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Date: September 28, 2022
I'm just gonna come right out say it: you are very immature, and you have some serious growing up to do. Yes, you are a monster for spreading her nudes, and you're lucky you didn't get in trouble with the law over it.
So, now that you're a self-admitted monster, what do you do with that knowledge? How do you grow?
Well, the first thing I would do is take the ex completely out of the equation. This is 100% about you, and how you react to things. You need to let go of her and any pain she caused you. You were right to feel hurt, confused, betrayed, etc.
But ask yourself: how much better did you feel about this after you engaged in revenge sex and distributing her private images? My guess is that you still feel just as shitty, maybe even more so, because you have now ruined her life. Let go of that resentment. Wanting to hurt her by hurting yourself is the same as you drinking poison, hoping it will affect only her.
You're still very young. Yes, you got cheated on, but my god man, the world is full of wonderful women. But will those wonderful women want anything to do with you if you're still the aggrieved child you are today?
One of the quickest ways you can start to grow up is to stop basing everything off of physical looks. Don't rate yourself. Don't rate others. It makes you sound like your in seventh grade.
And who gives a fuck if she hangs out with dudes who you subjectively think are “10s”. Comparison is 100% the thief of joy. Quit comparing your insides to other people's outsides. Appreciate your current girlfriend not because of how pretty you think she is. Appreciate her because she makes you feel good about yourself, through her words and her actions.
And if you absolutely insist on fretting about her hanging out with 10s, remember this: she chose you over them. There's something about you that attracts her to you. Maybe ask her what those things are, and then try to emulate them as you go through your days.
Lastly: set the perfect ideal for yourself. What kind of good man do you want to be, What kind of partner do you want to be? Make this ideal as perfect as possible. And then accept you will never ever ever live up to it. And that's perfectly, 100% okay. We aren't meant to ever reach that ideal, but we are meant to strive for it, every day. The goal is to be a better man than you were yesterday.
But what that looks like is up to you.
Good luck OP.
“Mom/Dad… From now on, you're getting one phone call once a week. Keep on calling me 40 times a day and you won't even get that.”
“Hey. We've discussed your porn addiction. I need you to actually start working on that and showing up to the relationship. Block those sites on your computer. Block porn feeds on your social media. You don't need to be perfect but start actually moving on fixing this.”