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Date: November 25, 2022
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Read his newest post about his gf of a FEW years wonder if that’s what caused her to stop speaking to him
Please read my whole comment; I allowed for that possibility.
That’s not going to stop until you get yourselves an official diagnosis and treatmentb. Let that be a New Years resolution as a couple. Offer to go to the appointment and be a support.
About 18 months.
I’m thinking the same. Part of it isn’t even about the money, it’s the principal of watching me work almost a month solid and then asking me for money, then 10 minutes later talking about the best interest rates for his money and how much he can make from saving right now.
Might get better informed opinions on r/CasualUK
I hate when your SO compares you to their past ex. That is so childish. I think you did really fuck up but he shouldn't have said that. Why did you lie about it? Did you tell him you quit?
Yes, I've experienced many people like this. “So how was it? Was it good? Did you like it? No but really, you're not just saying that? But how could I have made it better? Are you sure? There must be something I could have done better tee hee.”
She makes 'the guys' biscuits and gravy all the time apparently so why would she need their feedback more than once? I dunno. We're only getting her side of the story so it's nude to say but if my partner needed 'feedback' every freaking time they cooked for someone, that would get annoying for sure.
90 days. That's how long you were together. 90. Days. That's fuck all.
Focus on getting home. Then see a therapist because it would help you immensely. Good luck to you and have a safe flight back.
I told my fiancée a budget (I told her a little lower than I was willing to go) and told her to go to the jeweler and try some on to figure out what styles she liked not just in theory, but actually on her finger. Turned out she picked out an exact ring and came home with the guy’s business card for me to go finalize the purchase. It in no way at all ruined the eventual proposal/engagement and she got exactly the ring she wanted.
Yeah this is definitely abuse and manipulation.
I really don't understand people like that. I want to have kids with someone who wants to have kids with me, because I understand how fucking nude it is. Regardless having kids with this guy is the biggest possible mistake she could ever make. He would also definitely be abusive and manipulative towards the kids too.
Thanks, I’m really struggling with the situation to be honest and decided to stay. But despite this, I’ve been shut out and now being told to leave for a few days.
You’re next
I love my partner. Adore him. Love talking to him. Want to be with him in person 24/7. But I have significant difficulty with texting throughout the day. I have issues with attention and concentration. Texting back and forth with someone I love requires full engagement, in my mind. I need to be either having a conversation with them or doing work or household stuff or whatever. I have a nude time doing both. If I stop to chat a bit, even briefly, I then lose concentration on work and it takes a lot of effort to get back to it. It ends up being exhausting. I have to be responsible about it or things that need to get done will not get done.
Our solution is scheduled chats every day at a particular time. Obviously, things of great importance or schedule changes that affect the other merit communication immediately. But generally we save it all up for the evening conference. It's something to look forward to and a nice way to unwind.
Put your husband on here. I'm going to cut him down more than a logger in a forest.
Come on. Just use the info we're given. There's not much left to fill in.
Only problem I have is that my fiancé left her his big beautiful 4 bedroom apartment in the city that he inherited from his father even if they had prenup. We live! in a much smaller 2 bedroom apartment that isn’t in the city. Since we have my step daughter 1/2 the time I felt it was odd that he just doesn’t take his apartment back. Also he left her his Porsche that she never uses since she lives in the center of everything. The car is also his. I never really talked about it before because I was just the gf
Let's analyze this paragraph. OP uses “big beautiful” to describe the ex's apartment and “smaller” to describe theirs. OP then includes that it's her fiance's apartment legally because it was inherited (like saying the ex has no claim to it). Then we see the brand name of the car being dropped. It doesn't matter if it's a Porsche or a Toyota within the context of the story. However, Porsche is an expensive brand and the fact that it was brought up shows that its not just the utility of the vehicle, but also the status of the vehicle that upsets OP. Finally, we end the paragraph with “before I was just the gf”. Well, getting engaged doesn't give you any claim to something someone acquired before you got with them. Nor does it give OP a right to renegotiate the terms of separation between her fiance and his ex on her fiance's behalf. That's a wild overstep of a boundary already set by the fiance.
In just this one paragraph we can get an understanding of how OP is feeling. That feeling isn't curiosity. It's jealousy.
Also, I'm not a believer in “it can't hurt to ask”. Certain things just shouldn't be asked. You might need to have a deeper understanding of social cues to grasp that though. Here's an example. You have a wife, 2 kids, one on the way, and a 3 bedroom house. Your neighbor has a wife, 2 kids, no more planned, and a 4 bedroom house. Would it be okay for you to go ask your neighbor to swap houses? It wouldn't be. It would hurt to ask. It's awkward and uncalled for. OP has about as much of a right to ask the ex for her apartment as you would have to ask your neighbor for his house.
Not to mention no one said he was interacting with these so called scantily clad models. You projected that into the storyline as well.
Depending on where op lives adultery might not be cause for divorce (no fault states) hence they don’t gaf if the wife cheated with 100 dudes- won’t change the separation of assets.
This is rape. Break it off with her. You don't even owe her an explanation.
Sorry, there’s a typo in your first sentence. Should be “I have to ask this child to brush his teeth.”
You’re not dating a man, you’re dating a 6 year old
I thought the exact same thing. $140k is nothing to sneeze at.
This is a perfect response.
I lied because I was afraid of what my wife would say; we have had many issues throughout our relationship of me leaving it details because I don’t want to justify them
wow i fucking hate this lol be prepared for your wife to not trust a single thing you say is all i have to give you. will never understand this “oh this’ll piss off the person i love so let me lie about not doing it and then admit it because i feel guilty and prove them right the whole time” dumbest fucking mindset i’ve ever seen. how about just don’t do what you know is gonna piss her off? then you won’t have to lie! revolutionary shit!
yeah I agree turning the other cheek is cowardly. When kids are involved and when you anticipate theyll deny and lie.. it just gets complicated. Tough to compete with experienced and confident liars.
Oooo….kaaayyy.
Well, first and foremost, he needs to get a paternity test. Full stop.
I'm not going to make assumptions or offer advice or opinions.
Paternity test. NOW.
I think this is a really tough issue for you and I sympathize.
I think there were a couple mistakes made along the way here that led to this point. First, you decided to get back with her after her infidelity. It absolutely must be difficult for her due to abuse she suffered as a child, but it is not your fault or your responsibility to be the person to deal with the repercussions while she learns to move forward from her abuse. You’ve made some very selfless decisions that you did not need to make at a fairly young age. I think that’s admirable in ways, but sometimes you should be a little selfish. With that said, you obviously are not able to go back and change your previous decisions and neither is she.
I think at this point you need to think about yourself and only yourself. Your girlfriend’s struggles are not your responsibility. Your only responsibility to her is that of a human being, which is to treat her with basic kindness and respect. You don’t need to stay with her to be kind or respectful to her as a human being.
You mentioned that you’ve been trying to look at the situation from an unbiased viewpoint. Why? This is your situation, your life, and your future. The only person who can properly judge your relationship is you. You can be biased with your own life. You know how good she makes you feel, you know how bad she makes you feel. I think your worry about being biased speaks to just how much you need to really step back from her and think about what you want, unrelated to her, or anyone else’s feelings.
I suggest evaluating your relationship in a couple different ways. Firstly, can you see yourself growing old and living the rest of your days with this person? Can you see yourself being happy? Or perhaps, apathetic? Or even disappointed? If it’s apathy, disappointment, or any negative emotion, I think this should be your first big sign to move on from her.
Next, try writing down a pros/cons list. It sounds stupid at first, but I know quite a few people who this has been useful for. Write down everything that you like about being with her and everything you dislike. I’d obviously add the constant questioning/insecurity you have every couple of months onto the cons, as well as the lack of sparkle. Make sure to add anything else of note, even if it’s like “her friends treat me horribly”, “she gives me company”, or “I’m attached to her”. Then write down a pros/cons list of separating from her. If you don’t know how she’ll react if you were to break up—like if you’d continue to be friends or not—then make two scenarios. One where she’s still your friend but you’ve broken up and one where she isn’t your friend anymore. This is less to make you pick whichever option has the least cons or most pros, and more so to help you easily evaluate everything and have it sit out in front of you.
Lastly, think about how much time you’ve already spent in this relationship. Don’t get stuck on the sunk cost fallacy, instead get stuck on: “If I’m not fully content in this relationship, then do I want to waste more of my life on entertaining a relationship with a woman a don’t truly want to be with?” Essentially, you’ve already spent 11 years with this woman (except for the period of time when you were broken up). As you’ll eventually get into your 40s and 50s, it can get a little bit more difficult to date someone who doesn’t already have baggage or children (which you said you didn’t want). Do you really want to spend the rest of your 20s and 30s being with her just to realize you truly don’t want to spend forever with her?
And even thinking with her in mind: do you really want to drag her along for longer before you inevitably break up with her? I think this us even more important considering she said she wanted kids. Although women can have them all the way up to menopause, it becomes increasingly more difficult and riskier with age. She deserves to be let go now so she can find someone who matches with her. Wanting/not wanting kids is a massive incompatibility and it’s absolutely possible she’ll end up regretful and spiteful if you do stay together and she’s unable to ever have children.
If you truly feel that you want to spend forever with her, you find her qualities amazing, you can’t imagine yourself ever truly wanting to break up with her, and you’re willing to have children with her, then go for it. Keep pushing through, keep working on therapy, and keep working on the relationship. But if you don’t feel confident on it, I think it really is time to let go. There comes a point in relationships where you can’t just work on problems endlessly and the problem is just an incompatibility. I think her history (even if it was due to abuse and even if she’s regretful) of infidelity, her desire for children, and your frequent questioning are all massive incompatibilities you need to stop overlooking.
I wish you luck, seriously. It can feel tough to get out of relationships like that, especially considering you both have been together for the majority of your adulthood. Relationships don’t need to be that way. You deserve better.
It's so cringe how people think 21 is a child and 28 is somehow a grown ass middle aged man to the point y'all are actively trying to make it sound creepy “fresh out of highschool girl dating a 30 year old mann!” Yes 7 years is a big difference, but it isn't that big. 7 years isn't a lot of time in the grand scheme of things. People don't have the exact same life experience at 21 or 28.
Anyway, if she prefers to talk online then you two are just not compatible. You haven't been together for long so just let it go.
I mean, it isn't a human doing it. Nature is just fucking weird.
It could be meant cheekily like: ‘stop it – you nude guy walking around and being all nude all the time’ doesn’t necessarily mean she would have had to see you recently. Also the sleep talking thing: she could have been watching porn on her phone or jerking off to a picture of you. You could also be right, I mean why are you doubting her fidelity in the first place? Just these two incidents? Or does something fell off in general?
Who gives a fuck if he doesn’t buy into it?
If he doesn’t understand you, you need to let him go.
My best advice is to cut all contact, report the incident to the police and seek counselling if you feel you may need it.
Remember that what he did is not your fault, you did nothing wrong, he chose to do it, not you. What he did is wrong.
I was sexually assaulted over the span of 10 years by an ex who knew I was raped at 15. 10 whole ass wasted years. Don’t waste your youth with a degenerate who uses you and pulls the “I was horny” card. May he rot.