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Kodama Grey, 31 y.o.
Location: Washington, United States
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Date: December 14, 2022
I'm aware of that fact and it's just now catching up to me. I've been in relationships with toxic individuals since freshman year of high school, while those were less adult themed, I was still trying to heal people who had no intention to heal. I spent my entire childhood doing that and now I just want some time to be alone, regain my interests, and be myself again. It just feels exhausting because they're all moved in and adjusted, and im in the worst headspace I've ever been
Do you have a lease? Are both of your names on the lease? Do you split the costs evenly (rent, utilities and groceries?).
If yes to all of this, either take the loss and move out, or tough it out, and do not interact with her in any way beyond being a roommate. How many bedrooms are there?
no, he wouldnt have to work during the weekend, he took the weekend off but not tommorow. it isnt a normal kind of job, he works at a restaurant so he has a flexible schedule that changes every 2 weeks, managers always ask employees which days they want off
Honestly if you’re on the fence on how she would react, I would say don’t. I think getting maybe something related to what she enjoys or an experience/travel gift are usually the best ways to go.
When someone is feeling insecure about something, instead of highlighting that insecurity, making that person feel how loved they are by you is the best course of action. Another thing that could help show you care is speaking her personal love language. I hope this helps!
If this sort of behavior is enough to rock your world, you really should
NOT be drinking ….and maybe not even be socializing. I wish I had a buck for
every tipsy member of the group I helped to the powder room and then
helped back to their seat and kept a steadying arm in place to keep
them from failing out of the chair.
Give your angst some time off, will ya?
You should've paid her a surprise visit at work.
No, I think it more insecure people have more tools than they used to. Like hell my partner is going to be able to track locations or dig through my phone under some weird “open phone policy”. Being in a relationship does not remove my right to privacy. Either you trust me or you don't but I'm not being traced like a migratory bird, nor are you reading my personal conversations to ease your own insecurity.
He's her husband, not her master. If he had a problem with it, he talks to his wife that accepted the gift.
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You're 20 and when you're 40 you'll be laughing about how stupid and low score this guy was.
Let the trash take itself out. And prepare for more people, of all genders, who don't understand your sexuality because they have no empathy or feel threatened. It will happen again.
If it's a deal breaker then just leave. People have different preferences. I know a lot of people won't date people that smoke cigarettes. He has a right to not want to be with someone who does certain habits… and you have a right to do those habits. This is not about whether smoking/drinking is right or wrong… though I am sure many other commenters will make it about that. No one is wrong here. You just need to decide if that's a sacrifice you are willing to make. If not, that's ok
thank you. i don’t want to deal with whatever it whoever he wants to sex with
I've not used L in communication, only on here
Your girlfriend is now the one giving head lice to all the kids. Over and over again.
Tell her to fix her lice – or you will break up with her AND report her to her employer.
She could get fired if they find out she is going to a childcare situation with a FULL LICE INFESTATION THAT SHE IS NO LONGER TREATING. A once a week comb through is bullshit.
I feel so sorry for the other longhaired kids in the class she keeps giving it to.
Sounds like deliberate sabotage to me. Carry on with the party and honeymoon without your fiancé because it sounds like he’ll always put his brother ahead of you.
I actually really like that idea. Then he could have his own space and online how he likes, but we could still be together. After all, the issue didn't start until we lived together.
I don‘t understand why you ask for advice when you don‘t actually want to hear it.. Maybe you just need to make your own experiences. Good luck!
Right, I hear you. It’s just that, when we talked. I asked her if this was only a sex thing and she said no. I trusted her then.
Did you tell him no?
You can leave her. Why wait for her to leave you? There's no point. She's not giving you anything to work with. She's not listening to you at all and it's all about her.
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Uhhh, is she what?
He just told you after everything you suffered through with his addiction, he doesn't appreciate any of it. He isn't really sorry for it. He views you as a thing to serve his wants.
You deserve someone who treats you with love and kindness. You deserve someone who tells you you're beautiful.
This should be the last straw for you. The sooner you leave him, the sooner you can begin the next steps of your life.
i wish it wasnt either….
My husband is pretty protective, but he’s only ever gotten angry when a stranger looked like they were about to grab me because I had the audacity to touch their car in getting out of ours (they were parked over the line).
Anger and jealousy like you’re describing isn’t normal. It sounds like he doesn’t trust that you’re capable of protecting your own boundaries and your marriage, which is absurd unless there’s history we don’t know about (ie: a previous affair, but even that wouldn’t justify this kind of reaction – nothing justifies this reaction).
You’re not being selfish in considering that this isn’t the marriage you want to be in. Kids learn about relationships from their parents, and it’s perfectly reasonable for you to say “this isn’t the relationship I want modeled for our son.” If you are feeling like your feelings aren’t acceptable, I am curious why? Why do you feel like this is selfish? Is it because your husband has told you that?
Whatever you decide to do, I HIGHLY encourage (with everyone here) that he needs therapy and that it’s non-negotiable, you both need couple’s counseling, and you should see someone as well to work through some of this. There’s a lot to unpack here, but please know you did nothing wrong.
So she's still cheating then?
This is not my account, used my friend's. I'm not on Reddit
LMAO you're so dumb it's hilarious.
In all my comments I've mentioned I have “oral herpes”. ?? Thanks for the laught.
Oh and:
“According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH), more than 50%Trusted Source of people in the United States have contracted HSV-1 by the time they reach their 20s. Most people contract it during childhood.”
It goes up to 67% by 50 years old.
Learn the fucking basics before trying to teach someone. And btw, your comment about my sex life was:
disgusting
rude
and uncalled for.
What if she wants to do something that he has already done? That in itself takes away from the experience…or it becomes a repeat for him, which is back to the situation we started with.
Exactly! My best friends and I have known each other a similar amount of time and will openly discuss sex but we would never dream of accusing each other of lying. If you had any reason to suspect a friend was lying, why are you friends with them in the first place?