Basically, the title. my gf got drunk and kissed another guy. She parties a lot, and this isn't the first time. Previously, she claimed the guy kissed her out of nowhere, and she didn't say anything because she was shocked. This time, she says, 'It was just a meaningless kiss. It means nothing. It was just a mistake' and then she starts kissing me and all. I told her we were done and left. She then messages me, saying, 'I'm sorry. I was immature. Let's forget about this, okay? I just want to try to be better. I understand your feelings, but I still have feelings for you 'I responded with, 'Be better for your next bf' She has been constantly messaging me, asking to work it out. This morning, she left me another message, 'Please… I just miss you. Don't punish me like that. I said I'm sorry… I need you… Please…' and I told her, 'You just need some d*ck, not me', and she responded, 'you think so? I can get some whenever I want… I need you specifically. Remember how happy we were together? I swear I can do it better. Please… I already made so many plans for us. Why are you being this cruel?' I just said, 'You are the cruel one here' and been ignoring her ever since. But she's persistent with messages and calls. Is it worth forgiving her? Or should I just keep ignoring her and move on?
Edit: Thanks for your responses guys. I've realised that I made the right choice, and she is just attempting to gaslight me. She is now blocked everywhere. I think I'm going to take a break and focus on myself. Relationships are too much of a distraction for me as of now 🙂
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