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Date: October 29, 2022
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I once dated a girl who returned to ex after we split. She trash talked him and other exes to me while we’re together, and I very specifically remember telling her that she needed to do better than me if we ever split. That hurt because in a way it felt like she was saying that he was better than me.
I say this to say that I can relate. I too missed the community we shared, I did not try to go back like you did and commend you in your strength for that. There were certain friends of hers that stuck around with me, others didn’t. I accepted that. The broader point is, that life moves on and the adage about not being able to put glass back together once it’s broken is true. The most important thing you do is protect yourself and make decisions that put you first. I wish you luck.
He doesn't have social media (that I know of anyways) but I went thru everything tbh..even found an old phone that would still charge and went thru that too..the text was the only thing of concern. Which leads me to believe he has obviously been deleting things as well. But he was very nervous and tense when he finally made it here… He couldn't leave work so I had his phone from 6am til about 5:45pm.
Thank your I'll try to make her relax and to ensure she doesn't blame herself for the tragedy.
I agree, not everyone can just have sex without emotion. That should have been discussed, as well as any other boundaries both parties had BEFORE they started this. Now my viewpoint is only takes into account the “fault” or the errors of the OP in this situation. I think she definitely had the start of an emotional relationship going and what the guidelines were some muddy or nonexistent. I still think she does have some blame to share. If we’re talking about the swinging situation as a whole, I would agree that the heavy majority of the blame is on the husband. I’ve been in her situation. It sucked. She did do something wrong. Her husband did a LOT of things wrong. Both parties have some blame to share.
How would it be less chores for him? Nannies don’t do a lot of chores unless you pay them double.
My “body count” is 1 not 8. Big difference
Why would you do this to yourself? You should always love yourself a lil more than a cheating partner and the comfort they give you.
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He’s negging you
Unhelpful and mean thanks for nada
THIS!
My friend was dating a guy who had a “roommate” and who was displaying similar behaviour; it turned out she’s his pregnant fiancé!
To be honest, he doesn't sound like a good partner.
Fear comes from insecurity, its literally his only job to make you feel loved, respected and secure in your relationship.
You seem like a warm and loving partner, you'll definitely be able to find someone who loves you the way you love them.
Fear shouldn't be a reason to stay in any relationship or unhealthy situation.
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We have been living with my mom for the past few months and it has been really naked on our relationship and individually. My mom is a bit of a hoarder and this makes my boyfriend crazy but also it makes him not participate in chores or dishes. I gladly do all the cooking but his unhelpfulness over the last few months has been the main reason we fight. I have trouble working 40 hours and doing all the cooking and cleaning. I have a horrible temper and being at my mom’s triggers my ptsd so I have been struggling to control my emotions. Plus just being exhausted from having to be my boyfriends full time house servant really doesn’t make it easier. I’ve had some really nasty days and he knows that this environment is toxic for me and not ideal. We would never have been here if it was not the only option.
Well in October we decided to start apartment hunting. No luck the market is terrible and we don’t make enough. Cue more fights.
About a month ago he tells me he found a place. I’m excited and just want to get out. We work completely opposite schedules so in order to expedite the process I said to him to just go see it himself and let me know. He comes back tells me it’s nice and we should go for it.
I’m happy and say ok go ahead with the application and ask if I need to do one. He said no and I think it’s weird but ok I trust him. And my credit sucks so I figured this was better and I would just be added as a roommate.
So as it turns out he completely blindsided me and got the apartment all for himself with no intentions of me moving out with him. He keeps saying that I can move in eventually but that wasn’t part of our original plan.
I’m so heartbroken I feel like he broke my trust. He saying I’m being dramatic and enforcing a narrative when I say I feel like I’m being abandoned. I want to break up and have said so many times but he won’t leave my moms house and just keeps insisting it’ll be fine. I’m not sure what to do?
tldr; boyfriend is moving out without me even though we agreed to do it together keeps saying nothing about relationship will change.
Yeah, he doesn't get over stuff. Therapy for him may help, but couples therapy will be him finding the proof he is right.
Best to end it. You aren't happy and he won't let things go, it gets old and repetitive.
You guys are incompatible. Either you move on and find someone wanting the same things or you give up what you want and resent her or the other way around.
I sounds to me like this is a kink of his, and not necessarily about jealousy or insecurities. I’m betting he’s getting off to listening and or watching you guys and girlfriend knows this.
The problem is that he’s breaking a naked boundary you have set and girlfriend is allowing it. You have a girlfriend problem, and you need to make sure she knows this is a deal breaker for you and can’t continue.
Yes I read that, and the point was the bf believing in the stretch out myth. That’s why that person brought up dicks. Your wife and whatever reputation she acquired as a result of banging 100 people has nothing to do with an argument that using dildos too much stretches you out. It is irrelevant to me how many normal guys believe in the stretch out myth either.
He broke up with you for her. He just forgot to let you know. You got angry with him that day or soon after (the day he showered after his new gf spent the day with him. What makes you think she wasn't in the shower with him?
i think you need to get into couples counseling and really see if your wife overheard Gabby say something or what the real issue is because she can’t be doing all this without a real reason.
1). Any guy can have a change of heart at any time, there's always risk 2) 12 years isn't the gap you think it is, or you guys wouldn't be together to begin with 3) he's too young to have thought about kids, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want them, just that he hasn't thought about them 4) it doesn't matter how handsome he is, it matters how important you are to him, and it seems you are very important to him.
This is a decision only you can make. But you are thinking in black and white. The odds of being together for 10 years and then breaking up are very low. Most likely things will get really obvious in less than 3 years. So it is not REALLY likely to be a lot of wasted time if you don't work out. But you don't want to risk throwing away something that could work out, either. So I lean towards sticking with him.
She broke up with you. She’s young and likely not mature enough to say something like, “I think this relationship has run its course and I’m ready to move on to a new chapter in my life.” Don’t analyze her reasons (because as I said, you don’t know if they’re even the real ones) and hear her message: the relationship is over. You already felt that you were drifting apart. Now you know you weren’t the only one feeling it.
I’m sorry it didn’t work out, but keep in mind that most young love does not. People change as they grow and their needs/wants evolve as well. It’s nobody’s fault. Enjoy the memories of your good years, think on them fondly, but follow your ex’s lead and start looking to the future. Best of luck!
OP posted an update and then deleted it because she was getting called out in the comments for being controlling and insecure
His personal situation isn't an excuse to drop it you, his faithful partner, that he demands DNA tests for all your future kids due to his mother's behaviour. You leaving immediately after learning your partner plans to punish you for his Mum's behaviour was a reasonable reaction to a shocking revelation.
Why are begging for this man back? It sounds clear he needs to be prioritising therapy to heal from learning of his childhood betrayal from his mother. Is continuing this relationship wise atm?
I would make consequences powerful enough that she would be in fear of ever disappointing you again. First I'd tell her I want paternity tests for our children. Even if I knew they were my children she needs to understand the mistrust she earned. Next, I'd request an STI test for both of us. I'd have divorce papers drawn and signed them. I would ask for a month to decide if I file for divorce.
She had sex all night with a man not worthy of shining your shoes, then came up with a lie so despicable you pitied her. She couldn't even afford your true emotions. The only reason she told you now is that she knows even if you leave; you will have to support her for at least six years. Don't be surprised if the truth was an exit strategy.
Thank you. I might do this but I just feel like washing your ass is something that should already be a learned life skill.. do most guys really not know how to clean??
Because the whole story is fake
It sounds like he might be unhappy with the amount of sex you two have. This means he wants to have sex with you more. So that means he does want you sexually. It slipped out as a joke. For whatever reason he chose not to talk to you about this. I can see why he would be uncomfortable talking to you about this issue based on how you reacted to his joke.
Couples having different sex drives is common. It's important to talk about this honestly in order to make sure the relationship is working for both people. Making him from guilty for expressing himself is a bad idea.
Do not engage with her. Literally grey rock and ignore. Even when she said “oh we used to joke” you could’ve said “oh really I didn’t find it funny”.
Give her nothing. Record everything. People always show themselves
I would also have an issue with being “told” to remove pictures from my own profile. Firstly, if they're over 7 years old, no one's looking at them. Secondly, they're dated, right? So “all your friends and family” know he has an ex…and? How's that an issue?
HOWEVER!
The response is really concerning. I understand he feelings of you being controlling, and I even agree. But he's still trash for his response.
The sad fact here is that he doesn't respect you. He can't. And of course, he's sorry now, you're in control of his living situation, and if he doesn't manage to grovel and keep you, he has to move out and fend for himself.
What about the next argument when you do something he doesn't like? And the one after that?
If you guys are together forever, you're going to disagree a lot. Is that something you feel safe doing with someone whose response is hatred?
I wouldn't be amazed if this genius forgot he gave his previous workplace as a reference
Only she knows that. I have friends I talk about a lot of deeper things with, we hug and do things that I guess could be questioned if I was to write it out, but I don't see them romantically, they are just friends. Until she expresses otherwise, I'd think she's only a friend.
If you want, you could bring it up to see if she feels anything more.
We all have fantasies, and some are more concerning than others. I think this requires a moment of quiet thought and some serious questions after that moment. Is this about body type, age, or ick, family relationships?
Its one thing a fleeting thought, collecting such as porn is a step up a ugly ladder.
First of all, you would put the dog in boarding.
You said, he doesn't want you doing that.
Sure, he can say he doesn't want you doing that, but what you should've done is, call the boarding place and take the dogs there yourself. Hecc, I even would go further as boarding the pups a day b4 you are supposed to leave.
Problem solved. Now he has nothing to complain, per pet sitting- issue. If he asks why you do this, just say that you want to try that specific boarding place, just in case, your bf is not around one day when you're away.
If he complains about your dogs, he probably felt like he 'has to' watch the dogs because he eats at your house for meals. But he doesn't have to, as you said in the comment. And it's going to make you feel better not to depend on him in that way.
So all he can complain later on is just how long you're gone and how he misses you. 🙂
Now is the time. Just block and don't look back.
Indeed. This definitely calls for an all cards on the table moment and it won't be pretty.
Thank you. I appreciate your advice
She led him to believe she was getting an abortion by blocking him and never contacting him after she had the kids. Honestly even if she wasn’t cheating, I’d be pissed if I was her kids and found out about this.
He’s a creep. Tell on him
I didn’t? I said or
You are the one who had a kid. Your kid didn't CHOOSE to be born. Your first priority and the priority of every parent needs to be their kid above everyone. Otherwise your just another shitty dad
I just don’t know what to do in the here and now, all I’ve wanted to do today is send a text to her, I’m trying to restrict myself but it just hurts so much to not even talk when we used to spend most days together
If there’s one thing I’ve learned from Reddit, it’s never to marry a momma’s boy.
Obvious reasons why he wouldnt. Easier to just lead her on. Money can do that.
I understand the challenges and I understand that this isn't your whole life but it does need to be your absolute priority. Just the very fact that you could hurt your wife or kid should make you stop and drop everything and do anything you can to fix this. I hope you find a way to get the support you need and deserve.
Why would need to get married? You both are going through a rough and not happy in your relationship. Since you’re in an open relationship, he can see other people while desiring a relationship with another woman, who probably isn’t cool with open relationships. You are not getting married.
You sound like a loser and a creep. she sounds like a mess and too young for you. Sounds like a good match. Go for it
You’ve only dated for seven months, and he’s spent a huge amount of that time lying to you. Walk away.
You're 21 friend, not 15. You shouldn't be playing these sorts of games. And if this is a friendship group where that sort of thing is considered normal or desirable or impressive then really you are shit people and you need to reflect on whether that is the company you want to keep.
Suck it up and tell her. It will absolutely get back to her and the damage control of telling her it now comes down to whether she still can respect or trust you as opposed to the other way around where she will absolutely inevitably assume the rumour is true and will carry that hurt forever.
I know I am being extremely harsh but you're an adult now. Time to grow up.
You are so right 🙁 I really am going to apologize and make him understand. I agree that he needs to take time for himself, he deserves that.
Just going to drop this here…
A mental health disorder does not excuse bad behavior. It just means that a person has a higher responsibility to communicate. They're not at fault for their disorder, but they are responsible for how they respond to others.