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NAKED ALL AT GOAL // I’m new here my body want funny… who want fuck me? [70 tokens remaining]
Date: November 24, 2022
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Does she fitnthe “fiery latina” stereotype where she gets loud and overly emotional about things?
I had no idea humans say this in real life. That's incredible disrespectful to see cultural difference and think “stereotype”. And it doesn't help OP communicate better at ALL.
They neednto focus on saying what they need and compromising.
Man if I had a nickel for every time that happened.
Yeah, I dunno. Really doesn't seem that funny to me at all, but you all do you all.
Based on your post history and your previous admission that he has a savior fetish it sounds like he thought he was going to act out one of his stories and got his ass kicked and now he feels defeated. The entire situation seemed overblown, but now that I see all of your posts it makes sense why it hit him (no pun) this hot. Maybe you need to talk to him about the weird fetish, but overall the entire relationship sounds a bit gross to me overall.
I don’t have advice but I am so so sorry for your tragic losses. I don’t think anyone can understand unless they’ve been through it. The average person will have no clue how to deal with the grief you’re feeling cause they haven’t felt it themselves. You need to find / build a community of support who have been through similar things. They can lead the way. Individual therapy, too.
I feel the exact same way in my relationship. 🙁 I have zero self esteem these days.
Maybe he’s really into the seduction and romance, but nit the relationship.
I’m glad you asked because now you know he doesn’t want a relationship and you can decide what you’ll do with that information. Good for you. So many people don’t ask and spend loads of time and energy wondering.
This would have been the end for me. Anything that happens after is already toxic.
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This will get lost – you should probably add it into the op That’s great that you’re going to report him though, he deserves it
She says she doesn't feel supported.
When I ask her why, she says “You know why.”
When I tell her I'm trying to support, she says “You should seek help, you're blind to what's going on.”
Today she literally said to me, “I think you have aspberger's [I don't], you need therapy.”
The truth is I don't know, but I think it's when little things get procrastinated on. Like if a sink breaks it takes me awhile to fix it I'm almost always overwhelmed with daily responsibilities.
I think it's just not being proactive enough with fixing stuff, cleaning, etc.
You’re an idiot.
If you make so much money why don’t you just hire a chef? Then no one has to cook.
It’s a life skill. It’s not just about the actually food, but feeling like you’re married to a man child that could feed himself of delivery wasn’t an option. It’s pretty unattractive in a partner. Not saying you have to be a great cook, but you should know how to make basic things.
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Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life?
You’ll do anything but communicate with the mother of your child. Or even come up with a concrete example of what she’s doing that’s do egregious. All these words and none of them say a single thing she’s done — what are you trying to hide?
Nah, I was like this young, too. My sister had a boyfriend who was always joking around, wrestling with her. Then he broke her arm and tried to act like it was an accident/joke. It wasn't.
Thank you for your answer, yes I definitely think it will impact our friendship from now on
One of my weird habits is i'll yell “ow!” when i'm startled, but not necessarily in any particular pain. It's led to some surprised and in other cases, unkind feedback, along the lines of “how did that hurt you?”, etc. I can kinda see how someone's brain might jump to “mommy!” as an exclamation – it's not an unheard-of thing culturally.
Because honestly, I didn’t think I could get pregnant. I have always wanted to be a mom honestly and was trying with my ex, turns out he was lying about “finishing” and it made me feel like I couldn’t get pregnant at all. I have medical conditions that make it very difficult so I just chopped it up to impossible, till poof got pregnant. I didn’t want an abortion, not my thing. (In no way a political thing. I have nothing against other people doing it, I just didn’t want to)
And, really, he is a really nice guy. He doesn’t hurt me, not raise his voice, is very gentle, and he does care. But it’s almost like his actions don’t match his words. He acts like he loves us, but says he may not be capable of it. Although he did say he cares and I will always have a place in his home and life because of our son.
Honey, you experienced trauma in your last relationship. That trauma needs to be processed before you can really move on. Talk to your parents and tell them that you could use their help finding a therapist to help you overcome the damage that your ex has done to you mentally. When you panic because of anxiety you will activate flight or fight but there's 2 other possible things that can activate too when having a panic attack: Fawn and freeze. Freezing up like that is super common with anxiety, I speak from experience, I tend to freeze or fawn instead of flee or fight.
I wish you all the luck. And as far as the new girl is concerned, if you feel comfortable, open up to her about the issues you're working through. You don't have to tell her everything, just let her know that you had a panic attack and it made you realize that you have some unresolved issues because of things your ex did while you were dating. She deserves to know that it's not her that's the issue.
Relax! She might have had problems falling asleep. I only managed to fall asleep after 5AM this morning, and it's just eight hours ago. I would have still slept hadn't my dog woken me up three hours ago.
Or maybe she's ghosting you. Or her phone died during the night, so nothing woke her up this morning, and she really needs some extra sleep.
Or any number of reasons! If it continues until tomorrow, THEN you can start wondering about her ghosting you. Relax, and don't over-analyze.
This got worse when she tried to cheat on you? She sounds like she’s insecure and probably has anxiety or another mental health disorder. But why isn’t her cheating on you a bigger part of the story?
Thank you and you're correct. She chose the petty way and I've decided I don't need this negativity in my life. They've been blocked after Jessica sent some screenshots of a separate group chat where they praised her for her brutal honesty, saying I'm delusional and my marriage won't last.
What is the purpose of telling her? So you feel better about yourself? Yall aren't together. You did nothing wrong.
Just keep it to yourself.
She ahd 5 years to process her ex abandoning her, and then she had 3 weeks to process him being in the same city as her and how to approach her boyfriend. She treated OP like shit, cancelling plans and not really talking to him for 3 weeks. And when he asked after those three weeks about it, she lied.
She could have said “I am just feeling overwhelmed, and need more time to process my feelings”, or “I just need some space so I can work through my hangup”, or “Him coming back to town has opened some old wounds, and I need time to heal”, or any of a number of half truths that would have assured OP. Instead, she just closed down the discussion by denying it was a problem at all.
OP was just left with no communication about her, them, or their future. She wasn't willing to talk to him at all. And she outright lied to him. He asked if it was the ex, she said no, the truth was yes. She was not only not being transparent, she was actively clouding the room with deceit. And on top of that, she was not giving him anything to understand they were going to be okay; cancelling scheduled events for three weeks and refusing to talk about why? I'd be done with her right then and there, no diary needed.
Because he doesn’t cheat? Because they have trust and a healthy sex life unlike his friend?
If you feel uncomfortable don't pursue the relationship in any way at all.
Thank you for your input. It’s so difficult to love myself when she left me shattered and feeling hopeless. I’m doing everything I should be doing, but it’s all hollow inside. I don’t feel like I can do better. I don’t know.
I have to say that this has to be one of the most ridiculous things I’ve ever heard.
She got mad because you didn’t wish her happy women’s day. Like, seriously?
As a woman, I didn’t even know it was international women’s day until someone told me. Why? Because this woman was too busy dealing with real world, everyday life shit.
Like spilling my coffee all over myself because Space Dog, the naughtiest blab ever—half blue heeler, half lab—heard a noise in the hall, got spooked, and tried to climb his 80+ lb ass into my lap.
After getting spooked, he decides he needs a nap and curls up on my pillows. Great, I thought. He’s distracted. I can go make myself another cup of coffee. I’m gone maybe five minutes. Maybe. I come back to find him rolling around on the dozens of little red Hot Tamelas that now cover my bed and pillows, with the torn box in his mouth. It must be noted that this box is the same box I couldn’t find the day before, so I have no idea where he got it.
I could only stand there and stare in disbelief at this damn dog, having the time of his life—on MY bed. Those candies were fucking EVERYWHERE! What’s even worse is that he doesn’t eat them. No, he likes to lick them, make them all sticky, and then throw them around before rolling on them again or pouncing on them or hiding them. Getting pinged in the throat with a sticky red candy is NOT fun.
I’d like to say my International Women’s Day got better, but it did not, because then we had the ‘water incident.’ However, I’m not gonna get into that because I’m still pissed about it.
So, to make this stupidly long story short—don’t put up with this bullshit from her.
I’m hoping so, because there are a lot of things that I’d like to try and I’m getting a bit tired of Chick-fil-A and Zaxbys as a quick fix
Giving someone chocolate when on their period is a cliche. I don’t crave chocolate. I crave sweets full of E numbers. He tried to show he cares. Give him a break and appreciate that he tried.
Your father is always going to be concerned about you, it simply is what it is. Of all places, I wouldn't really be overly concerned about safety in Miami with a big group no less. Go have fun.
He’s a prick. You deserve someone so much better.
Honestly, as you age you’ll find all sorts of people in unique living situations/dynamics. Being afraid that something is too abnormal to enjoy is the more “young” mindset, imo.
If everyone is happy, then I see no reason to leave. If the dynamic changes and someone’s no longer happier, that’s when leaving should be discussed.
For now, I’d recommend you have a conversation with your bf about your boundaries. Then have a conversation between all three of you about what living together might look like going forward. You can talk to your bf about your fears that in the future this might affect your dynamic.
You should consider what you want out of this conversation. Is prioritization very important to you (do you want it to feel like you and him will always put each other first, and make decisions honoring the each other’s wishes above all else)? Or is harmony super important to you (do you want it to feel like you’d never leave this situation super abruptly/burn this bridge with his old gf, because you’re concerned about how it would affect her)? Or maybe both are important to you, so you two need to figure out how you’ll act if those values come in conflict with one another.
NTA. Just be happy and do what makes you happy (you aren’t hurting anyone and you’re not entitled to any ex).
“OMG babe that sounds like so much fun that I want to do it too!!” How will that go over?
So this relationship is all you giving, him taking. Happy for you to make sacrifices, but never returned. Not a healthy relationship
I’m sorry to tell you that but your girlfriend know exactly what she is doing and use you to have what she wanted. I know you love her but you must see people for who they are and more importantly by their actions. She show no interest to find a place and when you did all the work ,ask a Lina to your parents,… she demand à part of it like she have a right! You need to be very very careful or you will regret it later in your life.
His words not mine lmao