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Dump him. If I told my SO sex was hurting me it would stop there and then. Also blue balls isn't a thing. Sex used to hurt me at your age, it was because my partner at the time wasn't right for me and my body knew before I did.
Try to keep swapping drinks with her while she’s not looking and she if she spikes herself out cold
good riddance
I'm glad you've both had a chance to reset after the outburst and it seems like things can go back to your normal dynamic.
Having said that, I think your therapist is right, putting some distance between you both and learning to be emotionally independent as well seems like the healthy thing to do.
I'm glad you're going to have a conversation with him and explain why you need space. I think this is important, and he has a right to the truth as well. You've already said that his isn't about confessing or bring some rival to his gf, it's the truth. And he's someone you respect and are close to, he deserves the truth I think.
Just remember to be honest, factual, and don't ask anything of him when you do explain. This is kindness you need for yourself and you need his support in understanding why you'll be stepping away for a while. Keep your head clear, stuck to your plan, and wish him all the best. You'll be better for it and you'll be able to return to the friendship with a better mindset.
Then go sign up for some classes locally, join some clubs, something that will get you out of the house once a week. You aren't obliged to be all chatty with people while you're there, but you'll be somewhere new, learning a new skill. It'll be a healthy environment for you during this period of time you're getting used to the absence of E.
Good luck x
Okay that's weird. So he told you he was 24 rather than 25 when you met and lied about turning 25 rather than 26 in August.
I don't like that. Why lie about such a stupid thing ? Would make me super uncomfortable too. If he's lying about that what else is he lying about.
Drinking and driving is never ok, NEVER. This shouldn't be a negotiable boundary.
You could try therapy to see if you can find out what you are missing from inside you.
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Very good points and pretty much sums up my feelings towards it. Very selfish behavior. I can't fathom not telling someone, just because I want to with them and don't want to scare them away. Like wtf
You are trying to solve a problem you don't have right now, yes, there could be problems in the future ( of any kind) but you are not there yet and you can't prevent them. You can enjoy the ride, if there ar problems you may solve them or not but at the moment you cant do anything besides learn more about your gf and enjoy every step.
I mean this in the kindest way possible: You will probably never get the answers you want, and that has to be ok. She broke it off. That sucks, but you have to respect it and move on, however that looks for you.
that’s a new perspective, thank you so much
i promise you that is not a normal neurotypical / neurodivergent relationship. i know you two have been together for over a decade, but please don’t allow your history to blindside you into believing that this is what a typical (loving) relationship should look like. or even a healthy relationship, honestly. as women it is so easy to get caught up in settling for scraps because we believe that is all men are able to give. my partner and i are not perfect, but they move mountains for me and always have. they do their best to love me in the ways i need to be loved, and even at times where they don’t necessarily have the bandwidth (i have bpd, am on the spectrum, as well as a myriad of other diagnoses), they do things to show me love to the best of their capabilities.
please just reread your own comment, because it broke my heart. would you want your children in this kind of relationship, believing that is how love is supposed to look or that they’re supposed to be treated these ways? you deserve the same love you extend to them, for yourself. you shouldn’t have to ask, and his words quite frankly don’t mean anything, when he shows no effort and you don’t feel cherished at all. the best 40th birthday present you could give yourself is the chance to be truly loved and understood by someone- the feeling of knowing someone likes you, without having to ask. the feeling of your quirks not seeming like a burden or an annoyance, but a gift. you don’t deserve another 40 years of this, and it’s never too late to start over.
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I wouldn't give any weight to anything he's said, more like the exact opposite. He wasn't a partner that wanted the best version of you, but the worst because you would be easier to control and manipulate.
I'm glad that my comment was able to help in some small way. Take care of yourself ❤️
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i don't pay rent because he owns the apartment, i have absolutely no problem with even paying for everything, i would have not complained about it i had enough money, i just end up broke at the end of every month and can't even get us groceries to eat, because it seems that he thinks it's my responsibility to pay for them now
Luckily (or not) for me, my sperm is weak so for us to have kids we’d have to do something like IVF
She indicated in a reply she appreciated my perspective. I wasn’t trying to negate anything she was feeling.
But you dont, lmao. That's why you're here looking for advice when you're obviously in a terrible situation you put yourself in because you were manipulated by this loser BF of yours. Now you have to deal with this dud, potential predator, for the rest of that kid's life. If you would have gotten pregnant at 18, you'd have two losers for baby daddies. My advice is you need help. And not just with this relationship. Holy shit, it just gets worse and worse the more you type and you have zero self awareness of your actual situation.
If only it were that easy!
Why are you with someone who is so disrespectful and clueless? You could be with someone else.
This has bum fuck to do with equal rights.
Like I said, woke. Always equating shit that is unrelated.
This woman can do what the fuck she wants. Other people don't have to like it or support it.
Ain't nobody here suggested she wasn't allowed to do what she wants.
But your brain is too fogged up from all that wokeness ri realize that. ?
My boyfriend had this happen when we were in college. I still get in fights with these very pro-foreskin groups sometimes about the realities not being circumcised can cause. I am sorry you are going through this. Mine was too afraid to get the surgery even though it was free in Canada, and he passed away childless 5 years ago. I imagine that was why (I am 48).
“F22”
“Grew up in a Christian household”
“We get married in a month”
It’s like Relationship Advice Shit life decision bingo.
Go to the police and file a harassment case!
Honestly I think I just lost myself. My relationship before this one was abusive and shook a lot of my self confidence. And during this time I lost 6 people in my life so I guess I haven’t been able to sit and look at my relationship.
Anti vax moms do this to their kids and the “proof” is the “worms.” People are dumb as fuk.
She likes hanging out with him because he is older, more mature, and can buy alcohol for her. Most likely he gets some kind of sexual favors from her.
Sorry man, this GF has got to go.
I'd go, and I'd throw her a wave or a nod so she knows I paid my respects, then leave.