It sounds like you may have some difficulty with intimacy and forming healthy connections with others. It's normal to have crushes and to be attracted to other people, but it's important to be able to manage those feelings in a healthy way and to not let them consume your thoughts and actions. It may be helpful for you to talk to a therapist about your experiences and to work on developing healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with your obsessions. In the meantime, try to focus on other aspects of your life and on building healthy relationships with people who you can connect with in a meaningful way.
She isn’t if they didn’t have a very long conversation in which this was all clearly defined. This was his idea and he claimed he had experience. I am doubting that due to his lack of communication around expectations that they both agree to follow. Actually, I’m mainly doubting that because he fully pressured her into this. Seems he gets to do what he pleases and hate keeps how she does things, without either of them agreeing as partners on the boundaries.
You've been dating 3 weeks. He's not entitled to this information until you're ready to share it with him.
It sounds like you may have some difficulty with intimacy and forming healthy connections with others. It's normal to have crushes and to be attracted to other people, but it's important to be able to manage those feelings in a healthy way and to not let them consume your thoughts and actions. It may be helpful for you to talk to a therapist about your experiences and to work on developing healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with your obsessions. In the meantime, try to focus on other aspects of your life and on building healthy relationships with people who you can connect with in a meaningful way.
She isn’t if they didn’t have a very long conversation in which this was all clearly defined. This was his idea and he claimed he had experience. I am doubting that due to his lack of communication around expectations that they both agree to follow. Actually, I’m mainly doubting that because he fully pressured her into this. Seems he gets to do what he pleases and hate keeps how she does things, without either of them agreeing as partners on the boundaries.
Going to room doesn’t mean consent for sex. What century do you guys like in 1800s?
This is actually what I needed to hear. Thank you