I feel for you, it sounds like a terrible position to be in. I suggest therapy for yourself, and not because you did anything wrong or anything like that, but to help you sort your feelings so you can decide for yourself how to move forward. I hope your results come back clear. 🤞
And I do know with certainty that he was the one to end it with her.
You read their text messages? Or you talked to the other woman? Were there other emotional affairs before?
I feel for you, it sounds like a terrible position to be in. I suggest therapy for yourself, and not because you did anything wrong or anything like that, but to help you sort your feelings so you can decide for yourself how to move forward. I hope your results come back clear. 🤞
Big assumptions there. Op has already commented that her bf cut contact entirely after being told about this.
The boyfriend slept with this girl 2 weeks after op and him broke up. I see no reason to think this was an ongoing issue rather than a one time thing.