to work towards 50/50 unless there are very compelling reasons not to. A lawyer is going to be best equipped to help your husband and you resolve this. I'm really sorry you're all going through this.
Maybe you two are just ‘bored’. Go on a date. Treat it like a blind date. Both of you dress a little differently and you don’t know each other. Your name will be John Stamos. Wine her, dine her, then take her to pound town!
Woah, favorite comment on our side
That middle aged man is probably dating a teenager for the same reason that he doesn’t want to reassure or compliment you too much: insecure teens are easy to manipulate and control. Dump the loser whose “Christian lifestyle” allows him to have sex with you but not to compliment you, and avoid serious long term relationships until you are in a healthier place.
He has got plenty advice what and how should he do. If he doesn't know how to be earnest than maybe he shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place.
“Mom/Dad… From now on, you're getting one phone call once a week. Keep on calling me 40 times a day and you won't even get that.”
As others have said, get a lawyer. Unless there are serious issues in your household, your husband's ex will not immediately get primary custody. They will likely give her a step up visitation schedule to work towards 50/50 unless there are very compelling reasons not to. A lawyer is going to be best equipped to help your husband and you resolve this. I'm really sorry you're all going through this.
Maybe you two are just ‘bored’. Go on a date. Treat it like a blind date. Both of you dress a little differently and you don’t know each other. Your name will be John Stamos. Wine her, dine her, then take her to pound town!