Next time just apologize and let him know you didn’t mean to hurt him. Don’t try to explain it away as that can appear to be making excuses. Maybe just go apologize and tell him you love him, maybe he had in his head that his is considered big, maybe it’s because you said big ones hurt and that got him thinking about you being with guys that have bigger dicks. Who knows… idk what to tell you I think he’s being a bit dramatic but maybe you weren’t apologetic enough either.
Life happens. Relationships change everyone to some degree and your own relationship with that person either adapts or fades away. I suggest you learn to adapt.
There are so many reasons why the situation may now feel uncomfortable and you will end up chasing a rabbit down a whole if you go the route of trying to figure out what caused the change. Instead I recommend you accept a change has occurred for whatever unknown reason and just roll with it. Ask him if there are aspects of your relationship that he's uncomfortable with now he has a partner. Be okay with the fact he will have a lot less time for everyone in his life because partners take up a lot of time. Be yourself around his partner and don't try foolish stunts to either impress her or convey she has nothing to worry about. Just let the dice land where they may and work with the roll you get.
Next time just apologize and let him know you didn’t mean to hurt him. Don’t try to explain it away as that can appear to be making excuses. Maybe just go apologize and tell him you love him, maybe he had in his head that his is considered big, maybe it’s because you said big ones hurt and that got him thinking about you being with guys that have bigger dicks. Who knows… idk what to tell you I think he’s being a bit dramatic but maybe you weren’t apologetic enough either.
You need to confront her—with your wife sitting beside you—and tell her what she did was so disrespectful and wrong.
Your husband instigated yours and other womens rape. This is so sick.
Life happens. Relationships change everyone to some degree and your own relationship with that person either adapts or fades away. I suggest you learn to adapt.
There are so many reasons why the situation may now feel uncomfortable and you will end up chasing a rabbit down a whole if you go the route of trying to figure out what caused the change. Instead I recommend you accept a change has occurred for whatever unknown reason and just roll with it. Ask him if there are aspects of your relationship that he's uncomfortable with now he has a partner. Be okay with the fact he will have a lot less time for everyone in his life because partners take up a lot of time. Be yourself around his partner and don't try foolish stunts to either impress her or convey she has nothing to worry about. Just let the dice land where they may and work with the roll you get.