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Date: January 6, 2023
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It’s not the worst true, but seeing as abuse would be #2 and killing your partner would be #1, being 3rd place isn’t something that should be applauded.
2 options 1. end the relationship. 2. Talk to her, and get her to explain what she meant when she said it. Depending on her reasoning, then you can either work on keeping the relationship, or go back to option 1.
How is moving the cat bowl solving the problem of her disrespecting his boundaries, putting others in danger, and acting selfishly?
So when they have kids and she’s putting the kids in danger, should he run around and try to move things left or right to make things slightly better?
He’s married, I’m engaged. I miss him a lot but seems like we both have relatively happy lives so i don’t want to mess with him… but he keeps looking at my facebook/instagram stories immediately after i post them so it’s been getting under my skin a little. I dont want to visit him in person rn
Why does your interests have to be her interests? Do you like all of hers? Probably not. If she’s likes knitting does that mean you need to take up knitting too? Being in a relationship with someone who expects this kind of alignment is exhausting and frankly kind of toxic.
Girl how many red flags do you need?
Ugh. The clingyness aside, is this how you want to on-line your life? Having sex because he's coerced you into it? Pelted with nasty comments? I'd want to get out of there, too.
Since pops is a liar, cheat & coward it is possible that he lied about her being his daughter.
It’s not your job to sin eat for your father. Tell your mother exactly what happened and was said and give her the agency she deserves. Good luck.
You have a great relationship with a person who dotes on you, but you're bored.
Pull your head out your ass
You're something else trying to make it seem like your boyfriend set you up for that mess. Smdh
Yeah. She kept it ‘private’ from me but not at least three others in our circle. Go figure.
Let it burn baby, I’m glad she’s out of my life 🙂
Or French!
When my partner was with his ex and a condom broke he went and got her plan B to be safe. Neither of them wanted kids yet (we now have 1 with another on the way). That's someone who doesn't want kids atm. He clearly wants kids. He also moved VERY fast from 'hey I might be pregnant', ordering furniture, making plans to move etc, I wouldn't consider it impossible that he tampered with the condom. Maybe he didn't, it just seems very suspicious. Either way, he clearly wants kids and you don't. Long term it isn't going to work out. Also it's super controlling that he didn't ask for your opinion on any of the plans etc and just decided what you are doing, do you want to be with someone who thinks they can make life changing decisions on your behalf that go against what you want?
“This man is taking advantage of the fact that you might have been pregnant and seems set on isolating you and determining your life for you” conveys plenty. Including ther she should stop fucking him, should take control of her own birth control, and should flee his vicinity. All based on what we know to be true and not based on what could be true.
It is odd that this is the hill YOU have decided to die on
I believe in most parts of the US as well. Some states do have different laws for the craziest things so I can’t say overall but the two states Ivd lived in do…
yet I know a girl (in second state) who never reported her ex for doing such and is mostly keeping it a secret for him bc she later started dating a friend of his (ex doesn’t know about still after yearS and even afraid to post on-line about said relationship) and ex has threatened her to expose their videos/ photos which is yet another crime in it’s self even if just a threat and yet has yet to come clean girl knows he’s being doing such to other women and honestly after I found that out I felt horrible even talking to her again bc for her own protection of her family seeing her nude(which could have def been another legal actions against him) she chose not to protect many many others….
My point being in saying that is please do NOT be afraid to fight for your rights. He never told you until he pressured you to not have a condom. He knowingly and willingly did this. In some states and countries this is most definitely illegal. I’m glad you went to get checked right away and decided to leave someone who threatened your health. If you feel the need to take It forward don’t be afraid.
You don’t.
You're not in a marriage, you're in a cohabitation of convenience……
Never. I’ve never cheated in any relationship or gotten close. I’ve never done anything like that neither has he. We have both been cheated on in the past but I don’t take it out on him.
Not sure. I asked him and he said he doesn’t want me to get hurt and doesn’t want random men preying on me but I’m grown and can take care of myself.
Clubbing isn’t the world to me but I don’t see anything wrong with going out with my girls every once in a while
Nope sex 4 times a year is NOT normal
Don’t tell her, stop looking, easy fixed ?
I suppose you could try couples counseling but honestly, she sounds horrible.
I literally didn’t realise that it wasn’t funny, I couldn’t even read his body language until after writing all this down. Only after he was upset I realised I fucked up. This is why I feel so bad. It’s the opposite of who I try and be, like I honestly make such an effort to be a nice person I’m constantly thinking about it, and I do normally do a lot of good for people. But sometimes I get carried away and say some really careless shit, I just don’t wanna be like this anymore.
You didn't mention your offer to rent an apartment with her.
This is the only reasonable offer.
If you want your boundaries respected you need to have some skin in the game.
Jesus I couldn’t imagine how my wife would react if I was making new female friends and talking with them all the time.
She was INTERESTED in him. You are willfully being ignorant.
I hope you're happy.
I'm not sure why you decided to date a man that was being inappropriate with YOU when your situation together started. He did this with you while in a relationship, why do you think it would be any different while you were with him?
This man doesn't understand what boundaries are. He shouldn't be talking to friends like that. I honestly believe he wants more with these people. Maybe he keeps a new woman around in case things go sour in his relationship? I don't know.
You shouldn't have to need to check his conversations. While I realize you have reasons, it means you don't trust him. That's a problem. Why are you with someone that you can't trust?
Yes I seriously doubt OP is parenting 50% of the time, especially since they didn't on-line together to start. And how much housework and unpaid labour does he do?
you guys aren’t dating if you’ve never met. he only lives 45 minutes away not 45 hours, there’s no excuse after 2 months. stop wasting your time. there’s plenty of other people out there.
He's lying, he went and cheated and then he got blackmailed into paying someone to be quiet. Even if he was offered money it's still cheating and he's still about as sharp as a spoon. 10/10 break up with this loser.
I agreed. It would be beyond cruel and cowardly to end your relationship on the phone.
Look, my partner is this chubby, bald, older ball of love and he is the sexiest man I’ve ever seen in my life. Fictional or otherwise. Your wife will most likely melt for your efforts. Like everyone else said, have fun with it! Do the whole “rose in the teeth” sexy thing. Don’t worry about your body.
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We’ve been together for almost 10 years and are currently expecting a baby. This is not a bashing post. She is a great woman and I’m lucky to have her in my life. We’ve had our ups and downs but have always worked through them, but I genuinely feel like our romance has run it’s course.
She’s pregnant & we are supposed to get married next month. It’s not that we are in a toxic relationship, because we’re not, but we are in an unhappy relationship, and we have been for a long time. We are both really excited about this baby, but I don’t think that we’re excited for us. When we talk about it, it doesn’t feel genuine from both of our ends, but it's probably because we're scared of the outcome. Im pretty sure she tried to end it while we were cake testing, but she didn't. That day has been on my mind ever since.
I went drinking with my dad last weekend. He married my mom because she got pregnant with me. They divorced when I was 9, and looking back, they were constantly fighting. They became much better parents when they were apart, rather than together. I see how my dad and step-mom are, and my siblings are around the same age I was when my parents were fighting. They’re best friends in love, raising their children. He told me to not make the same mistake that he did. If we’re not happy and just getting married because of the baby, do not do it. Focus on being friends and great parents rather than at each other’s throats and stressed parents. I’ve been thinking about this for the past few days, and he’s right.
I know I ask how, and I know some might say just flat out bring it up, but please keep in mind that we’ve been together for almost 10 years. It’s more about where, when, and how. Our life as we know it is going to change drastically, and I’m having trouble bringing this conversation up because the outcome will cause great change. Advice on how to handle the outcome will also be greatly appreciated.
I’m in therapy.. For this and trauma
She propably deleted video now or she will tell you so. You won't be able to check now, you should check he date before.
Anyway, having gf who was ran through 3 guys at once. Oooffff.
Sounds like fun girl. Doesn't sound like serious relationships material
I have one question…. if you didn't know about this, what else don't you know?
I refuse to believe that these people are over 25
Just walk away my guy. Find yourself a woman who isn't attached at the navel to her parents and hometown.
Why didn't you just ask her the obvious.
“So why didn't you just tell him you are engaged and show the ring?”
I respectfully disagree.
The person can remove consent before being asleep or when waking up.
Listen…..I'm a 55yr old woman who knows some stuff. You do not need her in your life. When you're in a relationship you support each other, and in this case I'm not talking financially. She knows your situation and still acts like a snotty brat who hasn't gotten her own way. What's next? A range rover? A 8 carat diamond ring for your $200,000 wedding? Probably no sex if she can't go shopping. The list goes on and on.
Do yourself a favor…leave, enjoy yourself for a bit and when you're ready, find a cool girl who matches your vibe. She's out there!!
There's a trend to shit on any age gap these days. It's ramping up to the point where it will be discriminated against to date anyone who isn't born in the same year as you. Then again I'm fairly certain this is just happening to a subset of people and should easily be possible to be ignored.
Narcissists are great at that. Seeming one way but being something totally different. Master manipulators with little empathy
You can't stop it popping into your head, all you can do is keep telling yourself it doesn't matter when it pops in.
When I was younger I had the same problem. As you get older you realise that it just doesn't matter.
So long as you're happy with your relationship with her, stuff she did before you just doesn't matter all that much. Don't let the last become an enemy of your present and future.
It sounds like you have a great friend.
“Intimacy is something I need in a romantic relationship. We get along well, and blah blah blah, but we are not compatible”
I'd like to think I'm pretty diligent. I don't just leave dishes and clothes all over with the expectation she'll clean it, but, I don't think that just because I don't start washing a dish the very second I'm done with it, means I deserve to get yelled at.
You can't have a healthy relationship without trust and given that you guys can't agree on watching porn, I doubt this relationship is going to last.
I think that the alcohol + the fact that we haven't seen each other face to face in over 4 months + running into an attractive dude led her to having these thoughts. The fact that she told me right away eventhough i would have no way of finding out if something ever happened, because of the long distance and us having no shared friends there, makes me think it's all good. Appreciate all the people that were trying to help out.
“And since I moved house, I have no friends or family near me (ALL of my time is spent with him)”
I’m staying in a hostel (women only dorm) to meet other travellers
From the start of our relationship I’ve let me boyfriend know about my dreams of solo travelling.
He's isolating you. Red flag city.