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The truth is…distance is a really good prioritizer.
I am guessing he’s working on something he finds fulfilling or something that takes a lot of his time.
When I had a bf I wasn’t really doing something I enjoyed. I was kinda just living life with no purpose. Well when I got a job I liked and started pursuing things I enjoyed, I found my relationship to be tensions and annoying. I told my bf things like sorry I’ll do better but the truth is I was tired of investing my time and energy into him.
This doesn’t mean you’re a bad person or unworthy. This simply means that your boyfriend is not the one for you.
Fill your time with something you love and have a passion for and you will most likely find yourself not as interested in maintaining this relationship.
I guess that is why you'd call it “the devil's Tango”
I'm not a teenager, we're both adults. I just have extreme insecurities and fear of the unknown when it comes to relationships.
“I don’t know what to do.” I mean, probably stop talking about sex with your ex is a good place to start, right? Is that really such a difficult challenge?
Why have you normalized this kind of relationship? It’s not love. But somewhere down the line, you were taught that this is what love is supposed to be like.
You deserve better. Don’t stay with people who don’t bring you joy, or make you feel undervalued. You are important. You are worthy. You are necessary. You are lovable.
They probably do, your best friend isn't wrong. Try doing some research on trauma bonding. Even if he wasn't “abusive” per sey, a couple that had drug addiction issues while their together more than likely have some degree of trauma bonding
You can say that about every crime. He’s on probation, which means he got caught. As long as he realized what he did was terrible and won’t happen again, then he should be given another chance at life. Rehabilitation is what stops crimes.
End the marriage. Immediately. There is no coming back from this and don't even waste time trying to fool yourself that it's possible.
Your self-esteem will never be the same with him. You will never trust him the same again.
This was the dissolution of your marriage, nothing can change that. Accept it, even tho it hurts more than anything you ever thought you could feel. Please don't waste more of your life with the disillusion that you can save this marriage. Studies strongly show that marriages can't be saved after infidelity.
I'm not even saying he's a bad guy. People make mistakes. But once that switch is flipped, and you've experienced him being dishonest and unfaithful, there isn't enough therapy in the world that will help you feel ok staying in this marriage any time soon.
Rip the band-aid off now, it doesn't get better. Your mental health with this will not miraculously heal, no matter how strong you are. This is the deepest form of betrayal and one that isn't come back from easily, if ever.
If you leave, you will heal in time. And I promise much sooner than if you try to stay.
My roommate’s parent own the home and I’ve asked her multiple times for a lock and see says she’d ask her parents but there hasn’t been any updates
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Sounds like just your generic Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction.
Hopefully she’ll remember this painful experience and what he put her through so he can have that experience, and not go back. Because seems he would do it again given someone shows interest after they get back together.
You don't save it. You divorce her and then go have a great life without the anchor dragging you to your death.
He knows. Don’t kid yourself. He’s just used to getting away with it.
Sounds like your wife is closeted, my dude.
I don’t know many parents that would tolerate this crap. She is treating you like you are her slave. If she is in any of your bank or credit account take her off. Sit her down and tell her she either gets a job and pulls her weight around the house or she can find another living situation. The free ride is over. If she has a car, give her $20 every other week to put fuel in it so she can go to job interviews. Lock up your wallet and cards when you get home. Remind her each week how long she has to get a job and insist she do her chores around the house every day. She doesn’t like to cook – time to learn. I would eat a meal out everyday at a meat and three and have minimal groceries in the house. No junk food period. The only way this leech is going to change is if she is uncomfortable with her existence. You need a partner not a dependent
Just telling her the truth- that you do t feel the same way and aren’t interested should be enough.
BUT if you just want to avoid the drama, the fastest way to get everyone to leave you alone is probably to just start mentioning another woman’s name and basically saying/implying that you’ve started seeing someone. No one will bug you about dating your coworker if you’re already into someone. I know it’s a lie and it shouldn’t have to be that way but I always found it was the fastest and easiest way to give the hint and get people to just leave you alone.
Interesting idea, I've heard scheduling sex as an option but didn't think of putting it physically on a fridge.
thank you so much. you’re such a helpful person. i hope you don’t mind, but i’m adding your reply to my wallpaper ? i find this really comforting. have a nice day
No you can't judge OP for not cutting his father out of his life. Some kids do that, but no way can you expect it. He only has one father.
Dude, she is a total nutcase and you are better off without her. Stay broken up and avoid your uncle and that chick for good.
Also, this kind of dynamic is worth a trauma. Maybe go and talk to a professional. Also the way you excuse yourself into thinking this is “okay” is a big issue.
Walk away from that situation and remember it as the most fucked up thing you have witnessed and will witness for a loooooong time.
I do plan to be 100% faithful the thing it I don’t know how to show her that cause even she told me that actions speak louder than words
Just because something is shallow doesn't make it immoral. If you have a desire for more sex and you're not getting it at the moment, then it'd be the right thing to break up with your girlfriend first. I'm just highlighting that this isn't going to be smooth. She will get hurt, and I'm just hoping you realize that and take the necessary steps to be as tactful as possible when letting her down.
The next time he tries to insist, remind him that he has literally already implied he'd be with her if he could be, calmly explain that you've decided you've listened to him try to suggest helping him park alongside her to wait for her boyfriend to leave and that you won't be keeping him company while he does.
Walk away action star-style without looking back at the fire.
Because that's where you LIVE. if you think I'm going to be uncomfortable for the rest of my life because I'm scared to “be rude” to my SO, you're insane and I'm willing to bet probably have anxiety coming out your ears. FYI if you're holding in your gas, the minute you fall asleep, your ass sounds like an elephant in heat, I Guarantee.
Why doesn’t he tell his family and friends what’s been happening before he sends her the text? Get ahead of it so she can’t cause problems, which we all know she will.
You need to talk to them both ASAP and be honest. You may lose your friend for a while but Ii think that's the far better outcome than losing your wife and/or family.
Lol “Bendy” is the word my friends and I use for it. Still straight, but it’s important to remember that sexuality is a spectrum.
Personally I take issue with anyone fetishizing another human being, but if he was curious I don’t see a problem
You have kids and you're playing the game of who can be the least employable.
This sounds like a fake post, no serious parent would just willy nilly give up a good paying job just to prove they can quit too.
People are being unkind because you’re ignoring the safety of a dog and child.
Fine. Choose to stay with an abusive violent man who has anger issues, but when the dog and child are dead you are just as guilty.
you need therapy.
You’ve been together for a year and not kissed? Either this whole post is a troll or you’ve really buried the lede on what your relationship issues are.
Ok so the idea that it's common to sleep with friends is wrong. Most people don't want to fuck their friends and most people don't fuck their friends. In fact, the vast majority of women will be upset and angry if/when someone they thought they were friends with randomly starts trying to hook up with them.
FWB is mostly a misnomer – I'd say most people who do this aren't actually friends already and are just with people they wanted to have sex with straight away. When it does (rarely) happen with actual friends, it's usually way more organic and gradual.
People are making a point about being a virgin because the idea of hooking up is that both people get sexual gratification without the obligations of a relationship but also without the additional benefits of a relationship. You aren't in the position to really offer that because you have no experience in giving someone sexual gratification. It's not really a good trade for your partner.
Before trying to hook up with people, based on your responses, I'd really strongly recommend you just work on interacting with people as humans and building your social skills and awareness with no other motive. There's a tonne of background understanding and subtext to everything here that you don't get, and you're not going to get it reading stuff on the internet.
They are not and my girlfriend is not comfortable with nudity at all (which makes no fucking sense now that I found out about all of this)
I get that she felt your behavior was rude, but I think you were just feeling tired/unwell and weren't expecting company. If it had been me, I probably would have asked if you were okay when you decided to go lay down.
You both didn't exactly communicate well on this one. The easiest way to resolve this is to have a conversation. Apologize that you upset her. Ask her to give you a heads up next time, if you're feeling unwell you should give her a heads up as well.
It gets to me especially when she said “why did he sleep with me then?”
She should be your ex-gf
I don't like repeating myself so why don't you reread the middle paragraph of the comment where I cited you. There's where I already answered this before you build the “cherry picking” strawman.
I'm going to bed now. Good night.
Yeah, that’s true. Searching someone on google isn’t itself cheating or an indication of specific feelings but I could see someone feeling insecure that their partner is searching other women live. But what jumped out more to me was that she was already mad even when all she knew was that he was entertaining the idea of becoming friends with someone he met at the hospital.
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About a week ago, my girlfriend dumped me out of nowhere. We had been dating for about 4-6 months. I was completely blindsided because I hadn’t sense that she was unhappy in the relationship at all, I paid a lot of attention to her emotionally. I was even going to meet her parents soon later this month. She broke it off because I “ wasn’t her type”, and “wasn’t masculine” enough for her to see us working out long term( she couldn’t explain this part because I was confused where she got this from). In her words , she could tell that I genuinely liked her and cared a lot about her but the feeling weren’t reciprocated and she didn’t want to hurt me down the road.
After a few days she called me to tell me that she misses me, likes me, and that’s she’s sorry for what she did. Here’s the catch: she said she’s still not ready for a relationship but wants to be friends with benefits (More so, benefits without the friendship because we don’t really talk anymore). I’m very confused on how she feels although it’s obv relationship is off the table.
Why would she want to have casual sex with me but not get into a relationship if I’m not her type?
TLDR; Ex-gf dumped me but said she still likes me and wants to Fwb but doesn’t want a relationship
Doesn’t matter. That’s the wrong time and way to bring it up.
I mean, this may be blunt, but it doesn’t sound like she was necessarily wrong in saying she doesn’t feel like she is the person for you. It was 3 months of dating. 90 days. You may have felt invested, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she reciprocated that same feeling on your level. I would say “thank you for communicating this to me, sorry it didn’t work out, please take care.” But I guess how you move forward with your response and its maturity depends on whether or not you want to keep any type of future communication line open or if you’re just wanting to burn the bridge down altogether. It honestly sounds like she was still evaluating her feelings and determined that she may have a stronger connection with somebody else… it happens. She told you immediately – imagine learning this after a year or more of being in a relationship. Learn the lessons, take the time to heal from your wounds, let go of any poisonous anger that serves neither you nor anybody else, and move on.
You should read the e-book “why does he do that?” abusers are actually way more aware of their actions and making choices regularly to continue the abuse. The idea that he's trying to fix something he's not in control of is a total lie. I bet he doesn't treat others like this, so he knows it's wrong enough to not to it TO THEM, he could use the same discernment with you…. if he wanted to and thought it was worth it.