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Bela Ford | Expect me to go online between 11:00am – 8:00pm (MDT), 29 y.o.
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Date: November 22, 2022
Thank bed for including you and let her know that you can’t make it. But offer to take her to get mani/pedis or something to celebrate her.
IKR! I showed my penis to a friend (who is lesbian) and got the same reaction from my GF.
Some people are so weird about their (other’s) bodies
I completely agree. Sexual violations don’t deserve a second chance unless there was a miscommunication and the damage wasn’t severe. But you clearly communicated your feelings multiple times and he didn’t listen. It happened once, he stopped him, and he did it again.
That’s rape. Twice. End this relationship while you still can
No sex without condoms. You don't want to impregnate someone that you aren't even married to. Even if you are married yli shoud be using condoms, unless you want a baby. Whether she is on birth control or not is irrelevant. Condoms are required.
For the first 2 Christmas’ post separation, I did the same thing your gf is talking about doing – waking up at my ex’s house with the kids to open up presents and pretend there is Santa etc. The events did NOT make me want to reconcile with the ex but did make me feel less guilty for depriving my children of a “normal family” – which I felt a lot of during the first year of separation.
My bf was thankfully very understanding and chill. Basically it meant we did not spent Christmas morning together!
This year I am in a much better mental state and living situation where I actually got to properly deck the halls and have a full size tree etc. The ex messaged me to ask if we want to do Christmas together again and I declined. I think the kids can now handle the separate Christmas thing – maybe they could have always and it was me who could not? But either way I am thankful my bf was understanding when I needed him to, and I am thankful the ex is accommodating (he never tried to cross boundaries or undermine my decisions).
I think for this to work all 3 of you need to have the right intentions. The ex can’t be trying to undermine your relationship. The gf needs to be clear about her boundaries and also get the ex to pay proper child support (not just random money), and you need to decide whether dating a mom with all the complications is worth your while. It can work – your gf is the central point of it all – so she needs to really do better than “wish you would trust me”. She needs to communicate to you her intentions and feelings and grow enough of a spine to hold the ex accountable for payments and respecting boundaries.
It's like 80% chance he doesn't catch it. These is a research article in the comments.
My best friend basically told me the same thing 2 years ago. It's just very hot because it feels like giving up… I love her so much and we share everything… But yeah.. I can't really imagine a life without her 🙁 Very very hot
i forgot to mention my cameras. if we’re both gone, i’ll check our home cameras a handful of times throughout the day. 95% of the time, he’s knocked out under his blankie in his kennel. i’m not a dog behaviorist so i don’t know why he does it but part of me thinks he whines a little when she’s working from home cause maybe he wants out since usually when a human is home it means, good i can come out. i have told her to just let him and his brother out if he’s whining, but then she can’t stand the sound of him walking on our hardwood floor. little man seriously can’t win right now
That’s what you get for dating someone old as your dad ??♀️?♀️ how about you break it off grow tf up and find someone your age
The options aren't as great as you'd think. But I'll look into it more for sure.
Wait a second, you were only 18 when y’all moved in together? And she was 25? So how long have y’all been dating overall, because if you were a minor then that’s extremely alarming and predatory. No couple who isn’t married should be having a joint account after only a year together, big red flags everywhere. In this specific case, you can’t really do anything bc she’s the pregnant one so it’s really her decision. If you don’t wanna break up you’re going to have to deal with a kid and probably resent them both, or if she aborts she probably going to resent you. So either way the relationship is doomed and tbh she sounds controlling.
You keep pushing him down and he is going to leave
It's pretty simple. Don't fuck.
I'm not sure I understand what you mean by saying that if you let your boyfriend protect you that you are “using” him for a protection shield. He would be “choosing to protect you” as a first impuls in a threatening situation. Not acting as your paid bodyguard to get you from a to b. Knowing that your first impuls was to protect him, instead of seeking protection means you want him to be safe. Him thinking that he protected you and made you feel safe might not be what actually happened there in that split second. But I would rather look at the overall message. You both want to protect eachother. And that is a wonderful thing. ♡♡♡
That’s tough. One thing I do on long walks is record my thoughts on my phone, whether by text or audio. If you are a writer, it’s a great way to store up ideas that you can use later on. As far as reading goes, maybe there’s another room where you can shut the door and have some peace for an hour, or go to a park or library.
You need to take pictures or forward the conversation to your phone, don't confront yet, then get a lawyer and follow your lawyer's advice, and then start moving in from this failed relationship with your cheating ex.
I think actually I know myself and where my head is at better than someone who knows nothing more about me than what I've written in a reddit post. If I wasn't in love with my girlfriend I wouldn't be with her.
To me, it almost sounds like a slowly developing manic episode, starting with the whole idea of a career change, and now progressing to this outburst
Exactly ?!
Simplest solution is to just cut him off. When he asks what's up, let him know that you refuse to be the only one that has to finish themself off, so he better eat a banana or something for more energy or up his fuckin' game whether he's “into” foreplay or not.
Next time he criticises you because he thinks you're doing it wrong, tell him you're done and he can do everything, since he clearly knows better than you. Yes, it's petty.
But seriously, don't marry him. He's showing his real face here.
I really hope you’re a better father than you are a husband. I hope you raise your boys to be a better man and partner than you were to their mother.
thank you – just what is was thinking too
+ OP honey just leave. I was suffocating just by reading your post. how in the world did you managed to stay for a decade puzzled me. You even care if he gets broken hearted if you leave him? then what about you? he broke you ! I would have walked out the minute he starts his religious crap. I have nothing against religion but using it for control is what i despise.
Personally speaking from my experience as the person that shuts down. I had to learn to communicate that the situation truly was not a reflection of my partner doing anything wrong.
I know for me it would bring up trauma from being treated poorly and sexually abused. I was never loved or cared for so when my needs were being met, and every once and awhile I had to go without it brought up some weird feelings and emotions. I felt like a selfish person getting upset. However, it was a trauma response for having partners use me like a masturbation tool, and feeling like used trash again. I still get the feeling of being unloved or cared for even though I know I am in a healthy relationship. It had nothing to do with being let down or going without pleasure.
I know it is also extremely hot to want to stay in the mood once I realize my partner already had their orgasm. Again this is the irrational response I have to work on.
I am not sure if your partner has had similar experiences, but from your description It sounds close to my experience. I hope it can help.
I'm calling the police, you're dating a fucking 6 year old. Pervert.
Brown eyes are lovely, I can’t wrap my head around someone saying that. Your eyes really are the window to your soul, it’s shocking to me that he doesn’t love your eyes. That would bother me, some stuff you can’t unhear.
When you've spent enough time alone that feeling of love will fade, dont worry. You did the right thing.
Just checked your other post, this is the guy who won’t LET you bring a chair into YOUR home in order to alleviate your fibromyalgia. He’s straight up abusive. If you marry him you will undoubtedly regret it. I’m hoping you don’t marry him today, you do not deserve to be the repository for all his mean, abusive behaviors.
I read some of your other comments where you answer some of my questions. I think you're right in what you're seeing. You deserve better.
this is ok advice, but you shouldn’t do this every time with everyone. Personally I don’t enjoy continuing to have sex after I orgasm. I would very much prefer we orgasm at the same time.
Them kids won’t online a full life
They’ll get shot by a maniac
What a country
How much do you have saved for this?
That’s the thing, he says he cares more about my feelings, if I need a break where I don’t see anybody, he will understand but still he just comes to visit (when I say I just need a weekend by myself) and cries bc he was worried, and cries the whole weekend because I said I wanted to be by myself.
So I don’t think he understand where I’m coming from with it, and just want to be with me 24/7, and can’t understand when I stand my ground and say no
You and Brad are very awful people. Jesus, I hate that my kids have to grow up in a world with people like you
Sorry this has happened but she’s using you.
The facts she lied, continues to lie and won’t even discuss anything. She will continue doing what she wants and doesn’t care. She’s banking on you feeling bad for her having to struggle but It’s her own fault.
Don’t keep playing the fool and just break up with her. Guarantee she’ll find someone else to pay her bills.