You can talk to him but that's about the best you can do. If divorce isn't an option you're in for a wild one, considering you don't compromise on kids.
You just mentioned you don't want them because you think you wouldn't be a good mom. If you think that, don't switch up your thoughts for someone else. Kids are a life long commitment. And there is no trial run.
Also, why did you marry someone who doesn't agree with your child view?
You do you.
I was 37 when I met my SO (34 at the time). we smashed on avg 2x a day for the 1st 2 yrs of our relationship. Both worked full time.
Slowed down a bit to 3-5x a week. A few kiddos will hamper that….imo of the attraction is there…why not
If it’s an impossible relationship then why are you seeing her. You already know it’s over before it started.
Why are you having a lot of casual relationships? Maybe it’s time to let her go and focus on more serious relationships now.
You can talk to him but that's about the best you can do. If divorce isn't an option you're in for a wild one, considering you don't compromise on kids.
You just mentioned you don't want them because you think you wouldn't be a good mom. If you think that, don't switch up your thoughts for someone else. Kids are a life long commitment. And there is no trial run.
Also, why did you marry someone who doesn't agree with your child view?