Update to unique post here .
Firstly, apologies for that slow update, it' h been a chaotic few days. Thank you to everyone who also commented and reached out plus helped me to realize that the relationship I was in was not for me.
I ended it which usually went worse than expected. She' d already informed a few people what I told her in confidence, and she' t probably going to tell more of our own mutual friends (some of whom know already, yet don' t care). I don' t think the girl got the responses the lady was expecting though.
I actually figured out that this is about more than the shoes – she would like to be in control of everything, right down to what clothes I put on, how I spend my cash and how I spend the time. These red flags had been apparent before but I actually ignored them.
The good news is which i was already planning on moving towards the same country, just a various city. I also work totally remotely so the disruption to a life is not nearly because severe as it would be if I' d settled inside a new place with a new job.
Right now I' m residing at an Airbnb for a few times before I travel to my new home and start my new life, wearing whatever I want.
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