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Date: November 6, 2022
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It is not weird to care about how your daughter is treating another person. I don’t think there’s any evidence of her cheating but it’s not weird to care and hold her accountable if you find out she was.
Why the rush to get married? Honestly not even a year in I don’t feel like you even really know someone that well, especially long distance.
You're welcome! 🙂
I don't know if that's the reason why she stays. I think more on that.
This subreddit is a fucken toxic cesspool lol
Everyone always clamoring for breakups and jumping to the worst conclusions and intentions.
Congrats on communicating and upholding your boundaries man. People make mistakes. You know this girl better than any of us.
Imo, from the little I know, you're doing the right thing, and I hope it works out.
Good luck! ✌️
Agreed. I have not made good decisions and I take full responsibility for that.
I just wish she'd stop of it's just fun for her. It's very weird to me
I intend to keep it that way. My first thoughts were to ignore what I feel and prioritise the work environment. Just wanted to post this an get confirmation that I won't regret that
Feeling change. Sometimes often. If you want more, reciprocate the feelings. Maybe you’ll get hurt or maybe you’ll have fun. Maybe both. No way to know in advance.
Boo-fucking Hoo. Congratulations. You had a taste of what guys have to deal almost by daily basis. Suck it up and stop whining.
Sexual harassers?
Reddit is constantly telling women to be more forward with showing their interest, but when a woman does that, she's a sexual harasser?
So what’s your question?
you remembered every single digit without fail?
I don’t think it’s misleading unless she specifically said something misleading. I don’t think she has an obligation to reveal a single thing about her genitals until it’s sexy time.
Please tell her. I know its such a touchy subject and it's hars to bring up. But I wish I did back then and never did. I have a similar story with my long time best friend. She started dating a guy when we were 16 he was 26 at the time.. it was in 2008 so before the world was more woke about those type of issues. He was buying her gifts all the time jewelries, telling her how precious she was and blahblah blah then they got in a relationship together and there was several redflags like that that I did not feel comfortable to address back then due to my lack of life experience etc. Fast forward, he always told her that she did not need to work that hed take care of her and all… she did get a diploma and worked but once she got pregnant with their first child she stopped and never went back… they got other childrens etc and her entire identity has been being a mom and a stay at home wife for the past 13 years. She does everything in the house, if he comes back and food not on the table he will pass negative comments… she never gets time for her there is always something. I went to see her to go to a restaurant we havent been to dinner just the two of us in up to 13 years… he was at home in the backyard and she still needed to call her mom to come babysit the kids… she had so much potential and drive and now I feel she is just a shadow of what she could have become. He is talking to her so rudely: where is my wallet come find it why are u staying on the couch things like that… he makes sexual allusion anytime I spend time there and he is there.. infront of her talking about he wish they had sex more than 3x a week etc..I cant stand him but now its like too late cause when I expressed my concern its just not conceivable for her to think about this now and even if shed consider this she wouldnt move alone as a single mom with 3-4 kids and having to provide after having no experience to showcase to find a potential job etc and see their kids live! through this type of situation.
My advice would be: discuss with her and start by this: May you know I love you with all my heart and I will always be there to support you… I need you to seperate your love brain from your rational brain for 2 sec and answer the questions Im about to ask you with only 1 of them even though I know its a hot thing to do.
-Where do you see this relationship in 5 years !? -If it was only up to you would you be engaged and ready to have kids right now ? -When you think about being the only provider of the house due to Nick's injury… do you feel it's substainable on several years if you add up the wife and mom's duty in the mix ? -If you want to spend the rest of your life with him ? Whats the rush to get married now… why not wait until your relationship gets to a level you see fit for a lifetime commitment like marriage ?
After she gives you a honest answer to all questions. Thank her for being open with you regarding this and if she still feels happy in this you tell her that youll always be supportive of her life decisions and just wanted to look after her and make sure she thought this true and that you trust her judgement and hope she understands your intentions were coming out from love. Let her experience her own life and decisions and be a safespace.
Tell her you feel its a bit too soon but you dont want her to think you are judging her life choices .
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With him being 100% sterile it’s either another man or the Holy Ghost. Which one is the most likely?
If you know you know ?♀️ Husband and I were engaged a month into dating. We got married close to 4 years later but I guess that’s not the same scenario.
Happy cake day, babe! ?
it’s a breach of trust cause it’s the line she has drawn. and to go through someone’s personal things without their permission IS a breach of trust. that being said, if I were OP, I would give them one last chance to tell me their name and explain why all the secrecy and i’d they didn’t abide Id break it off and move on
What did you decide on doing for the date? Did you just say “do you want to go out?” with no plan, or were you going for coffee, dinner, etc.?
Ask her questions about herself. People generally like talking about themselves and then you can build conversations based on her answers. Add your own anecdotes when possible.
For example, if you ask her “do you have any siblings?” and she says “yes, blah blah blah.” You can say “oh, that's great, I have blah blah blah” and go from there.
How long have been working?
Not worth your time at all. If he's this rude from the jump, there is no up from here. I put this on the same level of what happened to my bff when a guy got mad/yelled at her when she answered his text with “hey” ??
if you genuinely want to know, sure. if you are asking so that you can try and fix it into your happy family ideal, probably not.
I agree. This seems very weird, the maturity gap at those ages is enormous
No, he lied. He hid all kinds of things, and I wouldn’t trust him as far as I could throw him. That polyamorous lifestyle, it destroys monogamy for a lot of these people.
Your post history is all over the place. You post as different sexes, different ages, different languages. I think, from some of your posts, that you need to speak to a professional therapist who can help you with much deeper issues than a broken relationship.
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My boyfriend (30M) lives with me (35F), he was living with his father and step mother, but the step mother and my boyfriend do not get along so he was ousted. My boyfriend has a 7 year old daughter that he sees every other weekend. She stays at my house as well during those times. We have been together almost a year. He’s told me that he will only love his daughter and family. That’s all you’re supposed to love in his eyes. I do a lot for him, I’ve paid bills of his, made sure he and his kid can eat and have a roof over their heads. He doesn’t help pay any bills, I’ve caught him talking to women on dating apps, fb, snap and text, I don’t think I’ll ever trust him again. How do I get rid of this leech seeming man before I lose my mind completely?
TLDR – Scanning quickly it sounds like this:
You are interested in her, you two seem a bit friendly towards each other.
You begin to flirt, tell her how you feel. She says you're nice, but she just got out of a relationship and is not ready.
You kind of push her for an answer, she says no. Now you want to know what went wrong, what to do…
Move on, she is not ready for a relationship now (at best you would've been a rebound in any case). You're young, live! your life, you'll meet other people. Good luck.
I really appreciate your input. My family financially cant help me. They don’t really have money. I’d also need money for a plane ticket and of course I want to take the puppies with me. They are my responsibility and I can’t abandon them. He always tries to get my friend’s addresses because if I leave he will go there. He will get them from my phone. When Ive just been hanging outwith them he’ll randomly show up. Also the country I am in, the police wont support me. Domestic abuse is seen as a family issue. So I need to just try and be smart and get everything in order to leave. If he knows I’m leaving he’ll try and lock me in a room or something. Or he loses his mind and get angry.
Maybe because I was drunk. Wasn’t exactly thinking properly. I’ll talk to my friend about the Uber receipt, I didn’t think of that. Also love how everyone knows about my drinking behavior and how irresponsible I am with alcohol, even though I rarely drink except for when special events or if I’m out at a restaurant or bar with someone. I don’t have to justify that to anyone, nor was that even the main problem here. Great to know that none of you have ever made a stupid mistake when you were young. Thanks for your advice though, we’ve managed to work it out now.
As much as I agree with everyone, and as sure as I am that I would break up with someone if they took this level of effort from me for granted, I don't want to just tell you to break up with him (even if you probably should).
The fact you put this much work in shows you must really care about this relationship for whatever reason. So figure out if it was just an off day for him, why he was so disappointed, why he was such an ass, etc…
But at the end of the day, if this is a pattern of his, he doesn't deserve such a caring woman. You can do everything in your power to “fix” the relationship, but ultimately it's a two-way street, and he is not doing his part.
TLDR: fuck this kid
It's not really that they “respect” other men, more so that they will not be able to emotionally guilt or physically dominate them.
There's less of admiration and much more of practical fear of being hurt badly.
Men do. Just because you have no game doesn’t mean this isn’t something both men and women do.
Yeah though it is very likely she will as my job is lite hiring anyone atm
“For some reason”. Men who are bullies and want to carry a gun and scare people choose to be police bc now they can do those things and get paid for it.
i promise you i do. i was you when i was 18. been sexually assaulted/mistreated by men i trusted, heavy drug user, looked to older men for influence/a sense of protection/maturity. i truly wish you the best in life. ❤️
Completely agreed. While I can understand the wife having a temporary hormone induced moment of nostalgia and regret for not having a relationship with her father after the birth of her new child, those feelings should not extend to reopening a relationship with him. Unless the dad is crawling back on his hands and knees in apology to the dad and starting to educate himself, then there’s no reason to reopen contact with him
She's obviously more into the guy than she is into you, otherwise she wouldn't be moody or disrespectful, she wouldn't be asking to talk to the guy (I'm not sure I'd trust her that she isn't already talking to him or even cheating/planning to cheat on you)
You are not her father anymore. You are simply the person who told her he wished she wasn't born. Stop being so selfish, enjoy the trophy wife and leave that daughter alone.
*whispers* I like stupid movies too. Anything that gets me out of my own head and makes me laugh!
Dancing with someone is not sleeping with them.
She actively discouraged romantic overtures, and you are being pissy?
This is a you problem.
…have you spent any time on this sub before? It’s the complete opposite. Look at all the top comments on this post.
Figure out what to do about the house, consider consulting an attorney, then get out of that relationship, she is no good.
Why? Is this because I'm still in shock?
You play dirty!
Thats what i tried to explain too and i even told her if it was the other way around i would’ve wondered if theres smth more going on.
Im tired its like if i dont say smth exactly right she’ll get super mad and then i dont have the right to talk to her in a defensive way. She said its the last time i talk to her like that, but shes the one that was angry at me first, i didnt insult her either i was very emotional and said that its like she expects me to go die to prove myself to her.
If you're asking Reddit, then…… no