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Just because something is shallow doesn't make it immoral. If you have a desire for more sex and you're not getting it at the moment, then it'd be the right thing to break up with your girlfriend first. I'm just highlighting that this isn't going to be smooth. She will get hurt, and I'm just hoping you realize that and take the necessary steps to be as tactful as possible when letting her down.
Thank you! I am going to contact some tomorrow. I need to get ahead of this and I truly need to break free of this ridiculous marriage. I just am sad bc of the kids. That’s always what makes me stay.
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Just because something is shallow doesn't make it immoral. If you have a desire for more sex and you're not getting it at the moment, then it'd be the right thing to break up with your girlfriend first. I'm just highlighting that this isn't going to be smooth. She will get hurt, and I'm just hoping you realize that and take the necessary steps to be as tactful as possible when letting her down.
Stating the obvious, stop drinking. Ideally, both of you.
Let’s assume he is accurate and you’re abusive when intoxicated. Being sober later doesn’t excuse that.
Let’s say he is inaccurate and he is gas lighting you when he has been drinking.
Either way, alcohol is having serious adverse consequences to your relationship and personal well-being.
Thank you! I am going to contact some tomorrow. I need to get ahead of this and I truly need to break free of this ridiculous marriage. I just am sad bc of the kids. That’s always what makes me stay.
I’m more baffled how you both are going to get married but this hasn’t been brought up?! Talk about it asap, you have nothing without communication.
It's only 2 wrongs in your moral opinion. Not everyone shares that opinion.