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Date: December 15, 2022
How did you end up in a relationship with someone who's asexual?
I had an abortion at your age because I didn’t want to be tied to my ex(boyfriend at the time) for 18+ years. I knew it’d mess up my career path, I knew i’d struggle and I didn’t have the means to care for a kid when I was still a kid. After, I was emotional about it for a bit, but honestly it’s the best choice I made and I don’t regret it one bit. If you feel that right for you, do it. Tell everyone you had a miscarriage if you’re worried about the people who already know. But do what you feel is best for you because ultimately it’s you who will have the responsibility and struggle through this time.
Holy fuck, this is thread is wild.
My mom and dad discussed their exes often. They didn't represent a threat to the relationship.
Hahahahaha, I wish Reddit did these reminder like Facebook does (on this day x years ago), so that you could cringe over this post in your 30s.
2 weird people. The friend is better off.
I've been in a very similar position, as I'm sure a lot of people have. And it's painful beyond description – believe me, I understand. Because she isn't aware of what you found, you need to take this time to get all of your initial shock and emotion out of the way, before you can decide what is best for you and your kids. Don't make any big decisions right now, they will be based on emotions. I think you need to ask yourself whether this is something you would be able to get past. If it is, then therapy and counselling is needed for both of you. If it isn't, then you know the only route you can go down.
I wish you the best of luck OP.
wrong subreddit
I don’t even. Is she on Prep? Is she on any medication for her sti? God. He’s going to be a father at under 25 with a woman who has 3 kids already and now another baby! This whole thing is a mess. I can’t even figure out who to yell at, the dumbass having UNPROTECTED intercourse with a mother of three or her for never disclosing her sexual health! ??
You should consider not getting him anything. It sounds like that's what he really wants, and you're tearing yourself up worrying about it.
Im here for an update.
Two days is not too late. Don't make excuses
Yup, he doesn't actually care about her as a person, just looking for the right combination of words to get her to sleep with him.
Buy a big strap-on and say, “you're first.”
Yeah I have a hot time trusting. She 1000% denies it anytime I bring it up to the point of being pissed
Thank you very much for this, I'm not offended at all. Just going through it obviously, none of the permutations is an easy choice
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“I know the age gap is bad…” proceeds to explain how it’s worse than we could have guessed.
You’re not doing anything wrong but she sounds like she needs something to bolster her esteem somehow. If she can’t handle it then you may need to break up but hopefully you can talk her off this unnecessary hill she wants to die on. Just give her a lot of reassurance and affirmation, take her out a little more often maybe until she is more secure.
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Thank you, you’re right it is better to find out now rather than later.
Are you going to give her the amount of money she would make at her new job
Chill dude.
And if you were fertile and still didn’t want kids, you’d forgive him for something like this?
1 year way too soon, should be more like 5
Be grateful that you are single. Get some therapy for you to help you and realize that you have dodged a bullet and aren't going to raise another man's child. Stay strong and stay away from her and don't be friends with her, showed you what kind of person she is. I would also wager that she will be a single mom soon after and they will cheat on each other . Keep walking and don't look back and start living your life and do what you want to do ! Good luck
Can't even see another post other than one removed.
He did block me and unblock me twice in the span of 24 hours and took the lawn mower he gave me…
Good
You’re sticking your head in the sand. He doesn’t want to be with you. He doesn’t want to be a dad. Why would you bring up a child in a home they’re not wanted in? Stop forcing this marriage and leave. You’d be better off single.
I’ve thought about it but I’m a bit squeamish… I had been aware of this conversation way before it ever escalated into people interacting with me over it, but I don’t really know how she feels about it. I’m afraid of coming of as a massive weirdo who didn’t get the joke/unsettling anyone.
I am certain that out grandparents are dead serious about the “jokes” but I’m not sure how I’d go about beyond that without sounding conceited or stalker-ish (might be overthinking though).
Considering these are family friends it mostly racks my brain because I don’t want to generate any bad blood. Heck, these people helped raise my parents and vice versa.
Let trash take himself out.
Ok. So why did you do that? Obviously, you hid talking to your ex bc you knew your current gf wouldn’t like it. Why were you bent on maintaining a relationship you knew your current gf wouldn’t like?
Then, you say you threw compliments at your ex to bolster her self esteem. But beautiful & fine? That sounds like you’re still into her & are willing to be with her again. You weren’t telling her she’s strong and capable – which might actually help her mental health.
So, I’m thinking your gf’s right. You lied to her & you got caught. It really sounds like you were trying to keep your ex on the line in case your gf dumped you. You weren’t, in fact, an idiot. You were being intentionally sneaky and secretive, and you got busted.
So…maybe admit to what you were really doing & why. You’re not some bumbling fool who’s just too stupid to understand the consequences of his actions – and your gf knows you’re not that dumb. So stop using stupid as your defense. Your gf is too smart to buy it.
First base. Good now learn how to be good people to each other and it will take care of itself.
So you're using him. You're using his trauma because it makes you feel wanted and needed.
Quick question, and I'm pretty sure I already know the answer. Have YOU been through significant trauma?
Your 19. You absolutely, 100% will not look back with regret if you get the fuck out of there.
Sex is fun for most people.
Think of going to a restaurant. You have no idea if the cooks back there are washing their hands, spitting in your drink, serving hygienic food, etc. but you’ll stick risk it all for a meal right?
Because that is what your used to, to reset from life
Just move on girl, he was clear in the beginning so I don't think he will reply to you
I would just unfollow. You haven’t done anything inappropriate and won’t be seeing him.
Start actively flirting with your boyfriend more. Think of what you love about him. Compliment him, do small favors, etc and see how quickly your boyfriend is your crush again!
Okay, I wouldn’t say blisters, I’d say white small spots, I suppose I just have a sensitive head I guess
It’s just hot to throw away our life together.
It is hard to understand why he threw away your life together.
Corrected that for you.
I think you just picked out a title and did not read the comments. His girlfriend is over-dramatic.
Haha your metaphors made me laugh. I agree with your diagnosis.
Thanks, I guess
I don’t think you have commitment issues, it just sounds like you’re not compatible. Constant texting and wanting to hang out all the time would be a massive dealbreaker for me. If you’re feeling this way after 9 months, it’s likely not going to get better. Break up with her.
Xenophobia is real…
I was holding my gf back from leaving in a fight and she smacked me with a slap. Not her fault.
I’d never hurt a woman but when I was on drugs she snatched my phone and buddy had told me he wouldn’t give me a pill if we were fighting and I grabbed her chin and pushed her back and said if I don’t get this pill because of you ill fucking kill you.
She should of left me. It was so out of character and I’ll never live! it down and can never make up for it.
I’m sober now and we’re going to go to counseling to work on certain things because we love each other and want to get married.
I was a monster and she didn’t deserve it and I don’t deserve her. But we forgave and moved on and I’ll spend my life making up for it.
I don’t know why I’m bringing this up. It made me think of it.
You did nothing wrong in your scenario. That was wrong of him and he should take accountability for it the way I have. It’s not healthy and it’s very toxic.
I hope I don’t get downvoted but I honestly deserve that too.
I think you need to child / baby proof your house. Is your son in a a day program/ goes to school? You may be entitled to respite, social security benefits, therapy home visits , etc. if your husband won’t help you need to check all the resources available to you.
Do u really wanna marry someone that can turn around at the first fight and throw it in ur face “that they didn't even wanna be married until you pressured them”
Making someone marry u…isn't the best start to a marriage… js..
Love the ultimatum after 3 weeks. Only going to get more extreme from here..
She’s 26, she should know that this is not acceptable behavior in a marriage.
So, this man. Does he tell you nice things? Give you compliments? Buy you presents? Claim that he doesn't usually date people as young as you but that you're special because you're much more mature than your peers?
Let it go. It will only hurt him and you did nothing wrong. Why would you want to give him a reason to question your faithfulness?
2 years – not long enough to be expecting a proposal.
You have “psychiatric conditions” maybe he doesn’t want to get married until they are sorted or under control
Are you still in university? Do you have a job? These are also things that he might be waiting for.
it's not just a graduation though, it is medical school graduation. That is a huge deal and I am not american
Maybe it's a misunderstanding? Could he have thought he was drying the clothes and just ended up washing them again? And why would your husband want to wear your slippers? IDK just a possible misunderstanding here.
This is the solution i offered my ex-wife so many times due to the arguments we had over our home, when she was SAH (back in the days childcare was nearly free as well!, £6 day if i remember well)
It was declined every time as it turned out she was just lazy and messy
I see doing the flip of this as you put above to be equally as effective on this guy, as it was exactly what i knew would solve our arguments once and for all.
If not, it would show who was really trying it on when both of us had the same responsibilities and pressure.
Have you spoke with him about how he made you feel? Have you asked him why never said anything prior till now? Ask yourself if this type of transactional relationship is something that you will be able to handle for the rest of your life? How you feel? How he makes you feel? I wish you the best and I hope you are able to figure it all out.
You can't control his reaction, but you do not have to capitulate to his manipulation under the threat of him not keeping the peace in the future. If he starts to get difficult, there are always legal steps you can use while coparenting to nip his bullshit in the bud.
This is the answer
Agree mostly except that this doesn’t apply to all men, just the average man. For example I myself am demisexual so wouldn’t enjoy a single second of anything sexual with a stranger even if they’re attractive.
This was actually the best outcome possible, leave it be.
In the end does the reason really matter? I mean what is he going to tell you that will make it ok? You want to get married. He doesn't. As it stands, one of you has to compromise if you are to continue on together. I didn't marry until late in life and def had boyfriends who didn't want to marry. It absolutely sucks and is hot and confusing. I am sorry you are in this space. All you can do is take care of yourself and make decisions based on the facts at hand.
At first I was like “why is a 25 yr old man, dating a 20 yr old woman.” Then read your responses and realized ohhhhh you’re even more immature and insecure than a teenager.
I'm afraid she's going to have a negative response. Or almost blame herself for not stopping before, or not seeing any clues. She's a people pleaser with everyone else, and I'm afraid she's going to feel bad for forcing me to do it this much.
With that in mind I would be careful to focus your talk on the present and the future and not so much the past. Act like you've just now run out of gas, don't imply that you ran out a while ago or she'll go down that “was I pressuring him when he wasn't interested” rabbit hole you were worried about.
TDLR; My wife's sex drive is more than I can keep up with. At this point it's anywhere between 3-6 times a day. How can I communicate that to her without hurting her feelings?
I would think pretty much anyone, even a 23 year old, would recognize that sex 6 times a day is a LOT. I would try telling her more or less what you just told us, you love her, you're attracted to her, you love your active sex life but you've only go so much energy and if you keep going at this rate your dick will turn to dust.
Bro, I’m gonna say this gently: the way you expressed your response reeks of insecurity. You need to get a handle on that if you’re going to keep this relationship.
First of all, she was brave enough to tell you the truth. You need to be equally brave in how you handle it.
Second, the things she says she wants: She wants to feel cared for. Sure, you can’t help the age or the car situation. You can still find ways to take care of her and show her she’s in good hands. Try out some acts of service and scale back on the goofy jokes.
Third thing: she still wants to make it work with you. You gave her the chance to break up and she still accepts and wants you in her life. That’s pretty awesome in itself.
Instead of taking all this personally, try sitting down and finding a way you can both get your needs met, without blowing up in each other’s face. That’s a good start to showing her you can be the man she needs.
Again, I apologize if this was too blunt. If all I did was piss you off by saying all this, it would probably be better if you let her go.
He probably masturbates with a death grip and too much
Are you asking if you’re being unreasonable for not allowing your wife to go on holiday with a guy she said is in love with her?
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I like to have lemon water with fresh basil, some artificial sweetener and ice cubes.
I get attention from alot of people. I’m fine without his
The normal amount of yelling is none.
I honestly thought it was him getting cold feet and freaking out about moving in (which was his idea) and once he just moved, he would be okay. But erm.. yeah. Hasn't gone that way ?
Gotcha!!
I do not think he'd agree with you on that one, he's very into me. I am worried he deserves someone better but we also discuss basically everything and I do show him a lot of affection because he does make me feel great and I want to make sure he feels the same too. I've also never been in a relationship before so like I rather give it a chance to see if I can grow as a person
I … didn’t understand that at all, and I’m afraid to Google. All those people were talking about … people who aren’t real?
We did have a very small cerimony, but the only people who assisted where my best friend (who was my best man), a couple other close friends i trusted and my horse.
And his horse. Of course.
Have you seen OPs NSFW profile? He’s gross. No wonder his wife wants to stray.
How many of your friends did you meet on tinder?