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Date: January 17, 2023
I’m new here // PVT 18 // @Goal Rub so naked my asshole // PROMO Reach my goal and receive a hard pic [74 tokens remaining]
I have, my brother (or sister), I have. I have said almost those exact words to her. And when I talked to her she told me that she is not going easy on him at all, and that all of his wins against her are legitimate. That's the whole source of this problem. I don't care if we go easy on him, it's fine, there's no problem. But she's looking me in my eyes and telling me that she's playing as well as she can possibly play, and she's just not. She's just not, I don't know how else to say it.
And I don't understand why she would say something so obviously untrue. It's like telling me our toaster turned into a falcon, it just doesn't make any sense. It doesn't match with the reality that I'm living in and I don't know how to bridge the gap.
You are not strong for eating your own hurt and feelings. They will explode and you are already resenting him.
Instead, you go to therapy yourself and deal with it. He moved on and if you now start to open it up again, you will sabotage this relationship.
No, you should not keep working – HE should. This is on him. What’s he doing to fix his lying, porn addicted ways and unsatisfied wife? You don’t need to work harder than he does.
We all check each other’s phones. Even a cursory skim of this sub would tell you that.
If I was you, I’d go full transparency. Then, the next time you’re together, ask to check her phone.
See what she does.
If she hands it over willingly, keep her.
If she hesitates or refuses, let her go.
You shouldn t want to hold someone back just cause it s makes you feel insecure, that s selfish and the eazy way out. The solution is to start working out yourself and beat your own insecurities. You ll see that putting effort in something that is tough is very rewarding.
And apparently your husband cheated on you so very far from perfect, more like trash. Hope you find that self respect and see if that s how you want things to be in the future
Probably best to get some counseling for the two of you. Though to be honest, it sounds like you got your own issued that you need to look at as well. To be blunt, you sound like not that nice of a dude. Could change jobs, could talk to spouse about sharing things. She could be struggling too, obviously this doesn't make what she does ok, definitely not but that's where therapy could help her and you. really just sounds like you guys need help communicating better and not throwing away your relationship just because you're “bored and want to enjoy your youth”
Good! Get some space and perspective
Think back on your interactions in the last few weeks or months. How have they been? Have you been happy more often than you've been unhappy? Is this relationship even worth the trouble of trying to save after a breach of trust like this? (three breaches, really— downloading the app, using the app, and lying to you repeatedly when he got caught)
I'm not you, but just reading the above parenthesis… my guess is he's not worth the effort or the heartburn
Dude. STOP with the specifics! We can add then up and figure out who they are! Wtf!
Someone on here might know and tell them.
I'm really worried about you, that you don't know how to protect yourself!
Definitely sounds like he's interested.
I would pause any house plans personally until you have a clear idea as to what is going on. 7 years is a long time to not have an idea.
Listen when a guy wants to get married he knows. Have the conversation and see what comes of it’s
Do you really not see the difference between buying a house versus buying a random consumer product that doesn't affect anything else about your life, and isn't going to be shared with anybody else, and can be sold or replaced in an afternoon if it no longer meets your needs?
You might want to look up the Kitten Lady on Insta. She and her fiancé have several cats. Each has a cat who hate each other. iirc, it's the white cat (hers) and the Bengal (his). She's may have posted videos about living with cats who don't get along.
What do you want us to say to you?
Are you sure he was really broken up with her? And who was the one who caused the infidelity problems? Was it him?
You know when you tell people 'oh no he's lovely to ME, he's got anger issues but never to ME.' and then people warn you that this shit away escalates and you says, No he would NEVER HURT ME!!'
THIS is the escalation. Hes violent and abusive and can't or won't control his anger. It sounds like you've been ignoring this behaviour for a long time, it's time to leave now, before he escalates again and you end up as a sad story on the local news.
Also BTW, he doesn't apologise becuase he doesn't think he's done anything wrong. In his head, You gave him attitude, he gave you the reaction you deserved.
I’m glad someone said it! This dude is just into teenagers. And vile/disgusting. He deserves to lose everything.
Don't write to her. But maybe journal about it to vent.
Cheaters believe the other one’s cheating. Give her a taste of her own medicine and go through her phone once. If you find something problematic, obviously end it. If you don’t, tell her you’re not liking what you’ve become and the need to stop.
Your previous posts indicate you are the female fiancee/bride-to-be whose husband-to-be called off the wedding. And the husband-to-be was an alcoholic. And that your husband-to-be had already called off the wedding once before, in 2019.
Which are you? The jilted bride, or the groom who called off the wedding twice?
She payed attention because it was new and different. Size may have a little to do with it, but not all.
BTW, you're an idiot. You're obviously not mature enough to be in a relationship, since you are creating tests for your GF.
Your penis size does not define you. Until you realize that, stay out of relationships. If you're so worried about it, step up your oral sex game.
Where you see yourself in relation to your late wife is your own mental state. When you place your now GF in relation to your late wife is directly affecting your ability to have a proper relationship with her. You treating your GF like a consolation prize while she has to grief on her own would also be incredibly damaging on her psyche.
No tf. My partner waited a year because I wasn't ready for sex. You saying he didn't love me to wait for that long?
Google is not going to change my personal experience even if I really wish for it
If she cared, she wouldn't have made out with strangers in the first place. Turns out it is real fucking simple to not kiss strangers.
Your relationship is already dead.
So pull your head out of your arse and file for divorce.
Depending on how your talk with him goes, it might be time to make some hard decisions as to whether this is the right relationship for you, or not.
You have a right to online your life with peace and quiet. By the same token, I guess he has a right to scream and curse at games if that's what he wants to do. If that's the case, then you might just not be a good match for each other. :/
I want her to block him because I have been cheated on this way before. There was a girl who would not want to block this dude who kept bothering her,
There is a reason WHY she won't block him.
THAT is a much bigger issue that anything the guy is doing.
If your state is a one party consent I’d record audio of the conversation. My husband got truly effed by his ex wife who had some issues. I do wish her the best but she really did some effed up stuff (she’d hit herself w the door to try to frame him for abuse – it wasn’t until my husband got it on tape that her family believed him) have actual agreements about this
He’s too good to toss away but meh in everyday life, you want more passion and he’s giving you his full but sweet Sunday best. Hot choice don’t settle
My reason behind thinking that she lied to me was that the whole situation went from 100 to 0 just over the weekend.
I online in South America. Even though healthcare is accessible, it does not mean it's efficent. A test like the one she described, would never take three days to have the results. Even more over the weekend.
I am more than relieved that my girlfriend is not sick. But knowing healthcare in my country, the story was simply hard to believe. When I talked to her about my suspicions, all she showed me was a fake email.
I'm hoping tomorro she's off work and I work from home, kids are at school so a proper conversation can happen.
Someone suggested asking the pub do they have cameras but I doubt they will show me just to prove if my wife was telling me the truth.. I am tempted to go and enquire for the footage but see what they say tomrlrow