You need to handle this like a divorce if you are breaking up.
For eight years this woman sacrificed her career and raised your child. You agreed to it so don't start in now about wishing she had worked.
Figure out how to divide your assets including the house, and establish a reasonable support payment for her while she transitions to the work world. Raising children hugely diminishes a woman's earning potential so you should pay her for at least five years.
There are more things I'm worrying about, but honestly I just don't the capacity to worry or stress over what she had done anymore. It happened March 11 and I found out March 18th. I've spent all of the time from then on trying to fix my marriage up until last sunday, but she kept going back and forth with me for weeks playing with my emotions and now I'm just over it if that makes any sense. I don't know what I should be thinking or what the best course of action should be.
You need to handle this like a divorce if you are breaking up.
For eight years this woman sacrificed her career and raised your child. You agreed to it so don't start in now about wishing she had worked.
Figure out how to divide your assets including the house, and establish a reasonable support payment for her while she transitions to the work world. Raising children hugely diminishes a woman's earning potential so you should pay her for at least five years.
Make a separate plan to support the children.
There are more things I'm worrying about, but honestly I just don't the capacity to worry or stress over what she had done anymore. It happened March 11 and I found out March 18th. I've spent all of the time from then on trying to fix my marriage up until last sunday, but she kept going back and forth with me for weeks playing with my emotions and now I'm just over it if that makes any sense. I don't know what I should be thinking or what the best course of action should be.