I do always be present with my gf wherever me and her go to. Just the problem is, is that ice skating was the most defining thing about being with my ex because north Sweden, cold weather etc. No other girl I have been with I went ice skating with.
What if it is? Not everything is fraught with deep meaning & intent. Sometimes a “like” is just “hey, nice photo” or even more random- I have liked portraits just because there was a book on the desk that I loved.
I don't think changing the other person is ever a solid basis for a relationship plan going forward. She is who she is and quite frankly this is something you should have been looking out for during the vetting pre-marriage. You own a little bit of blame for not vetting her well.
So you can try telling her that her behavior is going to be a deal breaker but I don't expect that to cause any lasting change. Most couples have the same fights over and over again for years. But most of those fights aren't around someone intentionally trying to inflict pain.
Surely he can sell his part to someone else without her consent
I do always be present with my gf wherever me and her go to. Just the problem is, is that ice skating was the most defining thing about being with my ex because north Sweden, cold weather etc. No other girl I have been with I went ice skating with.
What if it is? Not everything is fraught with deep meaning & intent. Sometimes a “like” is just “hey, nice photo” or even more random- I have liked portraits just because there was a book on the desk that I loved.
Right, I got a big o'l bowl of popcorn waiting
I don't think changing the other person is ever a solid basis for a relationship plan going forward. She is who she is and quite frankly this is something you should have been looking out for during the vetting pre-marriage. You own a little bit of blame for not vetting her well.
So you can try telling her that her behavior is going to be a deal breaker but I don't expect that to cause any lasting change. Most couples have the same fights over and over again for years. But most of those fights aren't around someone intentionally trying to inflict pain.