This isn't about gut feelings. I'm kind of getting tired of that phrase. Sounds so Dubya-ish. The gut is wrong a lot.
This here is logic. His behavior isn't a red flag; it's a full police convoy with sirens howling. You're so much less important than his ex that he'll choose her pictures over you and attack you to defend them.
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One more thing. Back to the gut. Your feelings are leading you to guys who are potentially violent. It might be time to look at behavior+history and then make logical decisions based on evidence.
Hey OP, that's not what treating a person with respect looks like.
It's better to be alone than with a leech using you for your money and housework.
This isn't about gut feelings. I'm kind of getting tired of that phrase. Sounds so Dubya-ish. The gut is wrong a lot.
This here is logic. His behavior isn't a red flag; it's a full police convoy with sirens howling. You're so much less important than his ex that he'll choose her pictures over you and attack you to defend them.
…..
One more thing. Back to the gut. Your feelings are leading you to guys who are potentially violent. It might be time to look at behavior+history and then make logical decisions based on evidence.