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Tell him how you feel and that you don't wanna rush and take it slow, that you want something serious see if he's okay with that. don't wait around and waste a potential for good relationship. goodluck
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I’m glad to hear all of that, it’s clear that you love each other. One thing that may also help but seem counterintuitive is to just stop asking her about sex. Although it comes from a place of wanting to connect with her, it can feel like pressure. Simply not asking about it may make a difference.
I don’t know if this will apply to your relationship, but you may also wanted to read about the mental load and sex. Women tend to carry a lot of invisible responsibility just because of the way our society is built that men may not often realize. Examples like coordinating events, gifts, remembering birthdays, remembering groceries/making lists, making sure that things get done. I’ve run into it in my own relationship, and it definitely affects my sex life. A super common example is with chores, even if you help with chores the mental load may fall on your partner if she needs to ask you to do it or if you don’t notice and do it without her reminding you. Nothing you said makes me think that’s something specifically that applies, but I do know things in that vein can be super common for women, so it may be worth checking in with your partner to see how she feels about her mental load. If she feels like she has a lot on her plate, that can definitely affect her sex drive and you can work together to reduce her mental load.
Overall it sounds like you’re on the right track, if you communicate your needs and continue trying to reconnect you’ll find something that works eventually. Hang in there!
Thank you for the advice. I just can't find the energy to talk about it right now, but I know it is inevitable.