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Don't tell them in the moment give them a chance to prepare or they'll feel ambushed. When they seem like they are in a good headspace tell them you have something a bit uncomfortable that you need to talk to them about and ask them if they'll let you know when they feel up for a talk.
When you have the talk don't dump everything at once. Say something like you enjoy sharing things with them. You think they're a great person (if true) but you have a personal pet peeve about rehashing dreams or repeating stories. Tell them that you haven't been good about communicating that boundary but you hope that they can respect it going forward and that you also hope it doesn't discourage them from sharing other things with you because you really like that about your friendship. If they seem to get defensive tell them that you value their friendship and you believe that establishing open, honest communication and boundaries is the best way to maintain it. In your own words of course.
If they are unable to take this in and respond in a healthy, adult way that's a them thing not a you thing. You are responsible for compassionately communicating your boundaries not for how people chose to respond.
Once you have established this dynamic you should be able to set more boundaries as things come up and they will probably have some for you.
Don't tell them in the moment give them a chance to prepare or they'll feel ambushed. When they seem like they are in a good headspace tell them you have something a bit uncomfortable that you need to talk to them about and ask them if they'll let you know when they feel up for a talk.
When you have the talk don't dump everything at once. Say something like you enjoy sharing things with them. You think they're a great person (if true) but you have a personal pet peeve about rehashing dreams or repeating stories. Tell them that you haven't been good about communicating that boundary but you hope that they can respect it going forward and that you also hope it doesn't discourage them from sharing other things with you because you really like that about your friendship. If they seem to get defensive tell them that you value their friendship and you believe that establishing open, honest communication and boundaries is the best way to maintain it. In your own words of course.
If they are unable to take this in and respond in a healthy, adult way that's a them thing not a you thing. You are responsible for compassionately communicating your boundaries not for how people chose to respond.
Once you have established this dynamic you should be able to set more boundaries as things come up and they will probably have some for you.
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He was actually happy all he wanted was a baby of his own. He would even speak to me about kids before