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Date: October 8, 2022
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So… you already emotionally cheat the “new guy” . Just leave your current “bf” alone. He deserves someone genuine.
You are probably right about him having sex before marriage but I don’t know, no agreeing with someone’s sexuality orientation isn’t homophobia homophobia is having or showing a dislike of or prejudice against gay people. Which the friend isn’t doing
I guess you need to decide if it's worth changing it out for your mental health
I'd be curious to know how it goes if you don't mind posting an update.
Don't say anything to him whatsoever. Get yourself tested, and consider your relationship with this asstart “off” for the next forever.
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Ya I don’t think he cheated on me or anything but weird to say you didn’t get with anyone for a year before me all for me to find a condom wrapper
When you see a sign that indicate danger you walk away. Erratic behavior and attempt at getting big emotional response quickly before ghosting people are a sign of danger.
So you could go home and research it later. If she was wrong, contact her and say something. If she was right, which she was, you look a lot less like a know it all asshole.
You should prioritize the kids. She’s an adult. Sink or swim
We men are pretty dumb honestly. The shape will never change and is not automatically deformed after giving birth. Some guys and gals don't know that. Also, a woman's vaginally wall is a muscle so it won't be loose. Anyway I think it's a stupid throw away comment us guys tend to make sometimes. Like an errant thought.
Fuck her, move on.
Another bullshit story.
I’m a woman who waxes all the hair off but when I do have hair I have never had dried urine in it. I’m the minority because I would rather you my partner just tell me. I prefer the bluntness.
Yeah, you need to talk about this. To her this is a 'mistake' that she lied about, buried as best she could. To you this is fresh information, and it needs to be processed and worked through.
You need to continue therapy. This is very unhealthy. You aren’t ready for a relationship.
Imo, you two aren’t married so it makes sense that she gives them her name.
I have slept with my guy friends in the same bed before. Obviously I haven't done it after I've gotten in a relationship, but it wasn't so weird before.
NO
Yes.
Must have been some good ass pussy
She’s probably the one doing something wrong and projecting. She isn’t hiding her notifications for no reason.
So now you have another kid… One who isn't an adult, are you going to allow Amanda to force you to always choose her over your new child? What if your younger daughter has a play but Amanda demands you come see her or she will never speak to you again?
DID YOU JUST SAY OHIO!!!??
For me it’s the lie. Seven months to not even tell you of the possibility it could be his is a massive concern. By withholding this information, he allowed you to become more invested in your relationship to make it harder for you to (want to) leave. It’s a life changing situation and he knew it. It was manipulative and a conscious decision he made.
I don’t think I could trust that person again so the question is, can you trust him? Can you get past this?
Also, him having a baby will most certainly impact and involve you. It can’t not, especially if he’s going to remain involved.
Leave her alone
It's nonsense. My BIL was around OP's husband's age when my sister got pregnant by surprise with their youngest. He is now 52 with an about-to-be 5-year-old. They also have four other children, two of whom are under the age of 10. Despite his age, and despite being partially disabled and in chronic pain due to a car accident a few years ago, he is an enthusiastic and highly involved father who, if anything, has gotten a “second wind” from these little ones.
He takes charge of bathtimes, does his daughters' hair in the mornings before school, was the one who woke with them at 5 AM so my sister could sleep in an extra hour when they were toddlers (he would joke, “I'm old and can't sleep much anyway!”). He revels in it.
That this man has “zero bond” with his baby is by choice. He is CHOOSING to see himself as “too old to parent a small child”. Plenty of older men have kids, whether deliberately or by surprise, and do so with love and enthusiasm. Plenty of older women as well. Whether he is depressed or just uninterested doesn't even matter at this point because he won't get help, and he IS far too old to just abdicate his responsibilities this way and use “I'm old” as an excuse.
My heart breaks for OP. He is full of nonsense.
Now you know why he's been married and divorced three times. He's a terrible and manipulative person. He keeps rushing into marriage before the woman he's with finds out who he really is. He thinks if he locks them down with marriage, they won't leave him.
The person he was when you were dating wasn't the real him. He was pretending to be this great guy so you would marry him. Now you see the real him. Divorce him and get into therapy. He's never gonna change. Focus on yourself for a while.
Why is it different because she slept with a woman? I've always hated that line of reasoning
My heart was in my throat when I read this. I’m so glad you got benji back and are divorcing that man