I do not receive any mail. They have also never communicated that they expect me to receive the mail everyday. This only becomes an issue when she is feeling to lazy that day so demands I do it instead. And yes many times. I’ve explained to them several times they can not silently expect me to do things and then be upset if I don’t.
What can I do to get hubby to see dads side and to just ask to come or is hubby more in the right?
Without knowing the context around why they don't get along, it's very hot to know what's right here.
If the issues are minor, then they're both putting their egos above you and you children. Making them see it like this might help.
However, if they are being this stubborn about it, I feel like there must be more to the story that we're missing.
I do not receive any mail. They have also never communicated that they expect me to receive the mail everyday. This only becomes an issue when she is feeling to lazy that day so demands I do it instead. And yes many times. I’ve explained to them several times they can not silently expect me to do things and then be upset if I don’t.